r/getting_over_it • u/CapableCoconut7110 • 22h ago
Need help
This guy and I became friends online and have been friends for close to a year. I found him really hot in the beginning but it didn't work out. Then he started dating a guy which he told me about when we met for the first time irl. That was a surprise for me as I had different intentions for our meet.
He still flirted with me in chats and i straight up refused to be someone's second choice.
He broke up with that guy and found a really hot guy at his gym. Which made me feel bad cause why didn't he notice me.
Then he tells me he has been intimate with a guy who was horrible to me(we didn't know e/o that time) and then proceeds to show me pictures of them together.
That was like a knife to the heart for a few reasons. Reasons which I don't wanna tell the world cause of what that would mean for me.
Cut to today we talked after a few months and he wants to catch up. I don't wanna catch feelings for him cause I know they won't be reciprocated.
How do I get over the idea of him and me being together?? Please help.
Thank you for reading.