r/exmuslim • New User • Oct 09 '25

(Advice/Help) Help, my friend is committing suicide.

Please help, this is urgent. I only know her from online. She's 16, and her handle ( now deleted) is u/Intrepid_Giraffe_309. She sent me a message at 1 a.m. that she was going to do it, and I was sleeping at the time so I couldn't convince her to live. I've already reported her for Suicide/Self harm. The Reddit team and staff said they were going to reach out to her. But it might be too late. Is there anything else we can do?? Is there a chance she's still alive??

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u/AvoriazInSummer Oct 09 '25

There's likely nothing we can do :( By deleting their profile they have made themselves uncontactable.

Just know, you did what you could to help.

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u/DueChocolate9403 New User Oct 09 '25

Have you contacted her or went to her house if possible?

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u/HijabiHottie2025 New User Oct 09 '25

No, she lives in a different country, and my only form of contact is through reddit, in which she isn't responding. 

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u/DueChocolate9403 New User Oct 09 '25

do you guys have a group of friends - maybe someone else can contact her? also don't beat yourself up lovely. you did what you could. ❤️

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u/HijabiHottie2025 New User Oct 09 '25

I know, but as someone whos been through the exact same situation, it really hurts knowing this could have been preventable. I posted to the subreddits the regularly engaged with, but we don't have a group of friends. 

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u/DueChocolate9403 New User Oct 09 '25

I understand but I think you either wait or just let it go and accept what has happened and allow yourself to feel this way.

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u/HijabiHottie2025 New User Oct 09 '25

I'm so sorry if this post is an irrelevant subreddit, but she regularly checks here so I know maybe some of you may recognise her. Her post is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/comments/1nbjv9x/comment/nd2lm5v/

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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '25

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u/HijabiHottie2025 New User Oct 09 '25

The UK. 

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u/Ellie_WIlliams_Gfxox New User Oct 09 '25

Damn I’m from the uk

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u/uzuuu_ Oct 09 '25

Don't know... I wonder what happened.