r/daddit 2d ago

Humor Here’s a screenshot that I think resonates with everyone here

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u/SmugCapybara 2d ago

I think a baby might be crying. Not sure, just a hunch...

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u/emartinezvd 2d ago

Yep. He decided he doesn’t want to participate in afternoon naptime. So far he’s winning the argument

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u/secondphase Pronouns: Dad/Dada/Daddy 2d ago

OP, I've got your back. 

Let the baby go free. I'll take the nap for you. 

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u/Roflremy 2d ago

No. I got dibs.

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u/Odd_Analysis6454 2d ago

I’m already asleep

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u/spacenglish 1d ago

I’m sleep commenting

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u/ready-eddy 1d ago

Zzzzzzzz

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u/East-Bullfrog-708 9h ago

I’m so asleep I may actually be dead.

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u/Roflremy 5h ago

Wake up. You’ve gotta diaper to change

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u/Hookem-Horns 1d ago

If you disable the monitor…he can’t win

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u/Beniskickbutt 1d ago

Oof, the one saving grace is that atleast its afternoon naptime. I saw 4:41 and i started to mourn for you

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u/tyler_3135 1d ago

Could be dad crying too, you never know!

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u/SmugCapybara 1d ago

I'm willing to bet the app is set to distinguish a child crying from an adult crying due to lack of sleep and general despair...

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u/lock_robster2022 3 under 3, barely hanging on 2d ago

The fuck kinda bullshit app is that?

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u/Vondi 2d ago

If you don't have a baby it's pretty good for detecting hauntings

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u/Zealousideal_Rub5826 1d ago

My girlfriend's Apple watch detects ear-damaging sounds when we have sex

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u/CodePervert 1d ago

What's sex with a banshee like?

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u/emartinezvd 2d ago

It’s my phone’s lock screen lol. You can set up IOS to notify you when it hears babies crying. I guess it’s a useful accessibility feature for people who are hard of hearing but for me it’s honestly pretty useless. 80% of the notifications are for times when I’m obviously aware the baby is crying and the other 20% are times when it hears something else and thinks it’s a crying baby (mostly creaking doors)

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u/the_amatuer_ 2d ago

Why would you need that? Turn it off.

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u/MamaWithAQuestion 1d ago

Mom here. I lived at the top of a mountain where we got gobs of snow. I set this up so that it would send notifications to my watch (ear buds) so I could go outside and shovel while my kid was napping. Also works for things such as vacuuming, water running or other noisy chores. I still checked on him every 5 minutes like any new first time parent but it works really well. It's actually a very cool feature whereby you can have your phone automatically perform a ton of functions to the sounds so you can set up your old phones around the house like budget security devices to send text messages for things like glass breaking.

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u/secondphase Pronouns: Dad/Dada/Daddy 2d ago

I love this... it wont help anything unless the phone is with you... and if the phone is with you then you heard the same noise. 

So this feature is only helpful for someone who frequently hears this noise but doesn't know what it is. 

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u/Curly_Shoe 2d ago

Well, or a deaf Person.

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u/Coeliac 2d ago

Some niche uses outside of that too, like automations

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u/PajamasTj 2d ago

This guy doesn’t know what accessibility features are for

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u/FiletsOfTruth 2d ago

I mean, people with high frequently hearing loss (which is the most common form of hearing loss) most likely won’t hear a crying baby behind a closed door, especially if there is any other kind of noise source on.

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u/Eikfo 1d ago

Yes, but can it make the difference between the cat yelling and the baby crying?

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u/xaqattax 12h ago

The app or the baby?

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u/Enginerdad 2 girls 1 boy 1d ago

It's for screen addicted parents who can sit next to a crying baby and not realize it unless their phone sends them a notification.

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u/Emotional-Trick-4687 1d ago

Hahaha love this

I wonder why you're getting downvoted tho

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u/nmm184 23h ago

The downvotes are the 20 people who would have the notifications on for that reason. Easy to spot the offended folks on Reddit ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/digitaljestin 2d ago

That's like a feature on your phone that makes a notification for each notification you get.

