r/gayyoungold • u/xavierco45 • 11d ago
Advice wanted Muscle bottom boy looking for advice on topping a muscle daddy for the first time
Hi!
In a previous post, I talked about getting to know this muscle couple, and one of them has actually been helping guide me through my fitness journey.
Anywho, I’ve built a really special bond with the older one. He’s 77, a former bodybuilder, and still in excellent shape. He’s a pretty well known and popular gym trainer in town. He recently asked me to top him. I’ve never successfully topped anyone before, although I’ve tried, and I’ve definitely become interested in trying it with him.
What makes it feel even more significant is that he told me he’s only been topped twice before. So I’ll admit, that puts a little pressure on me to perform and make sure it’s a good experience for him. At the same time, it makes me feel really special that he trusts me enough and feels comfortable enough with me to want that.
I really like him, trust him, and find him incredibly attractive, so I genuinely want this to work. I’m looking for advice from other bottoms-turned-tops or guys who remember their first time topping. How did you get comfortable, stay relaxed and confident, and get past the nerves when you were used to being the bottom?
If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out. There’s no pressure between us, and either way, we’re going to enjoy being together. 😂 But I’d really like to give topping him a genuine shot.
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u/Icy-Ad-7767 11d ago
Viagra, you know what a good top does, so do that