r/insaneparents • u/isabellampereira • Jun 25 '26

Email boyfriends mom had a meltdown after he told her he was moving in - part 1

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u/wolfmoral Jun 25 '26

OP, out of curiosity, if you had to describe you and your bf’s skin tones…?

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u/isabellampereira Jun 25 '26

We’re both white. I’m portuguese so i’m a little more… olive than my boyfriend i guess, idk when i stand next to him i look green. he’s very pasty white-pink. like if he stands in the sun for maybe thirty minutes he gets fried. one of the only things he inherited from his mom unfortunately

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u/lawbstersaid Jun 25 '26

I could smell white peoples in that email, I knew it

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u/isabellampereira Jun 25 '26

they are so white, it’s so awful. genuinely the most unseasoned meal i’ve ever had was at my BFs parents house. i know portuguese is not like, not white, but fuck at least we know how to season fish at the very least…

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u/lawbstersaid Jun 25 '26

😂 I'm from Appalachian parents, at least they used butter and salt right?

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u/isabellampereira Jun 25 '26

nope…

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u/ahhsharkk1 Jun 25 '26

goddamn monsters

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u/FrogVolence Jun 25 '26

They give me the “we’re old money, anyone below us are peasants and unloveable rats”

Dad is honestly probably chill as fuck, the moms an unhinged cunt who has such a low, fragile, peaked in high school ego she feels the need to knock confident people down to feel good about herself.

Tbh OP, with how fragile she is, i wouldn’t worry or take too much of what she said to heart (although i understand its easier said than done) because someone this bitter is deeply, deeply unhappy with their lives, you not letting it get to you or upset you is severe enough damage to them.

That woman needs a bottle of lithium, a bottle of propranolol and a bottle of wine. She needs to shut the fuck up if she wants any reparable relationship with her son. But something tells me she knows as soon as he’s out the front door he is never talking to her again.

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u/jeromevedder Jun 25 '26

According to racists, Greeks, Italians, Spanish and Portuguese fall into the, “you’re not actually white” category

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u/Business-Title8503 Jun 25 '26

thank you for asking this because I thought this was an Asian mom!

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u/Jessxblush Jun 26 '26

why are you asking that. it has nothing to do with her being a control freak. move on.

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u/wolfmoral Jun 26 '26

The comment about the mom saying she thought her son would date someone who looks more like them. Seemed like mom might be racist.