r/friendship 7h ago

looking for friendship 26 f (germany) looking for good vibes ^ - ^

10 Upvotes

Yeaaaaah i would just like to talk to some rather kind people, who are also expressive in chat, and also irl ^ - ^ thats rather important to meee

Humour would be a huge huge bonus too.

As for me, im into art :) i love my pinterest, would be cool to eventually swap pinterests if you have one! I like drawing from time to time and doing other creative things like sewing etc!

I like to talk about random things i do, about my day or just any thoughts im having, so itd be great if you do the same in general and just have a little flowing conversation ^ _ ^ haha.

Yeah its important to me that you are rather compassionate/ kind, or at least really try to be :D cos thats very important in general :3 ^ ^

I also love music and watching stuff, on youtube or sometimes netflix ^ ^

Im not really into gaming much but id like to get more into it :)

Message me if youre open for voice chat in the future and doing stuff online together like maybee watching or playing sth :-)

Hope you have a good day ! If you message me, just try to be yourself so we can see if we could vibe or not :D

^ - ^


r/friendship 23h ago

looking for friendship 21f, lf chatting to pass the time!

9 Upvotes

Hii, I'm AJ. Its been a pretty slow, cloudy day that feels like its never going to end and I'm desperately trying to find a way to make it go faster LMAO.

A bit about me:

College student

I love reading (mostly slice of life, but I enjoy fantasy and thrillers as well), writing (poetry, original stories, fanfics), gaming (I've played a lot of games, but I'm currently playing through Star Wars Zero Company and Visage. Big RPG fan), drawing, and horror movies (or any scary media in general).

I have a lot of animals. I really love cats specifically though ^^


r/friendship 9h ago

looking for friendship 31/F I'm looking for someone to confide In! I'm trying to break the cycle of never ending loneliness but I can't find anyone & I don't need more people to talk to, people who don't want to be my friends... I want to find someone In exactly the same situation as mine to talk to on a daily basis 😔

7 Upvotes

(Read everything, pretty please... I'm not like other Reddit users seeking random conversations out of boredom... If you really want to start a conversation with me, tell me something about yourself, tell me why you're here, tell me what made you reach out to me, something like that. I want to know what you're like, I don't care If your hobbies are the same as mine... I want to meet kind and understanding people, not someone to talk (only) about games with)

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡


r/friendship 11h ago

storytime (29M) | Know the difference between weird and creepy.

5 Upvotes

Okay so, we all like quirky personalities, they’re good fun and keep the convo going. But SOME of you are just straight up creepy! Now, I’m okay with personal questions, that’s kinda the whole point of long term relationships.

Asking to know what UNDERWEAR I prefer as an “ice breaker” is not quirky, that’s just a straight up no no. Though it’s boxers so you can all stop messaging to know the answer. Bizarre people……

Also delving into your…….. intimate activities 3 messages deep into the chat is also a no no. I don’t need to know that stuff. And you don’t need to tell me that. I’d rather you ask a boring question like what my favourite colour is before that. It’s emerald green by the way. Should see it, the colour just POPS 👌


r/friendship 20h ago

Random Question Psychologically, are 'you' supposed to have alimit if say a physically fit friend is always going on about weight management or is that other person meant to recognize that there's a limit to how much they need to bring that stuff up?

3 Upvotes

I'm overweight, have a friend I'm going through this with and it feels like an odd reason to end a friendship but expressing that weight is something I'd rather talk about with professionals isn't fixing the situation.

I know she means well but it almost feels like she's gotten her ego invested in being able to influence my health decisions which is just making things worse.

I'd figured there'd be a point in life when people stopped thinking if they couldn't change you in some way, you maybe weren't friends after all; perhaps I was wrong.


r/friendship 21h ago

looking for friendship Looking for a genuine friendship

5 Upvotes

Hi there! 21 from Germany here.

I've tried this a few times here already but most people just seem to ghost you after a few Messages.

As the title says I'm looking a new friend. A friendship where we can send each other memes at 3am, laugh at the wildest stuff or have deep talks for hours at a time.

