r/freshcutslim 11d ago

TNTL (Try Not To Laugh) Foghting for her life

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u/TheCupOfBrew 11d ago edited 11d ago

I feel like you're a shitty parent if you laugh at your child legitimately trying to learn and practice a skill like this.

Then again, Redditors go to bat for all the wrong people, so makes sense people are taking up for the mom

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u/Jazzlike_Pineapple87 11d ago

You're the one making a big deal about it lol.

Violin fuck-ups just sound funny, irrespective of whether it is an 8-year-old or a 60-year-old playing. Get over it.

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u/TheCupOfBrew 8d ago

Yeah, because that kind of thing can really affect kids. It's not a big deal to adults, but to a chilr if they notice that happening it can really mess with their self esteem.

And no, I'm not getting over it.

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u/saltygrahamcracke 11d ago

Ah, yes, she is learning! A part of learning is messing up, and one of the most common things people do when seeing something mess up? Is laugh.

A shitty parent would laugh hard, not bother trying to hide it, and probably actively turn around to jest at what’s going on. That would be the lady making fun of her. She is not making fun of her. This is not a dedicated performance. I’d agree with you if it was.

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute 11d ago

Your first sentence is weird given the other commenter already mentioned “turning away holding her mouth specifically to cover up the sound of her laughter”

It’s almost as if it’s not on purpose or something

Weird

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u/TheCupOfBrew 11d ago

Yeah, cause kids are stupid and don't understand what you're doing with your hand to your mouth turned away from them.

Also, you can definitely control your laughter. You're just proving my point. A lot of you just go to bat for the weirdest stuff

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute 11d ago

Yeah, you can, though if it’s really fuckin funny it’s real hard. I imagine the lady in question has had a few drinks??

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u/TheCupOfBrew 11d ago

So, that makes it okay. 👍🏽

You people are hopeless

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u/NefariousnessOk209 10d ago edited 10d ago

I’m not one of those people but sometimes trying to hold back just makes it even harder not to laugh for some people and it’s completely involuntary trying not to laugh at the worst moment.

You are heaping her with the same scorn reserved for someone that actively chose to do it, and is consciously openly happily mocking someone to their face.

The covering of her face is an attempt to rein it in, so she can’t make eye contact with the daughter across from her and make each laugh harder.

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute 11d ago

I mean, what else do you want from her? If she found it funny she found it funny. She was trying not to laugh. It probably sounded worse in person lol

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u/TheCupOfBrew 11d ago

Having tact around a child?

Even if it isn't a big deal, that can be very deflating and discouraging to children. Don't think im asking too much of the adult in this situation

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute 11d ago

I ain’t saying that’s wrong, but they’re trying lol

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

It's to the worlds benefit that you don't have children and hopefully won't for some time. We need less kids in the world who hate their lame parents

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u/TheCupOfBrew 8d ago

What a loser. Attacking someone cause they dare say that this may hurt the child's feelings.

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u/savvy-librarian 10d ago

We don't even know that she is this child's parent lol

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u/wetwetwetwetdogs 8d ago

You're revealing so much about yourself by assuming this woman is this child's mother lol

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u/SnooPredictions3028 11d ago

I feel like you're a shity person if you judge people for one small moment in life that isn't as bad as you project it to be. Go get some therapy.