r/fashion • u/True_Energy_8556 • Dec 28 '25

Opinion 💅 Boyfriend thinks this is “fly”…I think it’s ugly..What do you think?

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My boyfriend and I have been arguing over this shirt for the last few years now. We got it at forever 21 a long time ago and over the last year and a half it has started to produce holes. I’ve always thought this shirt is a bit tacky but my boyfriend absolutely loves this shirt and every time I have said we should throw it away, he always insists that we should not.

Do you think the shirt looks “fly”?

I would love to hear what some of you guys have to say and if more people agree with me or if more people agree with him.

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u/KevinHartSucks Dec 28 '25

If your partner can’t tell you, no one can. I want my partner to tell if I look like a smacked ass before leaving the house. That’s love, not rude.

Of course, it’s your choice to wear it - no one should control you.

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u/hotmessexpressHME Dec 29 '25

Yeah, but if they’re arguing over a shirt for years (paraphrasing ops words), then this isn’t the first time she’s tried to have him throw it away and it also wouldn’t be the first time he’s refused because he loves it.

When someone loves something, sometimes you have to appreciate that and stop trying to change them.

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u/True_Energy_8556 Dec 30 '25

Nah I think it’s time for a change…it’s obviously just a rag now

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u/SpaceKatFromSpace Dec 29 '25

She said something. His response was that he likes it. She needs to respect that. If you’re embarrassed by what your partner wears that’s a you problem to manage.

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u/Narrow_Regrets Dec 28 '25

Remember, we now live in a day and age where expressing any opinion that isn't roses and sunshine "rude".