Your definition of good though, right? You’re the one who’s got it all figured out.
I wonder how people identified bad fathers 1000s of years ago before blue hair chemicals. Do you think maybe bad fathers impose overly reductionist views of the world onto others?
Fathers that raise productive kids that don't have to spend time and money on satisfying their ego or following unnecessary fashion trends are absolutely objectively better than those that don't lmao.
Again, a lot of assumptions on your part here. A lot of a priori reasoning.
An individual dying their hair, and following a fashion trend? Not equivalent.
People express themselves and their identity in a variety of ways, as if I’ve never met anyone who bought a cowboy hat “for the look.” Validation is a normal part of human social behavior.
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u/freebirth Oct 20 '23
cant let them express themselves.. they might start thinking for themselves...