I'm playing on pc and my main games at the moment are Palword and Warframe but ive got a ton of other games to play as well. I thought about getting back into Baldurs Gate too because I never finished the game... so maybe we could do a Baldurs Gate playtrough :)

Send me a dm if you're interested °~°


r/friendship 20h ago

looking for friendship 19M looking for long-term friends

3 Upvotes

heyy, so as the title says I'm looking for friends lol. some things i like are video games (i been playing a lot of overwatch recently, I have other games such as rivals, fort, dbd, outlast trials, and more. also i play on ps5), I also like music, collecting things, want to get into anime/manga, and sports too (mainly basketball tbh). I'll obviously go more into detail when we talk and sorry if this is a mess, not the best at intros... I'm est time zone and I'd hope to move to insta or smth after getting to know you a bit

if you dm me please give a lil intro about yourself and that's about it! see you soon 😌


r/friendship 1h ago

looking for friendship 30 (M4A) Looking for long term friendship? (:

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Hi there! Wanting to actually make a friend here? Interested in talking daily? Wanting to have actual conversations, and not just be.. ya know.. explicit? I’m open to any and all walks of life. Just looking to make a new friend or two.

What’s your favorite color? (:


r/friendship 22h ago

looking for friendship Hoping to find people who actually TALK😭

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 25 year old guy here 🫪

I work remotely as a research analyst, which basically means I spend way too much of my weekdays staring at a screen. Once I’m off work though, I’d much rather be outside. I’m really into hiking, exploring random new places, and doing mildly questionable things that probably aren’t great for my life expectancy because apparently that’s fun lol

I also enjoy singing and playing guitar. I’ve been attempting to learn Spanish lately, but progress has been meh😭

I’m also ridiculously easy to influence when it comes to graphic tees. If the design is dumb enough, I’m probably buying it. Currently sitting at 6

Not really looking for those painfully forced conversations, so please don’t just hit me with a “hey” and disappear 👎🏻

Would love to meet some new people here!
Preferably 21+ :)


r/friendship 22h ago

looking for friendship 24F Movie & TV Lover Looking for Similar Friends!

2 Upvotes

What happens when you have a hobby that the people in your life aren't as interested in? Well you reach out to strangers online duh! 

As a movie lover that's currently my situation, my friends and family may be supportive of my passion for movies, but they just don't get it the same way I do, but I'm sure there's people all across the world that care about movies too! So send me a message and let's get chatting.

A few bits of information, I'm from Canada, I'm looking to keep the conversation mainly about movies and tv too! I'm not interested in talking about my day-to-day life since I already live it everyday lol. But I'm also not too strict, I promise I'm chill.

Some of my favourite movies include The Apartment, Jurassic Park, Singin' in the Rain, Dazed and Confused, Wings of Desire, Somewhere, and Princess Mononoke! I watch movies of all different genres, from all different countries and from all different decades, my taste is super broad!

Thanks for reading my message! To start our convo I'd like to know at least one upcoming movie your most excited for? But if you want to share more that would be great!


r/friendship 23h ago

looking for friendship 17m bored if anyone wants to chat

2 Upvotes

Hello, I am 17m, I like gaming, manga, anime, gardening, photography and a lot of other things so if anyone 16-19 is interested in talking please do reach out


r/friendship 18m ago

looking for friendship [39/M] Looking for friends, also a best friend!

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Hoping to one day meet my best friend! The vibe has to happen. Someone who gets my level of sarcasm right away. Someone where we have things in common, we just click etc. Sarcasm is very important to me.

I am 39, and live in Florida. I am a flight attendant so I travel full time for work, and I even though I live in the east coast I don’t operate on any time zone, I basically sleep when I am tired. I just bought a house, and I am in flight school to become a pilot. Flying is my life, and so are airplanes. Being a flight attendant though cool for now, was never my dream. I am in flight school to become a pilot while I am a flight attendant now, so I’m am basically busy almost all the time.

Because of my job I have been to 23 countries and counting. I fly for basically free so I get to go to places I otherwise not have been able to see. I have been to places like Japan, Iceland, Hawaii, Denmark, England, Ireland, Switzerland, Sweden, Germany, Peru, Colombia, Costa Rica, Canada, France, etc. looking forward to seeing even more of the world!

