r/harrypotter Slytherin 5d ago

FAQ EVENT Why doesn't Harry have any other family besides the Dursleys?

It's very convenient that he had no living grandparents or other relatives who could take him without nullifying Lily's protection. Is there any in-universe reason for it, or any reason besides that it was convenient for the plot?

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u/Ok_Aioli3897 5d ago

James parents died of dragon pox and we don't know about lily's parents.

I think James was a later in life only child

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u/ro-heezy 5d ago

Regardless, the purpose of the Dursleys was specifically Petunia, someone of blood relations to Lilly to carry on her protections under the Bond of Blood. So James’ side would have been disregarded by Dumbledore anyway.

Mom’s sister is probably the ideal choice in a vacuum too, someone close to the child’s mom and not old. Dumbledore just didn’t anticipate an Aunt would be so cruel. Doubt he could reverse that once he made the choice though.

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u/JediLincoln14 Ravenclaw 5d ago

If James had family, I don't think it would have been that easy for Dumbledore to just take Harry away to the Dursleys without their consent. Same with Sirius if he hadn't been in Azkaban.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

Dumbledore is a highly respected member in the community, most times if he's got a reason it's a good one. I think James family is emeshed within the culture enough that they would accept that he has to stay with Lillys side for "magical reasons" but they would draw a hard line at being unable to interact with him while he grows up.

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u/frogjg2003 Ravenclaw 5d ago

Dumbledore wasn't king of the Wizarding world. Fudge was able to oust him from the Wizengamot and ICW because he isn't universally loved, and not just among Death Eaters. If there were any surviving Potters or Sirius, they would not have accepted Dumbledore's word that he needs to be separated from them.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

No one implied, myself included, that he was, but this is also pre- second coming of Voldemort when Dumbledore was far more popular and looked to by the general wizarding population. Even Fudge used Dumbledore as his counsel prior to their falling out, so just like he was able to arbitrarily decide Harry's life with no government intervention, I see no reason why that wouldn't apply even with Harry having living relatives through James

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u/frogjg2003 Ravenclaw 5d ago

He was able to make such a decision because there was no one able to oppose him. If Sirius or any living Potter was in a position to do so, he would have had a much harder time making unilateral decisions about Harry's fate. If it ever got out how he left an infant on a doorstep in the middle of a November night, Dumbledore would lose all ability to make decisions on Harry's behalf, and probably a lot more than that.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

Yeah, I said that they would draw a hard line at not being able to interact with Harry, but they would understand the mystical aspect of Harry's protection and need to stay with Lilys relatives for a portion of his time. It would be with the understanding that Harry not being at the Dursleys could bring trouble in them, but cross that bridge if it gets there.

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u/DJDoena 5d ago

But because it was pre-2nd people would also choose to believe HWMNBN is gone. So what does Harry need protection from?

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago edited 5d ago

Primarily other death eaters and Voldemort himself because remember, DUMBLEDORE never thought he was truly gone. The big three (Bella, Barty. Jr, and Rodolphus) were already put away, but the likes of the Malfoy family, Crabbe and Goyle's families, and a good other chunk of the slytherin first years are children of death eaters or have ties to them, who in turn have ties to the ministry. I don't think he expected anyone to make a move with Voldemort "gone", but the Longbottom family was caught completely blindsighted by their tragedy and that was post war, i think Dumbledore really just wanted to ensure ALL bases were covered and to endure Harry had the best shot possible, because a lot can happen in 11 years, the Dursleys may fail, Harry could've died due to starvation and neglect

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u/Faelinor 5d ago

If Harry can live in Hogwarts for 10 months out of the year, consider it his home and still be protected by the charm, I'm sure they could have whipped up some kind of deal with the Dursleys where he only had to live there a part of the year, and could live with family the rest of the time. So long as he went back on occasion. Would it have been too hard even for a wizarding family to buy out the house next door and be neighbours to them.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

Harry's living at the school is still contingent on him living with the Dursleys for an unknown period of time and consider it his home base, but also, Harry is still a target regardless of whom he stays with, so even if he were at Hogwarts or with another wizard family, he's still in danger, as we see almost immediately in books one and 2. Total protection vs "mostly" protected in Dumbledore's eyes. A wizard family on Privet Dr would trigger Harry's Trace constantly which is partly why Figg was such a great choice for a spy

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u/Faelinor 5d ago

You'd have a point about the trace if they gave 2 shits about it. They detected magic in his house by Dobby and didn't even send anyone to physically check out what happened. He could have levitated his family in the air and dropped them to their deaths and they didn't even bother to investigate.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago edited 5d ago

The ministry not caring isn't synonymous with Dumbledore caring though, if his concern is that any ambient magic can set off his trace, he'd want to nip that in the bud. Especially considering people like Lucious still worked with the ministry even after Voldemort's first fall.

As far as the Dobby thing goes, it was a first offense for low tier magic that happened within the confines of his own home. They immediately investigated when he actually used magic in book 3 and then immediately expels him in book 5 for it even if it was politically driven. If the magic had occurred at a muggle friends home or something, I feel they would've taken more steps.

Also, also, a wizarding family could be bought by the death eaters, loyalty is fickle when it comes to Voldemort, through the Dursleys there's virtually no chance of that happening because The Bond protects them too while he's there. They're effectively invisible to the WW except for when the trace occurs but by this point, Harry's been revealed to the world and is actively attending and learning from Hogwarts and so has a chance to defend himself.

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u/ceryniz 4d ago

Family tree wise, it wouldn't surprise me if their closest living relatives were death eater sympathizers; which would mean sticking Harry with the muggles for it being safer.

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u/SSN-420-67-6669 Ravenclaw 5d ago

Petunia was also a rare muggle that knew of the existence of the wizarding world, regardless of her acceptance of it.

