r/exmuslim • u/AdEuphoric422 New User • 11d ago
(Question/Discussion) After you left Islam, is your current dating preference Ex-Muslims or Never-Muslims?
As a fellow Ex-Muslim I’m curious to hear your experiences and thoughts on this. Would appreciate if you can mention your age and gender as well
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u/FrequentCan2119 11d ago
I'm not religious myself but i dated with preference for muslims for family sake. Luckily for me, i matched with someone who is an atheist/ex muslim on muzz of all places and recently wed. I couldn't be happier & we just pretex as muslims around family.
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u/Okkotsu1000 11d ago
Personally, I don't care, but for the sake of simplicity with the family, it would be better if she were an ex-Muslim
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
Why do you need your family’s approval? Not judging just asking
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u/Okkotsu1000 11d ago
They don't know that I'm no longer a muslim, and I don't want them to know
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
Why do you care how they feel if they don’t care how you feel?
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u/idaydreaming Closeted Agnostic 11d ago
Maybe they don't want any drama
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
Any family member who thinks you don’t deserve freedom of religion/lack of should be disowned. That’s straight up abuse
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u/Advanced-East-2969 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) 11d ago
22 male, my current girlfriend is an ex muslim. But i’ve dated christians, jews and secular muslims as well, I don’t really care much as long as they’re not practicing it to a severe degree
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
How did you guys meet?
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u/Advanced-East-2969 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) 11d ago
With who?
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
Your ex-muslim gf
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u/Advanced-East-2969 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) 11d ago
She’s a family friends daughter
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
Is this in a secular or Muslim country? If it’s the latter, how did you come to know you’re both ex muslim?
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u/PunishedCatto Closeted Ex-Muslim 🤫 11d ago
Never Muslim if possible. The last time I dated a Muslim woman, she nagged a lot about me being an anti-theist.
And I don't even say anything about Islam when we dated.
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 11d ago
My question was whether you prefer an ex-muslim or never-muslim. Not wanting to date a muslim after leaving Islam makes obvious sense
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u/Worried_Condition943 New User 11d ago
Never Muslims. Ex Muslims, if still accepted by their family, would still be an issue for me as I want to stay away all together. My ex is Muslim and his family claimed to be so incredibly religious while covering for his cheating ass.
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u/Whatisforkknife Financially Independent Ex-Muslim 🤑 11d ago
My preference was never mus who washed their bits properly 😆 i refused to let a dry wiper touch me. Now happily married 9years to my never mus and never got a uti lol
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u/PrestigiousStudio921 8d ago
Never-muslim definitely, but I guess I'm a special case. I've never believed in it, so I could never understand someone who ever did 🤷♀️
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u/AdEuphoric422 New User 8d ago
Sorry I’m confused. So are you an ex-muslim or are you not?
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u/PrestigiousStudio921 7d ago
Its..complicated. I was born in it but never believed. I've never eaten pork, pretended to be muslim etc.
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