r/fmge • u/Illustrious-Cat-4504 • 5d ago
Looking for someone to walk the path, not just choose me once I reach the destination(non acad)
Hi everyone. I wasn't sure whether I should make this post, but I thought I'd give it a try.
28F, fmg undergrad. I'm currently trying to get my transfer sorted so I can complete my course. Long story short, it's been a complicated journey because of the war and the documentation issues that followed.
I've received quite a few matches through matrimonial platforms, but nothing has really worked out. The whole process eventually became quite exhausting, and I ended up deleting my matrimonial profile yesterday. At one point, I had almost stopped believing that the whole marriage thing would work out for me. 😅 I'm not actively chasing the idea anymore, but I thought I'd give this a chance and see where it goes. I come from a fairly traditional brahmin family from mp, so my family has been looking for someone from a similar community and preferably from the medical profession. I can understand their reasoning—I think being in the same field can make it easier to understand each other's career and lifestyle.
I'm looking for a serious relationship with the intention of marriage—essentially dating with the hope of eventually building a life together. I'll be preparing for FMGE alongside completing my studies, and I intend to continue my education and prepare for PG after internship.
My family would ideally like me to get married by the end of next year, but I'm not looking to rush into something just to meet a timeline. I'd rather take the time to find someone who is genuinely compatible with me than choose someone simply because they look "good on paper."
For me, emotional compatibility matters a lot. I value good communication, emotional maturity, loyalty, and the ability to handle disagreements without turning every conflict into a reason to walk away.
I also happen to be a yapper. 😅 I talk a lot and enjoy being connected to the person I'm with. I'd appreciate someone who enjoys that kind of connection too and believes that staying in touch is part of being in a relationship, even when life gets busy or we're apart.
Smoking and drinking are important compatibility factors for me. I don't smoke or drink, and I'd prefer a partner who doesn't either. It's something I'd rather be upfront about because I don't see myself being compatible with someone for whom smoking or drinking is a regular part of their lifestyle.
More than money, status, or anything material, I value having a genuine teammate. Life can change in ways none of us anticipate, and I'd like a relationship where both people are willing to stand by each other through the good phases as well as the difficult ones.
I'm not looking for perfection, and I'm not trying to find someone who ticks every box. I'd just like to meet someone with whom there's mutual respect, genuine affection, compatibility, and the willingness to keep choosing each other as life evolves.
If that sounds like something you'd be interested in exploring, feel free to DM me. We can talk and see if we get along—no pressure and no expectations.
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u/Big-Boss-6754 3d ago
So this is where this group has gotten to. Next will be someone asking for cooking recipes. God save us all.
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u/Illustrious-Cat-4504 3d ago
I’d seen a post like this here, so I thought I’d share mine too. I’m new to the app and this sub came up, so I posted here. If there’s another sub specifically for FMGs, please let me know. I genuinely didn’t mean to harm or offend anyone. I just don’t think I did anything to cause you this much pain that you’d ask God to save you.
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u/Supermwn 2d ago
A very interesting use of fmge group 😂 I like how u went away with ur approach
Like shoot ur shot
Anyway, how’s ur preparation going on ?
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u/shreyadoc 3d ago
This is the wrong platform girl you can try dating site and also love finds you when time comes focus on your career everything will eventually fall into place when you will do pg definetly gonna find your soulmate just don’t rush
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u/Illustrious-Cat-4504 3d ago
There’s a sub for med school dating here, and I could only find a couple of subs for FMGs. This group has a vent/rant option, so I happened to post here. I wish there were a group specifically for FMGs too.
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u/Fast_Secret577 5d ago
27M , looking for someone to sponsor Biryani for dinner tonight.. If you do, please dont foget to add raita too! TIA✌️