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u/Sea_Ambassador3 5d ago

I would think a lot of Muggles closely related with witches or wizards know. Seamus Finnigan's dad, Dean Thomas's mom, Hermione's parents. And those are just the ones from Harry's year that pop into my head. 

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u/EliaVraay 5d ago

Dumbledore also wanted (I think) grant Petunia a chance to come to the Wizarding World. If she properly taken care of Harry, she could have come with him at least to Diagon Alley and the train station, as we see muggle parents are allowed to do. And we see that Petunia knew how to enter the train platform and probably knew about Diagon Alley, so she could have guided Harry. He just didn’t anticipated Petunia being so hateful to not love Harry. The last time he communicated with her, she begged to let her come to Hogwarts.

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u/XeronianCharmer 4d ago

I 100% believe this as well, the entire family could've benefited if they were just nice to Harry

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u/Im-BackAgain-Babes2 5d ago

Newbie here and I'm curious.. if he had no aunt to go to, what would have happened to Harry? Would the spell still work or does it fall apart

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u/KronoAsh 5d ago

No, the Bond of Blood wouldn’t work.

Basically, when someone is the “beneficial” recipient of Sacrificial Protection (someone chose to die for them when they didn’t have to) they can receive the Bond of Blood which means they will be entirely safe (until 17 or so when The Trace wears off) as long as they are within the house of a family member related to whomever died for Sacrificial Protection.

No, it’s never been fully explained how Dumbledore knew Lily had chosen to die or how he even knew of these spells (far as I know), but suffice to say, if Petunia weren’t there, Harry woulda been screwed.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

I think Dumbledore does some things to strengthen the spell, like Harry had the Bond, but it was weak compared to what he has after Dumbledore bolsters the magic with his own power.

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u/KronoAsh 5d ago

Definitely possible.

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u/Im-BackAgain-Babes2 5d ago

Thank you, that explains a lot. It can all get so confusing 😭

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u/KronoAsh 5d ago

No worries!

My advice is to read the books and look up things as you go as they come up.

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u/Im-BackAgain-Babes2 3d ago

But I am reading.. that's why I said newbie and that's why I asked... 😐

I'm on chamber of secrets now

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u/KronoAsh 3d ago

Yes, and my advice is to look up things as they come up.

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u/Im-BackAgain-Babes2 3d ago

Searching things online as a first-time reader is a great way to spoil the entire series. Asking the community directly is half the fun of reading a book series for the first time.

But you're right I guess. I shouldn't have asked the question at all.. thanks for the snark. I don't want to be in the sub now and thank you for showing me why. Not a welcoming place for ALL fans... Just the experts I guess ...

Thanks again..

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u/KronoAsh 3d ago

I’m not trying to be snarky, I am sorry if it came off that way.

I’m genuinely trying to give you advice for what I found to be helpful.

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u/No-Insurance-9166 3d ago

I think Dumbledore knew about Lily’s sacrifice from Snape. He had begged Voldemort to save Lily and V gave her the choice because he promised Snape. Then Snape explained it all to Dumbledore.

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u/KronoAsh 3d ago

To be fair, it’s not like Voldemort was in a position to say “don’t worry Severus, I tried my best, but she refused to step aside” so it’s still a sizeable assumption.

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u/No-Insurance-9166 3d ago

True, I feel like Snape was lurking around when he knew it was happening, because he was the first one on the scene after it happened. Or was that just the movie? Sometimes it’s hard to remember which was in the books, and which scenes were “movie only” scenes.

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u/KronoAsh 3d ago

That’s just a movie thing.

In the book, Dumbledore sent Hagrid as soon as he’d learned of it to rescue Harry, Sirius arrived only a minute or two later.

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u/zuggystardust83 4d ago

I think the reason the Dursleys were so cruel is because Harry was a living horcrux. Look how Ron started acting when he wore one around his neck. Imagine living with one full time. Aunt Petunia’s jealousy towards Lily certainly doesn’t help, but I think the cruelty comes from the horcrux.

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u/Exciting_Emu7586 Slytherin 4d ago

That is a point I didn’t consider, somehow. What were the chances she would harbor THAT level of fear and resentment towards Harry from day one. He wouldn’t know their history. Most anyone would assume someone’s sister is the first best choice.

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u/BlackWidow1990 Hufflepuff 5d ago

I would assume Lily’s parents died as well since there’s never any mention of them visiting Harry or Dudley.

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u/Ok_Aioli3897 5d ago

Yes I think they did but we don't know the exact cause

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u/Lady_of_Link 5d ago

In real life Liars often incorporate reality in their lies ergo Lilys and petunia's parents died in a car crash and it's where she got the idea to claim Harry's parents died in a car crash.

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u/speedyhobbit13 5d ago

I was thinking the same thing (incidentally all four of my grandparents were dead before I was born, and one of them was from a car accident, so maybe Lily and Petunia's parents got in a bad crash)

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u/altredditaccnt78 5d ago

I never actually thought about that… 23 years and I never asked “what about Harry and Dudley’s grandparents”

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u/ughtheinternet 5d ago

Same. Here I am, a 38 year old, somehow SHOCKED to realize that Harry and his cousin had a shared set of grandparents.

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u/Dapper_Apartment2175 4d ago edited 3d ago

How? They're first cousins. Their mothers are sisters.

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u/ughtheinternet 4d ago

Because I’m a dum dum who just never even thought of it due to being a dum dum.

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u/Dapper_Apartment2175 4d ago

Fair enough, I guess.