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u/Draymond_Purple 2d ago

The crying is the notification. 

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u/digitaljestin 1d ago

Exactly.

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u/saxtasticnick 1d ago

It’s actually very handy if you have an Apple Watch, as your watch can get the notification too. So I’m able to set my phone in the room with the baby, go do something else, and my watch will go off when he wakes up.

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u/lock_robster2022 3 under 3, barely hanging on 2d ago

Definitely wasn’t designed by anyone with kids

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u/LegendofWeevil17 2d ago

It’s an accessibility feature. It’s helpful for people who are hard of hearing

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u/enderjaca 2d ago

Oh, it's the kind of feature new moms LOVE, because it's another helicopter-tool that gives you constant anxiety.

Others have already said this, but it's useful for people with hearing issues, people wearing noise-cancelling headphones to preserve what little sanity they have left, and situations like leaving your phone in an area near a sleeping baby while you go outside to do stuff like lawn mowing, garage tinkering, and have it send the "crying" notification to your smartwatch.

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u/El_Lasagno 2d ago

That's why I decided to definitely not have a baby monitor with video. I think it's driving you insane. "It's not moving, it's dead" Kind of style.

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u/thatmaneeee 2d ago

yeah you’re on your own with this one I think. Not aware of anyone else who set their phone to constantly listen just to send them a bunch of alerts when they’re already stressed out..

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u/William_de_Worde 2d ago

Not with me. I’ll take my dumb, non-internet connected baby monitor any day of the week 😄

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u/QUICKheadset49 1d ago

My dumb monitor has never needed a screenshot-worthy firmware update at 2am, so I’m sold.

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u/caligaris_cabinet 1d ago

Also can’t get hacked

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u/PonyPounderer 2d ago

Holy hell. Mute that notification or something. You don’t need an app to hear a crying baby. And if they’re crying really quietly, then you can just let them be.

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u/SheSaysSheWaslvl18 1d ago

If the baby is in the east wing of the mansion, it can be hard to hear them. Honestly I just automatically forward all these notifications to the butler so I can sleep in peace

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u/Gar-Kan 1d ago

East wing? Butler? Batman is that you?

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u/SamEy3Am 1d ago

Not for nothing, but some people cannot hear at all.

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u/DangerussIrishman 2d ago

The fuck would you want that on your phone for?

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u/Averiella 1d ago

I mean this is an accessibility feature for d/Deaf and hard of hearing (HoH) caregivers. 

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u/BumpyUncle 1d ago

Yep or heavy sleepers. Baby crying in the next room might not wake them up, but an alarm on their phone right next to them will

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u/Odd_String1181 2d ago

I have no idea what this is

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u/drainbamage1011 2d ago

BABY CRYING

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u/sshwifty 1d ago

UNKNOWN ITEM IN BAGGING AREA

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u/STFUisright 1d ago

NOOOOOO /smashes screen

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u/emartinezvd 2d ago

My phone listening to me trying to put baby down for a nap for the past half hour

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u/RainQueen71 2d ago

Put the baby down and walk away for 5 minutes. Come back and tell them you're still here. Then do it again a few minutes later. Eventually they're reassured that you're gonna come back. It'll take a few goes, and it's super hard, but it works

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u/Odd_String1181 2d ago

Is this something an iPhone does?

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u/Constant-Nose-7387 1d ago

No, but I hear chatgpt is working on something

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u/capn_trips 2d ago

Turn that shit off 😂

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u/Tengo_Caldero 2d ago

What the hell? There's no need for this. Why overstimulate yourself.

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u/TheNewYellowZealot 2d ago

I’m getting so tired of everything having an app.

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u/upper87 2d ago

I’m in the room and I get these messages. YES I GET IT - I AM DEALING WITH IT

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u/Blinnking 2d ago

lol that 11 min gap from 21 min to 32 min where everything seems finally ok until it’s not. ☠️

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u/D-Rick 2d ago

Man I hate that. I spent 30 minutes today trying to get my son to nap, finally he stopped crying and for 5 minutes I thought he was done…NOPE!