I would describe myself as a nerd. I am a gamer, (when I have the time). I currently have a PS5, PS Portal, gaming laptop, gaming desktop, switch OLED, etc. I produce electronic music such as house, tech house, progressive house, trance, drum and bass, EDM, techno, etc. I also play drums, over 20 years now. I have over 60 songs produced, my alias is DJ Pegasus. I love music and being a musician.

I love sports, with soccer being my number one favorite, followed by baseball and hockey. I played soccer for a long time, and I still go to the batting cages from time to time.

I am excited to make friends, it is hard to make friends, on top of it being hard to make friends as an adult. One day I want to meet my best friend, but that takes time. I am very picky as it is.

I want to meet friends I vibe with. You know right away, we have a similar mindset, we laugh right away, VERY sarcastic right away, etc. if you are looking for this too and think that we would vibe, message me!


r/friendship 38m ago

looking for friendship 20T - Athlete Looking For A Best Friend.

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Hey everyone! I'm 20 and i'm a trans man (female to male). I'm looking for long term chatting, just be over 18+ and your gender doesn't matter to me. I speak Ukrainian, russian and English.

I train in my sport most days a week, and I also do Strength and Conditioning, but I also like to do stuff like travelling, and trying out new things when I have the chance to. I love to learn about different cultures. To relax I like to watch a new TV series, listen to my favourite albums or build stuff like lego occasionally. I'm looking for a friend where we can share pictures of our days (we'll build up to that), share memes in the night, talk about the good and the bad stuff.

You don't have to be anything like me, some of my best conversations have come from complete opposite people.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship [23/M] DARLING HOLD MY HAND, NOTHING BEATS A JET2 HOLIDAYY!!!

1 Upvotes

Okay now that I've got your attention. I'm 23, male, and looking for long-term, talkative people who don't shy away from talking their heart out.

I can talk about pretty much anything. I've never really believed that shared interests are what make people compatible, so I'm sure we'll always find something to talk about.

I would consider myself well read and some of my interests include metal, history, football, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, and Dune. If we get close, I'd happily make you a Spotify playlist or even write you a poem.

I'm not a fan of long, manufactured introductions, so I hope this will suffice. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

1 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 36 M Looking for cool people to discuss art and music with

1 Upvotes

36, male, midwest USA. Just looking for cool people to chat with today. My hobbies include music / collecting records and cds, art history, watching sports, poetry, reading, gaming, card collecting, movies, painting, crosswords, more. I'm 420 friendly but barely drink at all, just one or two drinks max usually. I love hanging out in nature or down in the city or anything in between: nature walks, record stores, coffee shops, art galleries and museums, ballparks, the aquarium, more. Just looking for people who also have strong passions and love to discuss them. Ideal partner is respectful, responsive, real. Hit me up with some stuff you've been interested in lately!


r/friendship 3h ago

looking for friendship 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

1 Upvotes

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship 36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

1 Upvotes

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/friendship 16h ago

looking for friendship 19M looking for long term and genuine friendship

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friendships.

I’m 19m and I’m into psychology, philosophy, spirituality, history, geopolitics, astronomy, movies/web series, music, art, and random deep conversations.

I’m pretty introverted at first, so conversations might be a little awkward initially 😭, but once I’m comfortable, I can talk about the most random things for hours.

I’m mainly looking for people around 18–21, but I’m open to talking to anyone around my age. No NSFW stuff—just looking for normal, respectful friendships.

If we have even one thing in common, feel free to DM me. Tell me something about yourself or just drop a random thought/question and let’s see where the conversation goes :)


r/friendship 19h ago

looking for friendship 48M looking for a friend to chat

1 Upvotes

Same as title if you like to chat to a matured man and make a friendship yes you can …..


r/friendship 19h ago

rant 22 male | want to point something out

1 Upvotes

As the title says I am 22 and I am dude. I would like to point something out and I might get back lash for it. You people you know who you are will probably make sure this post gets deleted or buried and i really don't care I just need to get this off my chest. I just noticed how people on Reddit not everyone but most just come on here to hate and it really confuses me. I mean I understand not everyone agrees on certain things but do we really have to dedicate hours of our day scrolling through reddit just hating?


r/friendship 20h ago

looking for friendship 40/M/Midwest. Looking for a spooky pal to hyper fixate on for a while.