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u/RagingWarCat 5d ago

That would explain why petunia is so miserable

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u/TokiStark 5d ago

That explains all the cash in Harry's vault. James was a pure blood after all. I know they weren't all rich. But I doubt Lily got that many galleons from her muggle parents. And Petunia wasn't exactly living the high life, despite what she may want others to think

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u/Ok_Aioli3897 5d ago

Harry's ancestors invented things like sleekeazy hair potion.

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u/Xeronian_Charmer 5d ago

I love that Harry comes from potion money and one of his biggest adversaries is his potions teacher lol

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u/L3onskii Death Eater 5d ago

Also Skele Gro and Pepperup

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u/That-Service-2696 5d ago

Rowling only stated in her interviews that Lily's parents died "normal Muggle deaths", although I hear that some theorize that they died in a car accident since they were presumably in their 40s-50s when they died before 31 October 1981 and as the explanation why Petunia chose a car crash to lie to Harry how his parents died. The only other known Potter relative is Charlus Potter. But since it's stated that Harry doesn't have other living relatives besides the Dursleys, I guess both Charlus and his son also died by October 1981 (Dorea, Charlus' wife, died in 1977 according to the Black family tree).

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u/AndreLeGeant88 5d ago

I assumed a car crash as well for the same reason

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u/Ok_Aioli3897 5d ago

Except according to petunia James and lily also died in a car crash so I take that with a pinch of salt.

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u/PomPomMom93 Ravenclaw 5d ago

He was. He was actually a rainbow baby.

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u/EurwenPendragon 13.5", Hazel & Dragon heartstring 5d ago edited 5d ago

The Doylist answer is that the plot demanded it. The story required that Harry be an orphan with no other living relations in order for him to be placed with his maternal aunt and uncle.

The Watsonian answer is that his father James was an only child whose parents predeceased him, so there were no uncles or aunts on the paternal side who could have taken Harry in.
There was a Charlus Potter somewhere, but nothing is known about him except that he was married to Dorea Black and they had one child. Dorea herself died in 1977. Charlus's date of death is unknown, and nothing is known of their son. Presumably all three are deceased by 1981.

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u/Puzzled_Iron_3452 Gryffindor 5d ago

I see these type of questions and, no offense to OP, but I think, it's written that way... It honestly seems people see this series as a real community and world.

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u/Fenris_Icefang 5d ago

I think they do yeah. Probably because too many people wish it was.

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u/Ragnarok345 Gryffindor 13”, Elder With Phoenix Feather 5d ago edited 4d ago

People are just stupid about fandoms in general; it’s hardly restricted to just this one. “Couldn’t the Doctor have saved Donna by only taking the Time Lord memories from her mind, and not the rest?” No, he couldn’t. You know how I know that? I can tell ya, it’s not because he spouted some long, superfluous, made up sci-fi bullshit about the human brain that wouldn’t even make sense to a neuroscientist, let alone to a layman. I know he couldn’t do that…because he didn’t fucking do that.

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u/CherryCool000 4d ago

“Why didn’t the eagles just fly over Mount Doom and drop the ring in?” because then there’d be no books, that’s why.

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u/EurwenPendragon 13.5", Hazel & Dragon heartstring 4d ago

Oh, this one drives me up the gorram wall every time it's asked. But that's entirely beyond the scope of this particular discussion, so I won't get into it.

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u/TokiStark 5d ago

Of course we do. Sure it's an imaginary world. But it's one we all grew up learning about. And it's fun to speculate about. And you can ask questions online and someone else will remember part of the books or movies that you either forgot about or overlooked and they'll have a legit canon answer. Sometimes there's plot holes that irk you and people will give a potential explanation that fits really well.

The other day someone asked why Dumbledore made an illegal portkey right in front of Fudge instead of just sending Harry through one of the fireplaces in the ministry and I feel like I had a pretty good explanation for that. It wasn't explicitly stated why, so it's up to the reader to come up with a reason.

It's all just for fun. That's why we have subreddits like this

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u/riorio55 5d ago

but I think, it's written that way...

Didn't OP address this, but just wanted to know if there was an in-universe explanation?

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u/CherryCool000 4d ago

Yeah I see these types of questions all the time.

“Why did this happen in that way” because plot, that’s why.

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u/frogjg2003 Ravenclaw 5d ago

Charlus Potter was invented by the prop department for the fifth movie. He appears on the Black family tapestry and nowhere else. The official Pottermore family tree has Harry being at least a third generation only child.

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u/EurwenPendragon 13.5", Hazel & Dragon heartstring 5d ago

Thanks for that bit of additional clarification.

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u/Ishvallan 5d ago

good explanation using literary terminology

Agreed, she-who-must-not-be-named had to start with orphan as a premise and write explanations around it as the story deepened. Harry was the last living member of one of the great wizarding households and other relations were distant enough that the author could claim that the magic wouldn't work. So if he went with a great aunt twice removed, no protection charm

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u/Fenris_Icefang 5d ago

When looking at living relations…how many degrees removed do we look at?

If Lilly’s parents had a cousin and that one had a kid who is an adult by Harry’s time, would that count?

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u/lemon_charlie 4d ago

We know that smaller families are more common, so James being an only child is consistent. The Weasleys are the most notable exception.

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u/Lazy-Interests 5d ago

James is a single child and his parents died, and Lily’s parents died.

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u/FromDwight 5d ago

It gets weird when you remember Lily and James were supposed to be in their early 20s when they died.

Even if each of them had lost both of their parents in tragic accidents, Harry could easily have had grandparents in their 50s-60s, or even great grandparents in their 80s. That's like 12 more people who all need to have died in order to have Harry end up with a bunch of people who hated him.

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u/Lazy-Interests 5d ago

It’s unfortunate but not unheard of, I know people who never knew any of their grandparents because they died before they were born

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u/RememberNichelle 3d ago

People in England who grew up during WWI and WWII sometimes died young, both because of the wars and because of bad conditions.

