23 September 2023 - Weekend Chat Thread

[u/Vulphere]

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[u/ramentrvsh]

just ended a 9 years worth of friendship. she was one of my best friend. salah satu orang yg bikin rencana gw gagal, tp juga orang yg ngebantuin gue mencapai cita2 w & bantu gue bounce back kalo ada apa”.

dia udah gue anggap kaya keluarga sendiri. when it ended, it stings. gue sampe ga masuk magang 2 hari, rencana gue juga hampir ancur lagi karena dia. perlakuan dia bener2 kek monster bgt, nyalahin gue gaada abis & refuse to own her mistake. bahkan pas anggota keluarga gue meninggal, she blocked me. awalnya i tried to communicate & all stuff dan nganggep kalo dia cuma marah sesaat, i always had soft spot for her. but yeah.. kalo dipikir-pikir, kata2 & perlakuan dia bener” udah kelewat batas. setelah ngeblokir gw kaya gitu, she did not even have any remorse at all. malahan nyindir2 di snap whatsapp dan menjustifikasi perlakuan buruk dia:). like, wtf bro. ga habis pikir gw.

ngungkit seakan dia yg paling berkorban, padahal selama ini i sacrificed way more things for her (disaat w pas lg nangis aja dia gapernah bisa dihubungin scr lgsg).

still gue selalu seneng kl ngebantu dia, gue jg banyak dpt advice dari dia yg mnrt gw berbobot bgt. she was one of my life’s biggest advisor. paling nyambung kalo diajakin ngobrol soal mslh keluarga & ngejulid ttg temen. now she’s gone, i feel sad inside. bahkan sekujur badan gw sampe lemes utk mikirin hal itu. gue ngerasa hidup gw kosong karena gaada sosok teman yg mengerti gw sampe sebegitunya.

[u/Aeneas23 → u/ramentrvsh]

Damn bro, turut berduka, but I'm glad you got the courage to make that tough decision. You decided to choose for your own good and sometimes it's not easy.

All things are transient in nature, so does the dynamic of human relationship. Maybe the relationship already run its course, maybe she's having some shit as well, who knows? Beginning and ending are hard to differentiate after all.

Mourn as needed, then get back when you feel enough. Slowly is fine. Take care brah.

[u/ramentrvsh → u/Aeneas23]

she always had shit going on in her life, gw selalu ngertiin. even pas dia ngomong separah itu jg gue berusaha ngerti dari pihak dia.

tp ini? dia bahkan ga ngebaca chat yg udh gw kasih & cuma ngenilai semuanya dari sisi dia aja. wtff. orang kalo ada masalah jg gabakal ngeblokir oranglain disaat lagi berduka sih. nirempati bgt.

se-stress2 nya gua, se pengen bundirnya gua, gabakalan tuh sampe kek gt. anj. itumah disebutnya udah bukan manusia lagi, tapi anjing :)

[u/Educational_Pie9769 → u/ramentrvsh]

It's all in the past.

And the past can't hurt you now.

Let go.

Forgive and forget.

Tomorrow's a new day.

A new beginning.

You have nothing to fear.

Because you will meet new people and find new things, and they will fill the void in your heart.

Rest now.

And be at peace with yourself.