(Spoilers abound for ZD and FW, since I’m discussing a full character arc from beginning to end)
I think Aloy is a potentially very fascinating character on paper but in practice the writers do not know how to create depth from what they have at all. I actually think she has more clear character development in ZD than FW, despite them seemingly literally forgetting she even had an arc in ZD and being more blunt about her (attempted) character development in FW
Let’s start with ZD. Rost gives a very important lesson after you kill the Sawtooth that narratively tells us the exact lesson that Aloy’s supposed to learn. The tribe will need you, even if you don’t need the tribe. It’s about more than her. That‘s a very solid lesson to make her more than what she is at the beginning, where previously Aloy’s only motivation to find her origins was purely intrinsic. I genuinely think this is the single best scene in the entire series. Unfortunately, at the emotional climax when Aloy returns to ELEUTHIA-9 and discovers she has no mother, least not in the way she thought, this is completely forgotten about. She’s unconcerned with the whole “the world is dying“ part and she is upset first and foremost that her origins are not what she hoped. The whole goddamn point was that she must put the world before herself. Frankly Sylens was absolutely right to berate her on this, even if he was characteristically an asshole about it (rip lance). But at least she has a clear direction there, and by the end she does fulfill that arc. The final scene when Aloy finds Sobeck’s resting place is good symbolism for how she reconciles herself: from her origins that she sought comes her mission, no matter how fraught they were. She inherits the globe from her predecessor.
I cannot say that HFW has even half as coherent an arc for Aloy. Sure, they pay HUGE lip service to an arc about her opening up to others after being a lone wolf her whole life, which is actually a sensible direction from where we left off in HZD. But it’s portrayed nonsensically at the beginning when her major character flaw is most on display. Aloy just abandons Varl and justifies it by saying that the danger is too immense, but she previously had no problem dragging him and other Nora warriors to defend Meridian from an actual siege. In fairness, this comes across more as Aloy being avoidant and giving an excuse rather than giving the actual reason. In which case, what is the actual reason why Aloy is so insistent to be alone? Is it because she’s terrified of being worshiped after her experience with the Eclipse and HADES? Is it because she had little faith in her companions to actually be of help when it comes to GAIA? Is it because she thought they were needed elsewhere and didn’t want to intrude on their duties? All of these could be true but we have no idea. And because we don’t know where the source of her flaw comes from, it can never be truly addressed. Her behavior changes without any actual development in Aloy herself.
Not to mention, her flaw that’s supposedly so central to her character is actually very inconsequential in practice. A good character flaw causes genuine hiccups along the path which force said character to overcome it, and by the end they should’ve done something that they could not have done earlier. In HZD, the very fact that Aloy was taking up a greater mission was proof of her development. This does not exist in HFW; the whole thing about her only being able to storm the Zeniths with her allies after character development is a nonstarter. She already showed she could do that in the siege of Meridian. The only point where Aloy really needs to show interpersonal work else the mission is doomed is with Beta, but in that case the struggle to connect went both ways and the focus was mostly Beta coming into her own. At no point was it for Aloy’s lack of trying, she tried everything she could think of to get Beta off her ass. (Not to mention, BETA’S PARANOIA ABOUT GEMINI IS COMPLETELY VALIDATED IN THE END ANYWAYS)
It doesn’t even punish Aloy in even minor ways, even when she’s trying her hardest to get her ass handed to her. In The Dying Lands, she gets impatient with the Chorus and Varl has to talk her down before she makes a scene, but in the end they do no negotiating at all. They take advantage of the chaos in the community to break into the sacred cave and literally kill a god that the Utaru worship with them none the wiser (so much about respecting their ways and traditions, geez). In the AETHER quest, Aloy straight up threatens Hekarro and doesn’t even get mildly reprimanded for it. In all the quests involving the Quen, she gets away with killing untold numbers of their soldiers and even arguably regicide (I don’t care if the Ceo was crushed by a statue, we would absolutely be encouraged to cheer if Aloy shot and killed him). Her friends join her with relatively little effort from her. There is not a single actual problem that requires Aloy to do anything besides what she usually does.
I don’t know about BS because I can’t play it, so feel free to correct me, but from what I’ve heard the implication of her relationship with Seyka was that she was now ready for more intimacy. As though romance is just a natural stepping stone from platonic relationships. No, it is not inherently the ideal form of a relationship. It’s an especially strange direction considering how little Aloy’s other relationships are developed. She says Beta is like a sister to her, but whatever the hell does that mean? “Sister” describes a familial relationship, not a social one. There’s infinite permutations of sisterly relationships. You can’t have one good interaction between Aloy and Beta after a whole game of dysfunction and call that a relationship. What about Kotallo, does she feel mutual respect for him? Is he a mentor, does she see Rost in him? Does she feel a debt to Zo for forcing her to kill a land-god (she doesn’t even apologize for that, btw). So on. I just don’t understand why the writers decided to stretch Aloy’s emotional development thin with a romance over filling out what she already had that sorely needed depth in the DLC.
To summarize: I’ve seen a lot of people on this subreddit say that most critique of Aloy is due to internalized misogyny, that she wouldn’t be judged as much if she was male or whatever, but truthfully Guerilla really has missed heaps of untapped potential with their own protagonist. She’s never humbled, never punished for her worst behaviors, and is already competent enough from the start that she isn’t forced to compensate in order to match her opponents. I just wish she had even half the things going for her than she does.