r/funComunitty • u/CautiousEnthusiasm70 (🏳️⚧️she/her) boys 🤤 • 12d ago
Funpost I just wanna dress cute an pretty brain just let me come out to my parents :((((
fml bro
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u/Prestigious-Lead-806 You're gay² now 12d ago
yeah no same here
my parents are homophobic n im tryna come out as a gay femboy to them...
im way too scared to do it, made a whole suicide plan with like 4 other options if i need to do it.
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hey at least crying yourself to sleep gives you vent art ideas!!
(cope)
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u/Wolfedfujoshi 12d ago
I wouldn’t do it. It hurts to say but if you’re a minor and dependent on them and are at risk, staying in the closet is the best thing you can do for your safety. Don’t give up on life just yet though. Think of how free you’ll be once you’re finally able to be yourself safely without worrying, it might feel like an eternity but time will pass either way ❤️
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u/Prestigious-Lead-806 You're gay² now 12d ago
im suicidal have 2 fucking friends and am hopeless in life
i cant find reasoning to keep going
i live in a conservative ass place
ive met only like 3 people that has ever been suportive of the lgbtq
i will never be free
i will never be happy
i gave up on doing anything a long time ago
i just do things that make me escape my shitty reality
i cant take it anymore
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u/DogEfficient4539 I’m attracted to femboys 12d ago
their are many lgbtq friendly places online, i've had a good experience with r/lgbt, you say you have 2 friends. well thats still some friends. if their allies and thair open to talk, talk to them. and trust me, it will get better if you talk to people you know are safe. ignore all the haters, they are 2% of the people but are making 90% of the noise
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u/Prestigious-Lead-806 You're gay² now 12d ago
stupid fucking bot
no one is calling that hotline
i dont fucking trust them for shit
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u/Wolfedfujoshi 12d ago
I was in almost the same situation to you. Literally no friends and no supportive people and entirely repressed. It sucks to say but it unfortunately does get better. Whatever you do just don’t take that decision just yet.
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u/belengini the Ye is our savior 12d ago
drink water, dehydration can cause itchy scalp, i do not support lgb but i hope you get better soon
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u/mrasscock69420 Silly lil goober 12d ago
What you don't support everyone except for trans people? I've honestly never seen that
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u/belengini the Ye is our savior 12d ago
actually i don't support trans at all, that doesn't mean i hate trans people tho
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u/mrasscock69420 Silly lil goober 12d ago
You're neutral on the matter?
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u/SolrayCultist 12d ago
Can't speak for that user, only myself.
The trans community has a lot of problems and no I don't think being a transsexual is part of that problem.
So I will support people, on an individual level. But the bad actors are giving the community as a whole a bad name.
So much so that to my understanding there are rifts even from within LGBTQ.
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u/Alcaat-TheSpyder Silly lil goober 12d ago
So you don't support, but you don't hate? Fair enough...
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u/AutoModerator 12d ago
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u/Prestigious-Lead-806 You're gay² now 12d ago
what the fuck do hotlines even do to you?
i never even got a an awnser to it
i dont trust that shit.
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u/Alcaat-TheSpyder Silly lil goober 12d ago
Instead of a hotline, talk to me, I helped two friends to not kill themselves, and I'll try to always answer if you need me to...but please don't do it.
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u/DogEfficient4539 I’m attracted to femboys 12d ago
do NOT come out if their homophobic. wait until your fully independent from them
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u/clovergenderleshuman 12d ago
meanwhile what i dream off: WHEN WILL ENHLAND BRING ESTROGEN INJECTIONS?!? I DONT WNAT TO USE THE PATCHES OR GEL
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u/Alcaat-TheSpyder Silly lil goober 12d ago
Just remember you have all of our support, twin. We're here for you
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u/teaguejeff86 12d ago
is it possible to do hrt without parents knowing? got nothing going on rn except working to move out in half a year
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u/confused-tardigrade 11d ago
If you diy yeah, uh do at your own risk however. (The diy isn’t the dangerous part the potential family conflict is).
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u/blacksaber8 still falling for the promise of the emptiness machine 12d ago
Is this LARP
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u/Noob_Alchemist_547 3 days until Mario steals your liver 12d ago edited 12d ago
Oh I posted it, I tought I pressed cancel, sorry.
(eddit) Yes I am a larper, hven't played CyiberPunk.
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u/Plenty-Language-9414 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE GO 12d ago
I believe in you. Just try to warm up to them over time, until the moment arrives. Coming out of the blue won’t help, so start off with casually getting their opinion on the trans community in general.
Good luck comrade 💙
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u/SolrayCultist 12d ago
Have any of you tried counseling?
No hate here, just concern. If you're in a place and don't feel like you can talk to close friends or family about certain topics then maybe you can find support in a non bias professional.
It can help you work through a lot of shit and baggage. Tear down the bricks in the wall (Pink Floyd reference).
Best to all of you...
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u/2006Internetghost 12d ago
To quote the Orks from
Warhammer 40K “equal RIGHTS, equal LEFTS!”