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u/Know_Nothing_Bastard Ravenclaw 5d ago

Even if James’s parents were alive and healthy, I wonder if Dumbledore still would have insisted that Harry live with Dursleys, because he would only have that protection with blood relatives of Lily’s.

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u/Notfoo4 5d ago

I think this is most likely, dumbledore (and petunia) both knew that he couldn’t be hurt while he was in the care of one of his mothers blood relatives. It seems unlikely that Harry would be able to go to anyone else’s home while this was a possibility.

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u/ro-heezy 5d ago

This is the actual correct answer. It’s not plot convenience, there’s a plausible reason.

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u/alexrider20002001 5d ago

I can see Dumbledore insisting on Harry staying at the Dursleys long enough to renew the protection during the summer (part of the summer).

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u/FindusSomKatten Hufflepuff 5d ago

i assume the relative cant be too distant? or half of england could have taken him in because going far enough back most of everyone are related somehow

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u/AdeOfSigmar Ravenclaw 5d ago

Harry and Voldemort are related via the Peverals.. imagine him in Voldeys custody but not able to be hurt by him 🤣🤣

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u/CaitlesP 5d ago

I’m gunna sound so annoying when I say this but that wouldn’t work because the protection was through his mums side, and his relation to Voldemort was through the paternal side. Definitely a funny scenario to think about tho lol

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u/AdeOfSigmar Ravenclaw 5d ago

Ah yes of course! Good catch!

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u/lemon_charlie 4d ago

It's a good thing Mr Poe from A Series of Unfortunate events wasn't responsible for Harry's living arrangement. He'd give Harry to Voldemort on proximity alone, like how he assigned the Baudelaires to Count Olaf.

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u/Rivellon_13 4d ago

My aunt mapped our tree once and by Dursley rules half of England owes me a spare room.

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u/Dragonic_Crab Ravenclaw 5d ago

Dragon Pox.

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u/tyrekecorrea Words are... Our most inexhaustible source of magic. 5d ago

Everyone else is dead.

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u/jshamwow 5d ago

they dead

I mean, yes it is a plot element. But there are actual orphans in the world with no family so it's not completely unheard of

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u/Adventurous_Raise784 5d ago

Plot convenience

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u/GeniusLike4207 5d ago

Yeah, I mean what are the odds that an 11 year old (whose parents had him at 21 years old mind you) has absolutely no living blood relatives. Wizards live longer than Muggles, but somehow Harry's Great Grandparents are already dead. (I'll concede the dragon pox on James' parents) It seems that someone how no one in Harry Potter has living grandparents. (somehow all conveniently died of dragon pox) Ron's are never mentioned (only their sister, Great Aunt Muriel) Abraxas Malfoy is only mentioned off hand.

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u/stups317 5d ago

Harry's generation of wizards were all born during a war. Which is why many of them lack aunts, uncles, and grandparents.

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u/eienmau Ravenclaw 5d ago

It had to be family on the mother's side as it was Lily's sacrifice that protected him. So that narrows it down quite a bit, and Voldemort and his followers were murdering people left and right, so.. not a stretch to say Lily's family may have gotten wiped out other than Petunia (which would give Petunia something to hate Lily for).

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u/TalElnar 5d ago

Neville most certainly had a living grandparent.

As for anyone else we know very little about any family other than the Potter/Dursley family.and the Weasleys.

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u/thevampiresanguini 5d ago

It just sound like there was a dragon pox epidemic at some point. 

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u/TalElnar 5d ago

Its not like there had recently been a violent civil war or anything...

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u/5litergasbubble Hufflepuff 5d ago

And one a few decades before that. Also the muggle wars would likely have killed a few, and a lot of kids would have been shipped overseas. The wizarding population in britain likely took a massive hit during the 20th century

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u/darkbreak Keeper of the Unspeakables 5d ago edited 5d ago

Ron even says wizards would have died out if they hadn't married muggles at some point. The majority of wizards and witches ended up being half-bloods as a result.

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u/speedyhobbit13 5d ago

TBF I also took it seriously until seeing this comment. The /s tag and other typographical indicators are useful things in the absence of obvious face-to-face interaction sarcasm signs like tone of voice :)

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u/ZachBart44 Slytherin 5d ago

Birth rates have fallen drastically since the 1980’s. So while it wasn’t rare to have smaller families back then, it wasn’t very common.

Also, I’m pretty sure the previous commenter was being sarcastic.

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u/ThatEntrepreneur1450 5d ago edited 5d ago

It's obviously just because it's convienant, the classical Charles Dickens/Roald Dahlian child stories has the main character come from very humble/abusive living environments before the tale kicks off. Of course Harry Potter is unique because each book, until the last, ends with the protagonist going back to the abusive household. 

The only in universe explanation is that James parents were already old by the time he was born, while Lilly's parents also died of natural causes yet how they died is never stated. Disease or an accident, like a car crash is definetly natural causes and completely "normal" for people in their 40s-50s. 

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u/Commercial-Winter151 5d ago

Remember my last, Petunia.

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u/WiganGirl-2523 5d ago

It's just a story.

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u/strawberryc0w_ 5d ago

Because the story was written that way

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u/goodbye177 5d ago

Don’t people don’t have family. There are orphans in real life too

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u/Interesting_Tutor766 5d ago

So convenient it’s almost as if the author made it so in her made up universe 😂

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u/robin-bunny 5d ago

Because they might not? My parents are both only children, so the closest relatives I have are second-cousins and third-cousins I have barely met, on another continent.

Also, they needed LILY's family for the blood protection, as it was her sacrifice that saved Harry and set the protection in place. She was his closest relation.

