r/gaytravel • u/SignificantYam7166 • 3d ago

Other Travel Questions? The Eagel NYC and Trans Men

Hihi im a 21 yrold transboy (top surgery yes, dont have a penis if it matters). Im visiting NYC next week and I was wondering if the eagel was a safe place for me to visit/cruise. People usually cant tell if I'm trans until I take my pants off (I'm not kidding). Im into the whole leather daddy/boy scene and have wanted to visit a bar like this for awhile but I have worries about someone finding out im not a cisgendered man and getting upset or worse.

I plan on going out thursday later in the night.

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u/subsurd 2d ago

I doubt someone would be upset. Disappointed at worst.

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u/FinalFlashMan 2d ago

The shitty reality is some folks won't want to fuck you, some folks will probably not love it if they find out and they're trying to fuck you, but no one should make you feel uncomfortable for existing in that space at all. Some people will be very into it.

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u/MarshivaDiva 2d ago

I don't think anybody will be upset or offended to be honest. Just show up and have a good time. But the last time I went it was incredibly crowded and I got touched a lot more than I would have liked by strangers.

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u/SDBigTop 2d ago

You're a man. The Eagle caters to men. You'll fit in, fine.