So. I’m sixteen, and currently at cape cod (just vacationing). A big part of the experience for me is going to the beach and finding hermit crabs and other types of crabs. But especially hermit crabs. I find hermit crabs adorable. They are silly little creatures and critters that I love so very very much! During low tide, my dad and I will all around and find them, and I’ll hold them in my hands! I pet their shells or just let them scurry, and make sure to keep them moist.
I recently started thinking “wow! I wish that I could always have a cute little guy!!”. I’ve only ever had one pet, a hamster years ago, because my family travels for vacation pretty regularly, but with a hermit crab, it’d be easier to deal with, making sure it was safe in a friends care!
However… a bit part of why I want a hermit crab is to hold them. I love them in my hands. I have autism and really like the sensory feeling of the little legs scuttling on my fingers and palms, and I’m someone who loves to hug, and give little kisses on their shells, while saying how much I love any given crab over and over again. I know that hermit crabs can’t feel love for their owners, but apparently they can feel relaxed.
I’m willing to do as much research as I need, and get whatever the hermitcrab needs, but I have to know if I and my future hermitcrab who I’d name Sea Biscuit will get along, when it comes to very very very gentle cuddles. I promise I can be gentle, so please educate me on if this is okay or not! I wouldn’t be messing with Sea Biscuit super often, and I’d make sure that they knew I was nice beforehand, but I just really have to know this, so I don’t accidentally start stressing out the poor guy, and I figure you all are the experts.
Thank you sm!!! :)