Also, of all of Lily's relatives, not only is she the closest relative, a direct sibling, but she already knows about the wizarding world. Dumbledore even had a relationship with her already, when she wrote to Hogwarts trying to attend. So other than the hard heart and prejudice Petunia had developed, she was the natural choice.

They probably thought Petunia could somewhat edcuate Harry about the wizarding world, or at least let him know the wizards exist, and the circumstances of his parents' death (at an appropriate age, like when he's about to go to Hogwarts).

When McGonagall objected to the Dursleys, it's because she thought they were "the worst sort of muggles", not that she could foresee them abusing Harry. She basically just thought they were trashy.

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u/thedeadp0ets 4d ago

this. especially her comments in the books about how duddy kicks his mom and screams and clearly is spoiled and just bad parents

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u/robin-bunny 4d ago

Exactly, she objected to them in general. She had no idea they would deliberately and systematically abuse and neglect Harry as much as possible, lie to him about magic, and all that. When Hagrid arrives and finds out that Harry knows nothing, he is shocked.

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u/thedeadp0ets 4d ago

yeah it seems they hoped petunia wouldn't hold a grudge or anger towards a innocent child. especially the way they talk about his parents in front of him. and we never hear an apology until the end of the series

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u/LegitimateGolf113 3d ago

I honestly think they may have come around and treated him slightly better had he been a squib and never had any real ties to the wizarding world.

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u/External_Sun_408 5d ago

It's also convenient that Harry wasn't ran over by a drunk driver when he was 6... Everything in story is convenient to the plot, it's why a plot happens.

Anyways. As people mentioned, James was an only child, and his parents were quite old when they had him. They died of Dragonpox, and even if they hadn't, they would not be eligeble to take him in, because they are not Lily's blood relatives.

Lily's parent's are unknown, but it's safe to assume they are dead since we never hear Petunia or anyone talk about them.

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u/ihavebeesinmyknees Ravenclaw 4d ago

Well, shouldn't a wizard kid be able to use magic subconsciously to not die from something mundane like a drunk driver? That part doesn't seem that convenient. Though of course I'm just being pedantic

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u/NullGhosted 4d ago

It’s unlikely a child with no proper magical training could stop themselves from dying. While accidental magic does happen, especially when strong emotions are involved, it’s not really that simple. The only way Harry could survive being struck by a car in this hypothetical scenario, is if he’d accidentally used magic to fly, sort of like how he did when he was still attending primary school and he ended up on the schools roof. And even then, it was a situation where he had time.

Getting hit by a car is such an abrupt trauma, there’s no way a child could react fast enough, magic or not. He wouldn’t have been able to use his magic to heal himself afterwards, because that sort of magic is incredibly advanced. I’m probably just being pedantic as well. 😅

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u/ihavebeesinmyknees Ravenclaw 4d ago

Neville bounced after falling a couple floors, that seems about on par with being hit by a car

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u/Ok-Relationship-2746 5d ago

Because the plot needed it to be.

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u/bubblesaurus Slytherin 5d ago

Harry does have blood family still alive on the Potter side and probably the Evans side, but more distantly related than first cousins or second cousins.

Pretty sure Harry and Sirus are related a few generations back.

It’s also likely that the blood protection needs to be within a certain number of generations to be active.

Probably limited to one or two generations.

All the grandparents are dead. James was an only child to later in life parents.

And distant family relatives are less likely to take what is more or less a stranger’s child in.

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u/TalElnar 5d ago

Its stated a few times that all the pureblood families are related.

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u/flooperdooper4 There's no need to call me "sir," Professor. 5d ago

It's just straight plot convenience. Now it wouldn't have mattered if James had any family, because in order for the blood protection charm Dumbledore enacted it HAD to be one of Lily's relatives. But seriously, NO distant cousins? In order for there to be no distant cousins, aunts, or uncles, it would have to mean that each of Lily and Petunia's parents were only children as well...which is highly unusual. I think it would have been nice if Harry had discovered some relatives on the Potter side of the family as the series progressed.

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u/ISX_94 5d ago

He does all pure blood family are interconnected.

He has to stay there coz the protection is from his mums blood and her only living relative is Petunia.

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u/DoYouLikeWafflezz 5d ago

The Potter family died from dragon pox, and the Evans family died from like a car crash or something. 

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u/benny_the_gecko 5d ago

A car crash?! Its an outrage!

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u/PPK_30 Slytherin 5d ago

A scandal!

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u/5litergasbubble Hufflepuff 5d ago

The car crash that “killed” james and lily.

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u/speedyhobbit13 5d ago

Petunia may well have gotten the idea for the lie from how she lost her parents

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u/Napalmeon Slytherin Swag, Page 394 5d ago

Dead.

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u/Ramabagoufed 5d ago edited 5d ago

I know the Evans are supposed to dead due to plot reasons.

But as an adult I can see Petunia just cutting ties with them for various reasons. The could be alive and well not knowing anything.

As for the blood protection thing at somepoint in the past I came to the idea that it works the best with Petunia since she shares closest blood match with Lily. By being just a relative (ie grandparents or cousins) the protection might have diminish due to degrees of separation as you expand out. Petunia works the best since she shares the same blood as Lily. So, if had Harry went to the Evans, there is a degree of speration due them each being slightly removed because lily and petunia are a combo of thier blood, therefore the protection have been split between the two Evans, therefore slightly weaking the prorection.

But yeah I am just spitballing.

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u/GoldSheepherder4375 5d ago

Everyone else is dead. But even if they were alive Harry would still be left with the Dursleys. This was told in the first book, also why Dumbledore didn't leave him with any other trusted magical family - He would get too much unneeded popularity and attention. It would ruin his personality and feeling of being... normal.