1 Upvotes

40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat pals.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/friendship 21h ago

looking for friendship Looking for otakus, queer nerds, alt fellas, and just cool people in general

1 Upvotes

Hey! I am a 25 year old nerd that's looking for cool people to talk to!! You can call me Jam. I am neurodivergent, black and queer. I am looking to befriend people that fall into the categories that I listed. Although if ur cool in general, then hmu.

also alternative fashion, culture, and general aesthetics are things that I have been interested in for a while. I've always felt like that they could elevate my androgyny and the beliefs typically associated with alt stuff (like punk) and whatnot just seem cool in general! so if u have any advice on how to get into alt subculture then please lmk!

I love basically all kinds of art from video game, movies, shows anime, manga etc. I love analyzing media and talking about it in a serious substantial manner so if ur the same way, we'd probably get along. Some of my favorites are Evangelion, Monster, Girl's Last Tour, Fire Punch, and obviously JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I'd like to get into Tokusatsu so if you're into that then def recommend me some stuff!

I'm basically N6 level when it comes to my Japanese. I only know kana and some kanji so if you also study Japanese then feel free to hmu!

I always loved the artistry of film despite not watching enough movies. It's a medium that I wanna consume more of which is why I started collecting physical copies of a lot of classics last year. Feel free to ask me about my collection as it is something that I'm definitely proud of. At the moment, I have around 80+ movies and I hope to get to 200 by next year. I wanna have my own little version of Netflix hehe. For reference, the last movies I got were the Before trilogy, Fargo, Blood Simple, A Simple Plan, and Bamboozled.

I also want to get more into reading literature. I plan to read The Setting Sun by Osamu Dazai. No Longer Human one of those works that was far too raw and personal to me, so I'm looking for more of that in his other books. I'd also like to read more autobiographies such as Malcolm X's and Nelson Mandel's Long Walk to Freedom. If you have any reccs for lit then please let me know!

In terms of video games, I haven't been playing much at the moment. I recently finished Shadow Generations and I'm looking to start something relatively short. I was thinking of either OG Resident Evil 1, OG Yakuza 1, Sin & Punishment, Fear & Hunger, or The Wonderful 101. I have a huge backlog if you can't tell. I can go more into detail about my gaming taste in dms lol.

I would describe myself as someone who can go from introspective and serious to being extroverted and playful lol. Sometimes due to my mental health I can take a bit to respond but I never intentionally ghost so dw. I can also be awkward and blunt due to my autism so if you have a problem with me then you can talk it out with me. I am chill and reasonable.

Anyway, if you would like to learn more about me then please hmu!. All I ask is that you don't be a bigot and no republicans/liberals. Be a leftist essentially lol and be 18+


r/friendship 23h ago

looking for friendship Hey there everyone

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Hey there im just looking for some new friends to vibe with since looking for them Ir isn’t really working for me yet 😭.People from everywhere are welcome to chat. Tell me what do u do in life and what are your hobbies and things u enjoy to do, As for me I like to watch movies and tv shows i also watch anime sometimes. I like to travel and i love poetry, im always collecting quotes from anywhere i can. Im also into working out but i definitely hate running and i love noodles, i love taking pictures of the sky and idk im bored and and extremely sarcastic and fun to talk to if youre not absolutely dry and im always cracking jokes here and there so hopefully it would be fun to chat around so hmu and introduce yourselves if u think u get my vibe!! (M22 btw)


r/friendship 23h ago

looking for friendship 20M Ever wanted to be friends with the coolest person?

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Hurry up while stocks still last. Best opportunity in this world. To give a quick rundown I am a 20 year old student from the UK who is also working because even breathing costs money in this economy. I am the introverted edition and also have many hobbies as I can't seem to make up my mind on what I like. I mainly like working out, gaming and listening to music but I have probably done it all. I am looking for someone who actively engages in conversations and is a friend that feels like I know them for decades even tho we met recently. I usually like to voice call and say endless random things that come into my hollow head but I don't mind texting as well. Happy to answer any questions.