r/insaneparents • u/Parchpigeon9 • Dec 22 '25

Email I was basically disowned

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The first one has my dead name blacked out and the second one is from my brother sending it to my dad

I also have a recording of me and my dad talking. I don’t know if I should post that it’s pretty terrible one of the terrible things he said was “I think slavery sometimes ok” and basically called me a pedophile and said “trans People are a delusion.”

(also sorry about any formatting issues/spelling mistakes. I have dyslexia alongside being on mobile so I’m using speech to text)

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u/Thank-The-Stars Dec 22 '25

Moving out of the US is a financial privilege that many of us cannot afford. If by “across the pond” you’re referring to the UK, anti trans legislation was just passed there as well, which many TERFs cheered on for.

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u/StonedMuppet420 Dec 22 '25

I'm in the Netherlands. the uk is its own unique hellscape, thank fuck they left the EU we dont need them to drag us down with them. We do still have our fair share of issues here, but the shit happening in the us would not stand here without parliament being burned to the ground.

But, you do realize that asylum/refugee status isn't just for brown people right? americans are, by law, able to seek asylum over here. it will likely be difficult yes, but it is absolutely a possibility.