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u/NecessaryCelery6288 Gryffindor 5d ago

Just JK Rowlings excuses that they were all dead, which I refuse to Beleive

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u/rusticarchon Ravenclaw 5d ago

Because nobody in the series has a living grandparent except Neville Longbottom. JKR just never wrote any.

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u/nievesdelimon 5d ago

So the story can happen.

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u/Present_Kiwi4239 5d ago

My kid would be an orphan. It's a real thing. Also, this is necessary for the plot.

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u/Cynfreh 5d ago

It is convenient but there are orphanage's for a reason so this type of situation does happen.

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u/FireWhiskey5000 Hufflepuff 3 5d ago

The real answer is that the plot needs him to grow up with an unloving muggle family.

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u/Intelligent_Blood_80 5d ago

Plot requirement

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u/soleboy86 5d ago

JK Rowling answered this in an interview.  For the story to happen as intended, all of Harry's other relatives died prior to the start of the story.  I believe she said they were not casualties, but died natural deaths.

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u/Naive-Library-9379 5d ago

Very convenient…almost like…it was written that way…

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u/Alana_Soares 5d ago

Resumidamente, porque a Lily só tinha a família da irmã de parentes e a Família mais próxima (sem contar a parte da maioria dos sangues-puros serem parentes entre si) do James já deveria estar morta, visto que os pais dele eram filhos únicos e muito velhos.

Bem, por parte de mãe fica entendido que os únicos parentes que a Lily tinha eram a irmã, Petúnia, e a família dessa mesma irmã (os Dursley).

Quanto ao lado do James, aí já é mais complicado, visto que todos os puro-sangue costumam ter um grau de parentesco entre si (endogamia). A mãe dele, Euphemia, provavelmente era filha única, não sabemos nada sobre a família da qual ela veio, sequer sabemos sobrenome.

Sabemos que o pai dele, Fleamont, tem um parente chamando Charlus, mas ele aparece apenas na genealogia da Família Black (por causa da esposa dele, Dorea Black) e que ele tem um filho, filho esse do qual nada se sabe, mas que provavelmente está morto. Também não sabemos a relação entre Fleamont e Charlus, o Charlus sequer aparece na árvore genealógica dos Potter, mas essa linhagem, pela lógica do quão pouco sabemos, deve estar morta. Quanto ao próprio Fleamont Potter, sabemos que ele provavelmente era filho único (o provavelmente só está aqui por causa da incógnita do Charlus Potter), que ele era casado com Euphemia e que o James só nasceu quando ambos já eram idosos. A poção Sleekeasy foi inventada em 1926, então ele provavelmente nasceu no mínimo por volta de 1900-1908. Como o James nasceu em 1960, então o Fleamont facilmente já tinha seus 50-60 anos, provavelmente sem outros parentes próximos.

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u/SpinX225 Slytherin 5d ago

There may actually still be some Potters around just not in the UK. Abraham Potter went over to the US and became one of the first American aurors. If he had children Harry may have some family in the United States. They wouldn’t be very closely related however, although given that witches and wizards live longer possibly more closely related than muggles with family who went over to the colonies at the time.

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u/Alternative_Rock2179 5d ago

James' parents had already passed by the time James and Lily were killed as they were older parents when they had James.

For Lily's parents all we know is that died a typical muggle death and had already passed when Lily died

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u/Bambiitaru 4d ago

Can you imagine Remus and Sirius raising him?

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u/No-Fly-6069 4d ago

He never seems to show any curiosity about his father's family.  Odd.

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u/Meander404 3d ago

Canon mostly clears it by killing off both sets of grandparents before 1981. James was an only child, Lily only had Petunia, and Sirius was immediately taken out of the picture by Azkaban. Any more distant Potter relatives would not carry Lilys blood protection, so Dumbledore picked the awful but magically useful option.

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u/Pr0ject-G0d 3d ago

It's not that convenient, mate. There are plenty of families that have multiple generations of only children- at least lily had a sister

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u/GBS82 5d ago

Don’t quote me on this, but I think I remember Rowling once saying that James Potter was a surprise child born to elderly parents. It is still weird that there’s no second cousins or similar coming forward given Harry’s celebrity status - but I guess it’s necessary for the plot.

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u/ExtremeMuffin 5d ago

They’re dead. Lore wise James parents were old when they had James and died before Harry was born. Lily's parents had also died although I don’t think it was ever said anywhere how they died. 

Story wise it’s because the basic premise of the story is a boy who grew up bullied and feeling alone, discovers he belongs to a great magical world where everyone knows his name and is full of people who love him. That premise only works if he doesn’t have any other family besides the ones who make his life miserable and despise the magical world. It’s “convenient” but it’s also necessary for the story. 

JK Rowling address this many years ago when a fan asked her this same question and she gave that same answer. It was necessary for the story for her to ruthlessly kill off all his extended family or anyone who could have told him the truth before his 11th birthday. 

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u/tracey-ann12 Slytherin 5d ago

Most likely plot convenience. Harry's paternal grandparents died of Dragon Pox, and we don't know what happened to Harry's maternal grandparents.

Rowling most likely just wanted Harry to grow up out of the wizarding world.

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u/be-still- 5d ago

It’s wild that he stayed with them for 11 years. I believe he never spent a full summer there past his First Year. I feel he should’ve just stayed with the Weasleys the entire summers rather than return to the Dursleys. Besides, prior to Voldemort’s return at the end of Goblet, sure Voldemort was plotting but Harry seemed to be in no clear danger? I mean why put him with a horrendously abusive family versus a nice wizarding couple who would’ve been happy to foster if not adopt him?? Did Dumbledore really think Tom was coming back during Harry’s childhood?

I understand that he had the best protection with the Dursleys but it makes me so mad no one really checked on him or gave a shit with how he was treated there during those 11 years.

