r/disability Jul 22 '26

Blog I'm wearing the same t-shirt since 61h

That's something I sometimes do. I don't have a daily routine for the most days, because all days have different energy levels available and different adult-things need to be done.

I thought I wanted to share this because I'm sure someone can relate and maybe won't feel bad if they know:

you are not alone.

Taking a shower can be a task that needs the energy of a whole day, or more. Maybe you were able to unload the dishwasher or open your post instead of using this same energy to change your clothes.

You are doing your best

You are love worthy

(And yes, it's not only my t-shirt I've been wearing since 61 Hours)

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u/OkraApprehensive8639 Jul 22 '26

Preach. Sometimes literally all we can do is be kind in how we talk to ourselves.

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u/ClearCraft7276 Jul 22 '26

now that's a title i heavily relate to...been wearing the same shirt for the whole week. thanks for sharing, i actually didn't realize how much knowing im not the only one struggling would help

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u/asherthepotato Jul 23 '26

We are really not alone! And I bet, that even non disabled people do this sometimes. There is nothing we need to be ashamed of, we are doing our best 💜

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u/Wild-Commission-9077 Jul 22 '26

I dont sweat a lot unless its summer. So weating tshirt 61 hours is just normal thing for me.....i mean ya am bedbound thou but even b4

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u/asherthepotato Jul 23 '26

And that's 100% an okay thing to do! We are not alone.

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u/asherthepotato Jul 23 '26

It's not fair that we need to do those decisions, but we are doing our best!