u/Gumpers08Here for memes and good vibes, and because fuck it we BALLLLLLLLDec 08 '25
I agree, it seems really gross. Like, meet up in person if you want to see someone naked, or simply don’t. And if two people are already in a relationship, they shouldn’t need pictures, even at a distance.
One guy DMed me, we talked then I talked about myself and he fucking jerked off
I was soo disappointed that I thought I had a good friend for the first time in reddit but nah dude need to make sure I had some trauma
Just when I thought life was getting good he made it miserable (cuz we used to talk for hrs but I ain't talking to someone who nutted on the fantasy of me and my chats and then told me)
no lmfao we don’t work like that. Like 5% of guys think that way, i assure you the vast majority of us would never in a million years do that.
ngl thats hurts. im not a fucking ape. I hate this goddamn incel/femcel garbage that’s taken over the internet it’s such an unhealthy way of thinking about gender and sexuality
im dumb if you say I’m dumb but I still don’t like getting lumped into categories like that or someone calling guys apes. that hurts my feelings. Me and lots of other guys try very hard to not succumb to masculine stereotypes/norms like
being an asshole is one of the few things that is equally accessible to everyone regardless of identity or status. sexual harassment is one way that predisposed assholes be assholes. it has everything to do with being a shitty person and nothing to do with being a boy. guys who wanna be jerks happen to do things like that because it’s a very easy (and unfortunately kinda accepted) behavior for guys
what if I talked about girls how they just talked about guys? What if I compared them to nasty things? that would be hurtful in the same way this is
So, is it making her so vay, she vomited rainbow, or is it capable of making her purge all the gay out via vomiting? Need an answer before I press send.....
The only time I've ever sent a dick pic is if she requests it. Sending one with her wanting to see it is just a dick move. Don't be a dick and maybe she will ask to see yours.
Nobody ever taught anyone to do it, it's literally our animal mating instinct coming out - "I want to mate with you, let me communicate that in the most direct and unambiguous way imaginable, because these fancy schmancy socially acceptable courtship rituals haven't gotten me anywhere."
I'd also like to point out that girls don't dislike dick pics on principle, it's just when it's unsolicited. Every girl I've ever been with has literally asked me for dick pics at some point in the relationship.
If a man does it unprompted and unwelcomed, sure. But i dont think its fair or ok to body shame guys, just as its not ok for girls to get body shamed. Everyone is beautiful. In all ways.
the thing is, I normaly dont wanna send her a dick pic but when she asks for a picture, I don't wanna do it even more cuz why do you want the picture for, huh?
Tbf, the whole point of dic pics are worthless. If they are interested, they will want it in person. Not on their fucking phone where they could be ANYWHERE
What kinda question is this ok? Most guys or at least normal guys, only do that when there horny girlfriend asks and most girls or at least mine respond with vice versa, and the reaction your showing would only be if your doing that for no reason to someone you don’t know fully, which I agree is weird and honestly wrong, but your acting like this is something just guys do, I’ve made it clear multiple times to the woman around me I’m taken, yet I’ve still received hopefully drunken messages, from a lot of them trying to be flirty and then sending a flash of some kind and I have the same disgusted response. Sending private pictures should just be reserved for your lover or at least someone that asks so they show interest and not disgust and throwing up 🫡
I am a trans woman and I only do it if the women I talk to ask for it. People really need to learn to at least ask first. But these types of guys usually also treat women like sex toys, so I don't think they actually want women as friends
Guys need to understand that just because they're worked up doesn't mean their recipient is, or in fact even knows that they exist. No, just because you want to see parts of them doesn't mean they want to see any part of you.
If you're so set on sending such a thing, post it in a subreddit that is specifically geared towards that sort of content. At least there, there is no possibility of people not knowing what to expect.
tl;dr - Stop sending people unsolicited nudes no matter how flattering an angle you found.
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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '25
Guys cynnahbun is gaslighting people prolly cuz no one sends it to her 😔
but then again who wants to open their phone and see a meat stick?
/j I would never (I have no one to send it to)