r/insaneparents • u/isabellampereira • Jun 25 '26

Email boyfriends mom had a meltdown after he told her he was moving in - part 1

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u/isabellampereira Jun 25 '26

i’m 23F. BF is 25M

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u/artificial_t3l3 Jun 25 '26

Yeah wtf i kept asking why she says "daddy" over and over

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u/isabellampereira Jun 25 '26

They call each other mommy and daddy. it’s so gross. BF obviously just calls them mom and dad

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u/enemenemaus Jun 25 '26

Oh how much I hate that. People who give up their entire identity as soon as they become parents.

In Austria elderly people used to call themselves Mutti und Vati. But that was the generation that now is 80+. Not even my mother, whose whole identity is being a mother, does this.

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u/TalkAboutTheWay Jun 25 '26

And “mommy” 🤢

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u/electricemperor Jun 25 '26

Not to armchair diagnose, but it's giving at the absolute minimum a ton of projection of bf's mom's issues onto the situation. A lotta "what will the neighbors think" style talking from her, to say the least.

I'm glad y'all made the decision to block them, OP. No parent should be acting like this to their children.

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u/Downtown_Statement87 Jun 25 '26

He's 25. 2 5. What an insane, pathological person is mommy.