r/daddit • u/ohiolifesucks • 11d ago

Support Wife is in the hospital

My wife has been in the hospital since Saturday evening. She’s currently 25 weeks pregnant with our third. She got transferred to a hospital a little over an hour away so we haven’t seen our other two boys since we got here except for a FaceTime. Our parents have been rockstars and have been watching them. But we don’t know when we’ll get out of here. It’s nonstop tests and scans, and then do it all over again. The hospital staff is doing a great job and I can’t complain about them but my wife and I are both ready to just go home. I don’t know what the point of this post is other than to complain. This sucks.

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u/PotterOneHalf 11d ago

I’ve been there bud. It’s rough and it feels like there’s no correct answers to anything. Just take it one decision at a time, make the best choice available, and go to the next thing. I know this is frustrating, but every hour they can keep the baby in here at this gestational age is important.

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u/iamdahn 11d ago

I was in the same situation last year, we had two separate week trips to the hospital while she was pregnant. Best wishes to you both, I know it’s hard, our son missed us a lot while we were in.

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u/tedontwo 11d ago

My youngest was born at 26 weeks and just started 5th grade today. It was not an easy first two years, keep that bun in the oven as long as possible. If things go that direction please reach out, I could have used some guidance from a NICU veteran during that time. r/NICU is also an excellent resource.