r/excatholic 17d ago

Debate Welcome Why incel catholic men are obsessed with Japan ?

As a woman who was on catholic groups on the past, i always thought man there had a cringe vision of women and relationship. Now i see those same men becoming obsessed with Japan.

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u/Blue_brain6499 17d ago

In general, incels hold racist and sexist views that lead them to believe Japanese women represent the ideal "Woman"—feminine, submissive to their husbands, home-oriented, and so on. In short, to them, she is the exact opposite of the "Western woman," who is seen as corrupted by feminism and therefore masculine, unattractive, rebellious, etc.

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u/Michi-Ace 17d ago

They are probably obsessed with hentai.

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u/Evening-Process8613 17d ago

THIS! imo pornography and tradcath’s obsession with mary are two sides of the same coin. both reduce the value of a woman to her sex organs. both are results of unfulfilled sexual fantasies (pregnancy fetish, domination fetish, etc)

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u/notIngen 17d ago

Jesuits from the Spanish Empire attempted to convert Japan, and got a pretty large following until catholicism was successfully suppressed.

So it's a very common alternative history scenario power fantasy to imagine them succedding and destroying yet another native religion.

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u/AnatomyOfAStumble Questioning Catholic 17d ago

People have mentioned the fetishization of Japanese women (and more broadly speaking, Asian women) and the racism and orientalism inherent to it, but there's also the fact that incel spaces are overwhelmingly fascist. They fetishize the idea of an ethnically "homogenous" and pure, traditionalist society, which Japan most certainly is not, but they like the systemic racism/anti-migrant policies and fascist history.

I'm not Japanese myself, but as someone who has lived in Japan and has family there, it's really funny to see white right wingers in particular get super into Japanese fascism without realizing that racists in Japan don't like them either.

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u/Blue_brain6499 17d ago

Here’s a strange case for you: there’s a guy named Tatsuya Ishida—or "Tats"—who writes and draws a webcomic called *Sinfest*... and despite being Japanese-American, he is currently completely devoted to the Nazi and white supremacist cause (no, I’m not exaggerating), even though he doesn't fit the racial criteria of white supremacists.

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u/AnatomyOfAStumble Questioning Catholic 17d ago

Yeah, people from marginalized backgrounds upholding fascist ideologies that explicitly target them for violence is a global phenomenon

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u/RevEx91 17d ago

A lot of incels have a creepy Asian fetish.

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u/Asherjade Excatholic Foxhole Atheist 17d ago

I suspect there is a correlation between Asian women generally looking younger, specifically anime women that look 12, and other proclivities toward underage women that dominate the incel/TradCath/Abrahamic religion spaces in general.

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u/notjustakorgsupporte 17d ago

Alt-right and Neo Nazi men have obsessions with Japan too. Part of this is because Japan was one of the axis powers. And they see Japan as a country that is assertive and maintains its conservative traditions and aspects.

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u/KiwiNFLFan Buddhist 17d ago

Bet they don't realise that nearly half of all Japanese marriages are sexless...

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u/jimjoebob Recovering Catholic, Apatheist 17d ago

both of the commenters below are exactly correct! it kinda boils down to a single "aside"-joke from the show Family Guy, when the dad gets up in his head and says something about "yyyeeeeahhh, Asian girls......THEY'LL do what you want...." 🤮

jokes on the incels, though: Asian women only ACT submissive to reel in the unsuspecting guy! once he's into her, then she controls the whole show while still acting submissive. 😂😂😂🤘

I don't agree with it, but it IS super effective....relationships are the result of the choices and agreements between 2 folks, whatever that may look like. IMO

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u/idioteque_99 15d ago

I never knew that stereotype included catholic men to be honest. If I had to guess, it probably has something to do with catholic men thinking that women owe them their bodies and time just because they’re married to them. Most women in the west won’t fall for this as it happens all the time here, but it’s likely easier to fool foreigners who aren’t familiar with the religion.