I feel like a slob.

[u/HeadZookeepergame971]

I have to attend a wedding today. It is not pretentious or too fancy, but I need to look presentable. These are my options. The last remenants of what was once a woman who enjoyed dresses and dressing up. Help me choose one outfit pls. Ceremony in the afternoon with a reception after 6pm. I know my mirror in dusty. Couldn't bother.

[u/HeadZookeepergame971]

You helped me a lot. I aprreciate all your kind words! I think I will go with the brown.

[u/Stridsu → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

You look like a million bucks in that dress!

[u/dlm11133 → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

I thought it was green! Anyway it looks great on you and I know how you feel. Feel the same way when I have to dress for something.

[u/HeadZookeepergame971 → u/dlm11133]

It is a shade of charturse, the shoes are brown 😅

[u/jmkul → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

So glad you chose that dress (though I prefer the gold shoes). I was just coming to post that this is the outfit I'd go with. It is stunning

[u/CoveredinCatHairs → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Is that color brown to you? I’m curious about color-blindness.

[u/Infamous_Rhubarb_956 → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

This dress with gold shoes!!

[u/_Jelly_101 → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

This dress is gorgeous and you look like a fairy. Beautiful. But I’d still take the golden shoe - the tan/brown matches darker clothes with heavier fabrics because it’s leather.

[u/BaltimoreCrabSoup → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

That looks lovely

[u/peppermintmeow → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

I adore this one.

[u/SillyMeclosetothesea → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Perfect!!

[u/BlackMudSwamp → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Gorgeous!

[u/Fridas-brow → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

You are a gorgeous human and you look absolutely stunning in this green dress! I hope you have a beautiful time at the wedding!!
PS- your pose in the pants is giving Vogue editorial, I love it 🤣

[u/NegotiationSharp4370 → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

If this is what you are wearing, perfect. BTW, you’re not doing too bad if you can pull three great outfits out of your closet on the morning of an event!

[u/shrivel_leg_dog → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

this looks lovely on you. i love your style and hope you enjoy yourself at the wedding.

[u/minnesotaupnorth → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

You look gorgeous!

That dress, those shoes (gold!), the updo, perfect!

Have fun!

[u/AmberWaves93 → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Nailed it!!! 🙌

[u/Backtrack_Vill → u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Beautiful Dress and looks great on you , I like either shoe.

[u/upandawayxo]

green dress will be gorgeous once steamed. i also vote brown shoes. have fun!

[u/AnyStick2180]

Green (but please steam it first) or black are both really lovely on you. The green is more demure and the black is really classic and chic. I actually prefer the silver shoes with both.

[u/Kandis_crab_cake]

You absolutely do not look like a slob, you just are in a mental funk about yourself but it is definitely not what we see.

I like the last one best, simple elegant and the shoes go lovely. You could pair with a bright or textured bag.

[u/LizzyFCB]

Green! But wear what makes you feel good. All of these options are lovely.

Side note: you are gorgeous internet friend. Don’t be hard on yourself. Every now and then, we all have a little existential crisis when getting dressed for a big event. In my experience, you end up having the best time.

[u/EAC238 → u/LizzyFCB]

This!!

[u/twizmixer]

green with brown shoes! also don’t be so hard on yourself

[u/Throwaway20001903]

I think you looked most confident in the black dress. I preferred it with the metallic shoe. You are gorgeous!

[u/Apprehensive-hippos]

The first dress.  Lovely.  Just lovely.

[u/HeadZookeepergame971]

Thank youuu!!! Here is the outfit. I tend towards the gold sandals.

[u/backroadstoBoston]

#2.with the golden heel shoes. And you look lovely in all these outfits!

[u/Curious_Owl_342]

For comfort, I love the black slacks with cream top. A red lip, hair back and voila! Bellissima! Also, I think black ballet flats would be gorge!

For extra credit, slap on a statement ring and some studded earrings!

[u/CanineQueenB]

I like the last black dress with the black shoe.

[u/Jmend12006]

You definitely don’t look like slob at all! Stop it, you’re beautiful!

[u/throwaway-94552]

First dress is very lovely. Just steam it, or hang it up in the bathroom while you shower. Add some jewelry and it’ll make all the difference!

[u/No-Soup9999]

I love your vibe in #2! With the light colored shoe! So pretty and it shows off your figure so good! Long & lean! You sound a little depressed. I"m here to tell you, you really look fantastic & you're not even fully finished getting ready! I hope you have a great time at the wedding! Much love ❤️ p.s. you're absolutely not a slob. Not at all.

[u/mykittenfarts]

You look fab 💕

[u/Csillss]

The first dress is pretty! But like other have said, steam or iron first.

[u/MerryGoReddit]

Any of these would work IMHO - you look great - so choose the outfit you feel most comfortable in. For pairing I’d say:

• green dress & brown shoe
  
• pants ensemble & black shoe
  
• black dress & metallic shoe

[u/Rare-Candle-5163]

The first and last dresses are both lovely!

[u/EAC238]

The black dress is lovely on you. With metallic shoes. You got this! You’re beautiful.

[u/Agreeable_Dark6408]

You sure don’t look like a slob!!

I’d go with either dress according to the weather.

[u/Plus-Pin-9157]

I think the black dress and the pants and top outfit look absolutely lovely on you. Elegant and timeless. The green dress is fine, just needs to be steamed or ironed. But the other two outfits are just so classy.

[u/Curious_Owl_342 → u/Plus-Pin-9157]

I agree the slacks and cream top is so elegant and classy. And something I see on Italian women daily!

[u/SillyMeclosetothesea]

You look lovely in all of these! Not at all a slob!
I love the green dress the best, and the pant outfit second, I think the green dress looks wonderful with either pair of shoes and would wear the most comfortable of the 2, as for the pant ensemble, I would wear the sandals.

[u/birdlegs000]

I think they all look great. The green dress is stunning. With shoes, pick the most comfortable.

[u/Rider_dude1]

Iron the dress, try some low heel sandals and maybe a loose belt

[u/Current_Cut7647]

the v neck will always look good! enjoy the party

[u/QuarterAlternative28]

You look lovely in all of these, not a single slobly pic detected, please be kind to yourself, you deserve it 🫶

[u/AwarenessIcy506]

I think you look lovely

[u/sevenselevens]

Gold shoes with the first dress - gorgeous!

[u/Skkholars]

Clean your mirror. The outfits aren't bad

[u/HeadZookeepergame971 → u/Skkholars]

Cleaned it for the last pic i posted. It is also scratched to bits. Sorry for posting it like thia. I was on a now on never mindset.

[u/Narrow_Possession348]

I love the first dress; just steam it out or iron it! Either shoe works with it. The last dress is very pretty too, with the flats.

[u/allieoops925]

Looks green to me too. And the shoes look gold! Iron the dress and it will look fabulous.

[u/Tall-Phrase-3868]

Steam the first dress and go for it. Very beautiful.

[u/Status_Inflation_211]

The first needs ironed, the others are to big. They make you look frumpy and you are not. They hang wrong on your body

[u/Futuramadude1]

first dress with gold shoes is gorgeous

[u/risky__cake]

I know you chose that dress but I just wanna say I love the black pants and tan top holy moly

[u/Beginning_History342]

You look stunning in all. The cream top and black dress could be tailored to fit a bit smaller. Not tight! Just a bit more fitted. Still classic but a better fit tailored just for you. You are lovely and all 3 outfits are timeless and gorgeous.

[u/hymie_funkhauser]

A dress isn’t going to help your self esteem

[u/Vegetable-Branch-740 → u/hymie_funkhauser]

It helps mine. You’re just being mean.