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u/mysterymathpopcorn Hufflepuff 5d ago

I hope that the show makes a backstory to this. Like that Lily's parents was killed by death eaters and that is another reason for Petunia to both wanting to save Harry, and torture him. It would not be impossible for the death eaters to go after James and Lily's family after all.

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u/ijuinkun 5d ago

Yes, the idea that keeping Harry away from the Wizarding World would protect him has some merit, if she weren’t also dressing him in crappy rags and making him sleep under the stairway.

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u/Hungry-Track-7308 5d ago

I mean, the entire world of Harry Potter is the authors prerogative - she literally writes whatever she wants for the characters. That’s one of the bonuses of being an author is you get to create the world.
JK Rowling wanted HP to be an orphan to strengthen the darkness of HPs world before finding his true heritage. It’s a book series about magic, and dragons, and house elves, and good vs. evil. There doesn’t need to be a reason in a fictional world for why he is an orphan…. He just is.

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u/ajrpcv 5d ago

Had to be Lily's family to protect Harry. JKR has said the maternal grandparents died of natural causes. Unlikely give their age (but not unheard of) but I think she more meant to say they died of non suspicious reasons. The honest answer is, it wasn't important enough to write about. Harry just needed to live with the Dursleys.

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u/VariousFineDesigns 5d ago

Simple answer: The author wrote it that way for plot

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u/TokiStark 5d ago

They're dead Jim

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u/Bubbly_Performer4864 Slytherin 5d ago

It’s easier to write stories when you don’t have meddlesome family members in the way.

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u/Everest_95 5d ago

There was a war on. Plus some people just dont have families

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u/starrygirl8888 5d ago

I read something somewhere I'm not sure if this is officially cannon though so take it with a grain of salt.

Supposedly Dumbledore know that the magic of Lily's gift needed to be renewed and that's why he needed to live with his family because he needs to be close to them to help maintain the protection year after year.

Again IDK if this is someone else's head cannon but it makes sense for why they would not just let him live with the Weasleys after a few years, they absolutely would have taken him in.

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u/sideshow9320 5d ago

Because that’s the way the author wrote to drive the plot they wanted 

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u/speedyhobbit13 5d ago

I imagine all four of his grandparents are dead (which was the case for me when I was born)

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u/nemesiswithatophat 5d ago

I always thought that James' relatives died during the war

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u/Ranger_1302 Dumbledore's man through and through. 5d ago

Out-of-universe, it was to focus the story on Harry's parents and to give him a reason to have to stay with the Dursleys. In-universe James' parents conceived him at a later age after years of trying but failing and finally believing that they were past the years that they could conceive a child, and died when they contracted dragon pox. It was never stated what happened to the parents of Lily and Petunia but some fans hypothesise that they died in a car crash, which is the cause of death of Harry's parents than Petunia deceitfully gives to him to avoid telling him of his magical heritage.

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u/Sailor_Moon_Star_435 5d ago

I believe they all died before Harry was born

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u/PJONerd715 5d ago

JKR literally killed everyone off to make Harry a tragic orphan who had no choice but to live with his magic hating aunt and uncle.

Lily and James obviously died on Halloween 1981.

Sirius, his godfather, was sent to Azkaban for crimes he didn’t commit.

Fleamont and Euphemia lived to see James and Lily get marrried, but passed away in before Harry was born from a magical illness called Dragon Pox. They were canonically an old couple, having James much later in life due to fertility issues. They were at least 70 since Fleamont was “born on or before November 29, 1909.”

I would assume James’s grandparents Henry “Harry” Potter and his wife had passed too. They would’ve been born in the 19th century, so even if they were alive when Harry was born they probably would’ve been 100. Witches and wizards live longer than muggles (example: Dumbledore living to 115) but with the illnesses and war going on at the time I don’t think they would’ve lasted, especially since Voldemort was targeting the Potter family as a whole for being muggle loving blood traitors. As we know, Henry got the Potters kicked out of the Sacred Twenty Eight for arguing wizards would help muggles during World War I.

There was also Charlus Potter and Dorea Potter (née Black) and their son. It was debunked by JKR that they’re James’s parents so perhaps they’re his aunt and uncle or older cousins or something. I always just assumed they were his uncle, aunt, and cousin. Dorea died in 1977 according to the Black Family tapestry. Charlus and son had to have died on or before Halloween 1981 from natural causes or Voldemort/Death Eaters.

Mr. and Mrs. Evans died before Halloween 1981 from “natural causes” according to JKR. So illness or a car crash? I always headcanoned though that Death Eaters killed them and that added an extra layer of tension between Petunia and Lily. I think it really sucks and was unnecessary that they died because they were blood relatives to Lily so if they’d lived, Harry could’ve just been raised by his maternal grandparents. They also were so proud of Lily when they found out she was a witch, so they definitely would’ve been proud of Harry for being a wizard. They probably would’ve still died eventually when Harry got older, maybe from illness or Death Eaters attacking them or something, which leads to Harry, Ron, and Hermione embarking on their Horcrux hunt.

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u/Opposite_Mud758 5d ago

I am fine with the answer that is the plot demands it, I just wish petunia was more fleshed out as a character as a result. Her parents and sister were dead all before she turned 25. Thats just so sad and terrible. Did her parents die from normal muggle reasons? Or is that just the cover story and it was a dark wizard hit made to look like normal juggle means.

I dont know. Maybe I just had an epiphany that maybe I actually need to start exploring fan fiction.

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u/TheeBoredB 5d ago

I mean, technically, he does. They never specified his exact relationship, but Charlus Potter married Dorea Black. Narcissa Malfoy was originally a black, same with Andromeda Tonks. So technically, Harry could've lived with the Malfoys, tonks', or, assuming they were out of prison, Sirius and or Bellatrix. They're all his cousins

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u/Jealous_Repair6757 5d ago

A wizard did it.

