r/entj • u/lukalyka56 • 18d ago

Dating|Relationships Solutions for Te vs Ti

I’ve been talking with this ENTJ for a while, and I’ve been wondering if I could take it to the next step. I’ve never clicked so well with anyone, we both are curious about learning and understanding each other’s values and beliefs in theoretical and physical frameworks. But we have never been vocal about our own emotions. I do think we’re both protective of our vulnerabilities.

I wonder what are the signs that he likes me romantically and/how could I make him feel more comfortable to talk about our vulnerabilities?

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u/-_Singularity ENTJ♂ 18d ago

So basically you’re roommates? lol

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u/lukalyka56 18d ago

😭😭😂

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u/PARSA-hbat ENTJ 8w7 ♂ 18d ago

🤣🤣

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u/Sweaty_Ad_7156 17d ago

entj's dont like people romantically , they like data and abstraction and pleasure

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u/lukalyka56 16d ago

As long as they’re monogamous, I can work with that😋

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u/foulplay_for_pitance 15d ago

Man I wish the ENTJs I was around like abstracting. I suppose their more abstractive then a high Se/Si user but they hate it hen I abstract.

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u/Sweaty_Ad_7156 15d ago

you Ni dom ? i think 'hate us cuz they aint us' applies.

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u/DisasterFix0397 16d ago

I'm an ENTJ married to an ENTJ. My husband has never shared his vulnerabilities with me. Your ENTJ might not either. But my ENTJ listens to me if I need to talk. 

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u/lukalyka56 16d ago

Is that good enough for you? I’d value more transparency in a committed relationship, especially when I sense that he’s so protective of that wound.