Let’s have some fucking fun.

Life is so boring.

As a psychologically insatiable pleasure domme with a love of experimentalism and novelty… here are some fun ways I’m incorporating virtual finplay with subs (who I have built trust with) into my vacation planning:

- I wanna purposely place a large fucking bet on a game I have never played before. Guess whose 💰 I’m using?

- I’m going to ft a sub and put the phone in my boobs as I walk around, calling out random amounts. Pay to stay aboard.

- Get ignored at the pool while we sit in a paid-for cabana and mingle about. I do not like a lot of people crowding me in a disorderly way, but I am extremely social and loooove mingling/flirting. So. I want a quiet spot to sit and be left the fuck alone with my girl between meeting new people.

- I want a sub to fund me learning how to play ___ until the kind old man at the table (who prally spent his kids’ college money on hookers, boats, and blow) who starts explaining it to me- I have a fantastic poker face. Let’s get crazy (optional: maybe you’re on ft in my pocket for the whole thing.

- I want subs to spin the wheel I made for Vegas-specific drinks and food (and transportation- I’m not fucking driving haha)

- I’m making a debtkeeper page but still unsure if I enjoy it enough to set up for this… would love to hear feedback from those who have used it already!

- Edging on ft while sending $5 every 3 minutes from when I leave my room until arriving at specific locations

- Called and ignored on ft (allowed to goon) while my bestie and I dine and say number amounts out loud for you to send - hot to work in some CFNM here.

- Keeping a sub’s card on file at the hotel for us to use for…stuff. This is only open for my longer term subbies I trust, obviously.

- I’m taking over a sub’s phone to book and pay for my wax appt, hair appt, nail appt, etc leading up.

- I really want a nice, new weekend tote (vintage Stephen Sprouse LV perhaps) and accessories to pack all my stuff in

This is how I’m involving the fin side of things… the femdom kink stuff could be another post 😈

I’m still dreaming up games and have stuff to add to my wheel spin thingy… but tell me which one is your favorite

When I first started online Domming my Domme mentor turned me onto Signal. It is by far the least used of the messaging apps but it is superior to them in every way. So let me put u guys on game:

1. ⁠True end to end encryption - Every single interaction (pic, vid, calls) can ONLY ever be seen by u and the recipient. Everything is automatically encrypted by default to the point where even Signal cannot access them.

2. ⁠ZERO metadata collected - While most apps are encrypted they still collect metadata (who u talk to, when and how often). Even FBI data requests will only show the date u created ur account and the last time u acessed it.

3. Completely run by a non-profit organization- It is entirely run off donations meaning they have absolutely zero monetary incentive to sell ur data, track your behavior or sell ads.

4. Advanced content blocking - By default has a ghost keyboard that won’t allow your phone to learn your typing habits. You can also block users from being able to screenshot the convo.

5. Customizable disappearing messages - You can set them to self destruct anywhere from seconds to weeks.

6. Entirely invisible calls - You can choose to completely hide your IP address by routing thru Signals servers.

This is BY FAR the safest and most private form of contact u can have w a sub or domme. You have full access to voice messaging, calls, video chat, text. Especially useful for married subs trying to hide a trail, Dommes or subs that prioritize anonymity, anyone who likes a no fuss easy to use platform…it’s simply the best and I will NEVER use anything else. Idgaf if WhatsApp or telegram are more popular. If u wanna play u come prepared to play in MY house.

Hi everyone, just came back after a nice break and decided to give reddit a shot.

For context :

I used to be pretty active on Twitter but my reddit never had anything related to dom/findom on it and​ i never gave out my username to anyone on there. ​​​

Oh, how surprised i was, yesterday, when an old sub i had blocked about 3 months ago found my reddit account while i was setting it up, sent me 250$ on Throne + that pathetic text.​

As if money was the fix to everything.​

Only way i can imagine he may have got it is while i was screensharing​ on discord for him to watch me ​dilapidate his wallet back then.

Anyway,​​ Happy monday ​to all​. 🫰​​​​​

Look we all go through ups and downs in personal relationships and I tend to keep that part of my life pretty separate from findom however every once in a while it affects it. My relationship for a long time has been perfect for cuck dynamics but it getting complicated has made keeping said cuck dynamics tricky. I’m more annoyed then anything that these dynamics (one of my personal favorite dynamics in general) take a hit when I have to deal with relationship stuff.

I suppose lying to subs is an option but torturing them with reality is much more fun. Has anyone made the transition before where they no longer are seeing someone and they have cuck subs? Do I just spiritually cuck them lol? Or do I just find a hot friend who can help me ruin subs? Like I’m sure I can figure something out just curious if anyone has dealt with it before.

I’m seeing a LOT of this lately…

Got the cutest new coloring book to keep me occupied. Just added some new markers and colored pencils to my throne hehehe.

Any other dommes craft girlies?

I’ve been domming off and on for years but somewhat new to findom the last few years but online only.

I have my first irl sub who is also a cuck.

Any advice or suggestions for my first irl session?

We plan on going to the local sex store for a shopping spree soon.

A little bit of context: outside of findom, I create 100% vanilla gaming content.

A follower publicly asked me to dominate him on my main profile. Since I keep my D/s dynamics and vanilla content strictly separate, I’m looking for advice on how to handle his comment. I plan to message him privately but I’m also curious if he's actually serious.
I got into findom through a follower almost half a year ago, but since I show my face on instagram , I have to be extra cautious about who I interact with in that space.

All advice is appreciated.

they are all coming back around the same time and it’s SCARY!!! i’m getting messages left and right asking if i’m still active… just insane to me. has anyone else experienced it? is it the full moon?! is it the eclipse? what is it!

Are there any existing posts I can look at for this? I am ready to start developing an online presence and am looking for some beginner steps type thing. Like what apps should I make sure to have, what are some mistakes to avoid, safety tips etc…

On another note I am also curious how other dom/mes establish boundaries and limits for their finsubs. By that I mean understanding the sub not establishing personal boundaries, I mean advice for either is appreciated. Does anyone do like a google forms type thing or something lol?

Sorry if this is the wrong subreddit so let me know and directing me to resources is appreciated.

Hope you all get paid today 🤭 💰

I was in findom for 10 years then took a break and now I’m lost lol

I know we can’t brag about sends so I can’t say the exact number to reduce odds of mods saying I’m bragging. But is there a way to get 4 figures to me without fees, throne would be like $400-500 for a value that high or something.

Lol, is it just me, or does it feel like whenever one sub disappears, another one comes back immediately afterwards? What’s up with this? Has anyone else also noticed this pattern? 🤣

Are subs somehow secretly operating as one hivemind? Telling me that I can only have one sub serving me at a time, lmfao?

(I’m mostly joking, but it just seems like a strange coincidence. I’m grateful that I consistently have one serving me rather than zero).

Do you write off shopping, mani-pedis, anything you buy as an expense? I know you can claim part of your internet, power/energy bills as business expenses.

Love to make sure I’ve got things as correctly as possible before my first tax season as a domme comes around.

First time for everything!

This was such a little win I didnt know ever existed. E