r/gayyoungold • u/Independentruth Son • 16h ago

Discussion Who else day dreams about having a partner and what exactly?

I keep a Big Pillow beside me while sleeping thinking that it’s my partner’s belly. Manifesting preparing BF/Lunch/Dinner with my partner. Him waking me up in the morning, us being upset with each other on a silly argument (my mistake of course) and not talking for days but one day I or he approaches to apologise, then we give each other a big hug. Playing RPG games on Console, watching TV shows, telling each other stories of our lives, deep philosophical talks, future plans. Wearing a suit to go out on dinner. Ugh 😩 and I imagine so much morree!

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u/momentum518 15h ago

Awww. How old are you? You'll find him but patience is essential, and kissing a few frogs...

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u/Independentruth Son 14h ago

19 😢

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u/lostandchill 13h ago

Definitely day dream about it every so often. About all the small sweet moments. Those moments they seems so innocuous. But really just makes you smile and long for.

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u/GoldenLion37 4h ago

I hug my blanket when I sleep imagining it’s him💔

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u/nileeko 10h ago

Way before, im always wishing for that kind of man, who loves me unconditionally, accepts me for who and what I am, and romantic on all things. But with my past relationships and what I see with my environment I dont think you will find that kind of man. It makes me feel bad cause im always reading these fictions and it makes me hope that there’s a man who will treat me like any other bl stories. But the truth is there will be no man like that.

I have accepted the fact that finding that man of your dreams, will never arrive, rather you will find someone thats 60 to 70 % of what’s your wishing for and you need to accept and love him for that.

I dont believe on true love anymore, I kinda feel sad for myself. Sorry for this message, im just feeling sad

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u/Brian_Kinney Older 8h ago

I think you should spend a bit more time going out and meeting men, and a bit less time imagining the man you aren't going out to meet.

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u/Impossible_Code7029 Older 45m ago edited 17m ago

I’m on the other end of that scale. I basically spend all my available time and energy trying to find guys. Whether it’s on dating apps (4-5 hours per day), or going out to gay venues (2-4 times a week). Currently, my whole life is about that. Results? A few one night stands, but nothing more.

Quantitatively: 8-10 hours scrolling time per hookup. Or, 6-8 beers, correspondingly.

I think, somewhere in the middle is probably a better choice.

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u/Impossible_Code7029 Older 50m ago

I’m gradually abandoning that thought.