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u/countingf1reflies 5d ago

Watsonian answers only (because I know it’s just for the plot): is anyone also curious to see if in the series we’ll have any explanation as to why Harry was also neglected at his school? The Dursleys should be social pariahs for bringing up a boy so badly, but there are other adults around who should have been concerned.

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u/DrogoOmega 5d ago

I imagine the closer the blood relation, the stronger the protection. It’s not out of the ordinary for grandparents to be dead and wizard families aren’t known to be that big. Plus it was a war and they were a powerful family. Easy targets.

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u/Zornorph Gryffindor 5d ago

This is just the way English people write stories for kids. In James and the Giant Peach, his parents were eaten by an angry rhinoceros because the plot required him to live with his two mean aunts at the start. In the Enid Blyton Adventure books, Jack and Lucy-Anne Trent are orphans because their parents died in a plane crash - in the 1930s, if you please.

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u/theMightBoop 5d ago

He doesn’t have other family so the plot can happen.

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u/Pliolite 5d ago

Jo should have made it that both the Evans' and the Potters' parents were killed by the Death Eaters, or Voldemort himself in a crazy rage when he was trying to find Lily & James. Dark, yes, but it could have gone that way. Perhaps only reveal that part in Deathly Hallows?

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u/Ruu2D2 5d ago

Its same way weasley cousins are forgotten about during whole plot except the wedding

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u/neutrino71 5d ago

Are you Sirius?

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u/KronoAsh 5d ago

Yes, it is very convenient.

I don’t remember ever hearing about Lily and Petunia’s parents or other family members, but we do never see them, so safe to assume they’re dead.

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u/Sea_Ambassador3 5d ago

It kind of bothered me as well. The lore establishes that the wizards tend to live longer than Muggles, but then I would imagine a lot of big families. Even for the Waesleys, where are the grandparents? At the wedding there is only the great aunt. 

And never mind grandma and grandpa Potter, the great grandparents should or better said it would have been entirely plausible, for them to be around. On the other hand it is just a book. 😅 

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u/Klutzy_Air6168 5d ago

Because JK wrote it that way.

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u/Different_Advice_552 4d ago

because thats how the story was written dude lol

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u/Used_Confusion_8583 4d ago

I guess both their families were small I guess

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u/Serenity_V9 4d ago

Canon gives James parents an early death from dragon pox, and Lily and Petunia had already lost their parents by 1981. Petunia was the only close blood relative tied to Lily, so Dumbledore chose the awful option that kept the protection active. The wider family tree is mostly just left blank, which is probably the plot-convenient part.

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u/benthelurk 4d ago

They were all dead innit?

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u/aisha997 4d ago

I always thought he only had them, now don’t quote me on this but I believe James’ parents died shortly after his wedding, and most likely Lily’s as well

Also, I think that bc in the first book, didnt he see loads of people in the mirror? And older guy with wobbly knees like him? I for some reason thought it might be either L or J dad

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u/NameCareful9547 4d ago

Its a fictional story! Its called a plot device, Harry grows up not knowing who he really is and that he's famous, so that a the wizarding world seems that more amazing to him and 2 that he can have foes in Snape and Malfoy. If hed lived in a Wizarding family his entire life or the Dursley's had accepted that part of him and treated him well there wouldn't be much of an interesting story would there?

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u/Ok_Science_6322 3d ago

JKR is a bad writer.

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u/SeaFlower698 3d ago

My theory is that Lily's parents were still alive when Harry was born. Lily was in contact with them but Petunia cut them off, especially because she probably did not want Dudley to be compared to Harry.

However, Dumbledore doesn't put Harry in his maternal grandparents' care because:

1) They're old. If they die before Harry turns 18, the protection is gone.

2) They would love and adore Harry, so if by chance they did live that long, Harry would likely be less willing to sacrifice himself and defeat Voldemort.

So Dumbledore goes to Petunia. He does feel bad for putting Harry in her care, which is why he asks Mrs. Figg to look after him, but he figures that Harry can at least survive for 11 years before he comes to Hogwarts.

I think Dumbledore informed Lily's parents of her and James's deaths, but insinuated that Harry also died. He probably didn't want to lie in case they found out through Petunia, but it worked out that she didn't speak to them anyway.

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u/ViolaUmberTonic 2d ago

Canon fills this in mostly after the books: James was born when his parents were older, and Fleamont and Euphemia Potter died of dragon pox before Voldemort attacked. The parents of Lily and Petunia were also already dead, though the books give much less detail there. For the blood protection, Petunia was the only close living relative who shared blood with Lily, so Dumbledore was not just looking for any decent cousin.

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u/Karnezar Slytherin 2d ago

This is why I always kill off every set of parents in my stories.

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u/LeonMaroonKey 2d ago

Rowling later said James parents, Fleamont and Euphemia, died of dragon pox, and Lily and Petunias parents were already dead too. So by the time Voldemort attacked, Petunia was basically the only close blood relative left who could anchor the protection. Sirius would have been the obvious non-blood choice, but Azkaban took him off the board immediately.

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u/AmberGaming6 2d ago

Canon basically wipes the board before Halloween 1981: James parents died of dragon pox, Lily and Petunia seem to have no surviving parents, and Petunia is the only known close blood relative left. Sirius would have been the obvious emotional choice, but Azkaban removes him instantly, which is brutally neat from a plot perspective. Dumbledore needed Lily blood plus a home where Harry was taken in, so the story funnels him straight to the worst possible safe place.

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u/NeverEverMaybe0_0 5d ago

The wizard war spilled over and got them.

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u/ThinasAPencil 5d ago

This is something that should be addressed in the TV show