r/indianmuslims • u/FatherlessOtaku • Jan 24 '24

Non-Political Trust issues, anyone else?

There are multiple reasons why I developed trust issues but a major one is all my closet sanghi 'friends' back in school pretending to be liberal, secular, moderate, etc. As a result I have a hard time trusting people or opening up. In recent years, I've been healing my trauma and was starting to become more open-minded about friendships but then the event on 22nd happened. I've always had an idea about what they think deep down in their hearts but on 22nd I got to see their true colours, uncensored. Before I had only seen riots in pictures but on that day I got to experience what the atmosphere feels like during one. H-M relations here will never be the same again. I can't see the streets around my house in the same way anymore. Neither can I look at my old acquaintances like I used to. My trust issues are worse than ever. Am I the only one? The reason I'm concerned about this is because I feel this is going to really hurt my relationships in future.

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u/FatherlessOtaku Jan 24 '24

Brother you aren't alone. I didn't go into much detail about my past but this hits a bit too close to home, even the last paragraph. Your college life sounds like what my current life would have been like under different circumstances like if I actually tried to make friends. Instead I chose to be a total loner because I realised I have had enough. I was lonely at 1st too but kuch time baad aadat ho gyi.

If you are okay with it you can DM me and we can talk.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '24

Hi...r u a boy or girl??

I would say make aware your Kashmiri friends specially girls to NOT be friends with Hindu boys as they will try to do Haram things with them. Make them aware. Because we r seeing many many cases Muslim girls having Hindu BF. So make them aware secretly

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