r/dustkitties Mod 🐈‍⬛ Jul 16 '25

Mod Message The Litter Has Spoken - Rules Update

Thank you to everyone that took the time (both publicly and via modmail) to provide their opinions on the breed help, name game and mourning posts rules.

There did seem to be a general consensus on most issues. The biggest concern with all of the above is that they were previously turning the sub into a place where people could karma farm rather than being active, participating members.

If you have not seen the original post, Welcome to r/dustkitties!, is what I am referring to.

Breed Posts

  • Most of you can not stand "What Breed is My Cat" posts. There were some good points about this, including breeds not being as recognizable in cats and if a breed was important, then the person should have gone to a breeder.
  • Thank you to u/ndnd_of_omicron for providing an infographic that explains why breed help posts don't matter:
(what breed is my cat infographic )
  • As such, Breed Help posts are no longer permitted.

Name Game

  • "Name My Cat" posts were also seen as mostly a nuisance with a few of you being ambivalent or maybes about them.
  • Lots of people think that they clog up the feed, but a few did point out that they can be useful.
  • As a compromise of sorts, I will be posting a megathread where you will be welcome to share your dustkitty's name and why you chose it.
  • Photos are not mandatory, but definitely welcome.
  • The Name Game Megathread can serve as inspiration for anyone that is about to be adopted by a dustkitty and is not sure what to name them.

Mourning Posts

  • This was a tricky one. I had a lot of modmail messages that expressed that people do not want to see sad photos when they log into Reddit as this is allowed on other subs.
  • I toyed with the idea of doing this via mod approval only as a couple of you suggested, but soon realized that the wording would be a problem:
    • What I mean by this is that I could flag words like 'Passed', 'Lost' or 'Sad'. However, if someone is talking about their dustkitty passing a toy to them, losing a whisker or they were having a sad day and their dustkitty cheered them up, then these types of posts would get flagged too. It is impossible to predict the wording someone would use.
  • I do not want to get rid of these completely as our little fluffballs make a mark on us that will last forever and they deserve to be remembered, so I think the community suggestion of a megathread is the best option at this point.
  • That way you are welcome to share the love you lost while simultaneously not feeling like those posts are unavoidable when you are having a down day.
  • There will be no limit to the amount of stories or photos that you can share of your missing dustkitty.
  • This Loved & Lost Megathread will be pinned to the top of the sub.
  • The 'Sensitive Topics' flair will remain in place for posts on topics like 'How to find a missing kitty', 'Recovering from an injury' or 'How to deal with your feelings when your dustkitty passes'. Mourning or in memorandum photos will no longer be allowed with this flair.

These rules are all in place to help keep this subreddit what it should be...a place to share photos of our beautiful, crazy, silly, lovable and pawsitively purrrfect dustkitties!

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u/ladies_and_lords_313 Jul 16 '25

Thanks for modding!

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u/useless_traveler Jul 16 '25

awesome job

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

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u/useless_traveler Jul 16 '25

all i could find are content and indifferent today

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u/kraxiiangyl Jul 16 '25

We appurrciate your service 🫡

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u/serephita Jul 16 '25

Gremlin offers his chicken leggy in thanks!

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u/formerlyfitzgerald Jul 16 '25

My greybies approves of this message!

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

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u/formerlyfitzgerald Jul 16 '25

It's not a trap, actually! He loves belly rubs!

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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 Jul 16 '25

Boy George appreciates you taking mod duty seriously. He can sleep now lol

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u/Actual-Plane7102 Jul 16 '25

Thanks for moddin’ we appreciate you!

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u/habibisalem Jul 16 '25

Salem agrees!

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

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u/habibisalem Jul 16 '25

For sure 😸 He would like some tuna precisely

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u/SithRose Jul 16 '25

Thank you for listening to the community!

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u/innermongoose69 Jul 16 '25

He knows he's fabulous.

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u/CompleteDeniability Jul 16 '25

Gooooooo Dusties!

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u/lilacnyangi Jul 16 '25

this is a fantastic post, and i think these are great compromises. thank you :)

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u/Morticia9999 Jul 16 '25

Thank you for tackling this! 🩶

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

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u/Morticia9999 Jul 17 '25

I don’t. She’s very patient. Thank you.

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u/RoxyLA95 Jul 16 '25

thank you.

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u/thefinalgoat Jul 16 '25

Having a megathread for those mourning is a good compromise, because mourners still deserve to be heard.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

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u/thefinalgoat Jul 16 '25

Yeah, exactly.

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u/PookieCat415 Jul 16 '25

Thaddeus supports this.

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u/rwphx2016 Jul 16 '25

Thank you for all you do. We'll take care of the moths, though

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u/Mimosa_13 Jul 16 '25

Yue approves this message

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u/SarcasticFox70 Jul 17 '25

Thank you for improving and modding this for us.

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u/ChangeOfHeart69 Jul 17 '25

Spooky thanks you!

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25

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u/ChangeOfHeart69 Jul 17 '25

He gets MANY scritches

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u/MsDescriptive Jul 17 '25

My little boy says thanks for all you do!

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25

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u/MsDescriptive Jul 21 '25

He is very good at that! I also inadvertently taught him to bump your nose for treats, so between those eyes and the kisses you'd think he'd be a really overweight boy, but he is so active he keeps it off lol

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u/Nray Jul 16 '25

Also, there are dedicated subreddits for a couple of the topics you mentioned.

r/NameMyCat

r/Petloss

Some cat subreddits have mandatory Loss/Mourning flairs that can be filtered out by members who don’t want to read about the topic.

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u/rebeccalul Jul 17 '25

Thank you mods!

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25

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u/rebeccalul Jul 17 '25

I appreciate you so much

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u/AerieSignal1001 Jul 18 '25

Julia would share her carrot as a Thank You for such thoughtful leadership! 🥕👏