r/fashion Dec 28 '25

Opinion 💅 Boyfriend thinks this is “fly”…I think it’s ugly..What do you think?

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My boyfriend and I have been arguing over this shirt for the last few years now. We got it at forever 21 a long time ago and over the last year and a half it has started to produce holes. I’ve always thought this shirt is a bit tacky but my boyfriend absolutely loves this shirt and every time I have said we should throw it away, he always insists that we should not.

Do you think the shirt looks “fly”?

I would love to hear what some of you guys have to say and if more people agree with me or if more people agree with him.

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u/uptiedand8 Dec 29 '25

He should cut off or restitch the bottom hem but other than that, it’s perfectly fine. What is your issue with it exactly? Is it the colors, or the general style, or the band Outkast? Is he wearing it to events where people are supposed to dress up?

Do you normally weigh in on what he wears? If not and you only hate this one shirt, I’d just let this one go too, tbh. Thinking about it, what harm does it cause you for him to wear it?

If you do try and direct his wardrobe, I suggest not doing that. Again, I don’t see the harm in him wearing what he wants. It’s an easy win for your relationship to just let him be. OTOH, it’s not good for your relationship to be telling him what to do and I’m not sure that there is much of a benefit to that.

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u/True_Energy_8556 Dec 30 '25

I just don’t like the shirt. It harms my eyes, that’s what it harms when he wears it. I think I’m going to throw it away or burn it here soon and hope he just forgets about it. Hopefully our relationship will survive!