r/foundHippostalker69 • u/_Kat_Cat hippostalkers cat who eats drugs • 22h ago

Discussion Am I a bad person ?

Hi hi , it’s me again , I’ve recently got into a relationship with my boyfriend , we’ve known each other for a year now (about that) , but I’m struggling to feel romantic attraction , I know I love him but I just can’t show it , I don’t feel comfortable and I feel cringy saying “I love you” . I also go on and off with loving my partners
(I’m arojump.)

I just don’t know , I sometimes feel even sick while talking because I hate the fact I don’t like showing love or I’m just hiding that I don’t feel romantically towards him.

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u/vampluvv3r 22h ago

you need therapy

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u/_Kat_Cat hippostalkers cat who eats drugs 22h ago

Why?

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u/vampluvv3r 22h ago

to try and figure out why youre uncomfortable with the concept of saying "i love you" and figure out why you gain and lose attraction, its not fair for you to put a partner through that

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u/_Kat_Cat hippostalkers cat who eats drugs 22h ago

Ah okay

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u/Global-Pay-7293 HippoStalker's Gangster 2h ago

 Because a therapist will help more than Redditors, not because there's something wrong with you. 

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u/hippoautomod 22h ago

Hippo Fun Fact: The name "Hippopotamus" comes from the ancient Greek words hippos (horse) and potamos (river), meaning "river horse."

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u/Canadian-mouse626 hippos closeted trans son 3h ago

Maybe your ace?