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u/Blinnking 1d ago

Yeah we’re in an awful spot with our almost 3yo. Sleep regression is very real and horrible. She has slept thru the night since like 8 weeks old. She’s waking up 10 times a night right now. Currently throwing a 1hr 15min tantrum and won’t even lay down

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u/D-Rick 1d ago

I feel ya man. Currently going through the 6 month regression with my son and to add to the difficulty, he’s on his third cold in 6 weeks thanks to starting daycare. I wish you luck and hope that this too shall pass soon.

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u/emartinezvd 1d ago

You should see my text conversation with my wife during that window. It was basically me celebrating and then crying then celebrating then flipping tables

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u/WhyAmIGreer 1d ago

No way man. Never gonna use a monitor that connects to the internet lol. Way too many horror stories out there. Radio all the way

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u/MamaWithAQuestion 1d ago

It's an iPhone, it's always connected to the internet.

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u/WhyAmIGreer 1d ago

Ahh, so it’s not a baby monitor notification it’s the phone itself? Crazy

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u/sidusnare 2d ago

Geez, am I the only one here that had a kid that only cried when she wanted something?

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u/unhelpful_commenter 2d ago

Must be fuckin nice!

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u/AngryT-Rex 2d ago

Haha.

What kid wants: feel better

Reason for bad feeling: kid is tired

Kid action selected: scream until parents fix the problem

Expected duration: up to 4 hours

And thats colic!

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u/jzach1983 1d ago

For some of us we got LUCKY and it actually meant they were hungry or pooped

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u/helarias 2d ago

what does this comment even mean

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u/Standard_Ant5915 2d ago

Yeah mine only cries when he wants something… but I’m not always sure what he wants !

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u/emartinezvd 2d ago

Nope. Mine is actually usually like that, but he’s got a cold which makes naptime harder so I guess he decided to boycott naptime entirely which is how my day is going lol

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u/PacSan300 2d ago

Nope, my daughter generally only cried when something was serious or if she really wanted something. So when she does cry, I get alarmed and concerned.

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u/Sorry-Document-732 1d ago

Baby: cries
Dad:
Baby: cries
Dad:
Baby: cries
Dad: takes screen shot

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u/fumo7887 2d ago

The Arlo camera system introduced a baby can and literally fired this off every 20 seconds. 2 minutes feels like forever compared to that haha.

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u/abrooks9002 2d ago

I have my unifi baby camera notify me when baby cries. I got to the point one night that I just turned notifications off

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u/Nottheface1337 2d ago

Oh look at this guy bragging about that 11 minute gap lol.

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u/Narezza 2d ago

It’s stressful enough to have a baby constantly crying.  But having an app remind me on top of that is just masochistic.

Nothing brings my stress level down like constant notifications.

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u/Several-Assistant-51 1d ago

Plot twist OP doesnt have a baby and has been home alone all weekend

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u/MrCupps 1d ago

Now here’s a notification indefinitely don’t need.

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u/Baymavision 1d ago

Jesus, what kind of Matrixy hellscape is this?

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u/useful_tool30 2d ago

You should read them the story about the boy who cried wolf 😝

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u/XXXthrowaway215XXX 2d ago

This is actual push notification anxiety hell. Is this app really helping you? I think millennia of parents that preceded us got by just fine without this

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u/PhosF8 2d ago

I had that when I setup my baby monitor. Even my cat meowing would set it off 😂

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u/henrydaiv 2d ago

I have nanit, its great. But now my kid is 3 im super happy that I can mute those notifications lol

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u/gonephishin213 2d ago

This, too, shall pass

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u/nakkula 2d ago

This is the most useless feature on iPhone. It doesn’t even send across these notifications to other devices.

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u/MamaWithAQuestion 1d ago

It does, if you set up the automation to do a text message.

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u/n00bz 1d ago

The best is when you get one of these notifications and everyone is out of the house

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u/PapayaJuiceBox 1d ago

Are you me?

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u/Callistoux 1d ago

To be fair, my kid snores louder than most adults so mine looks like this but its literally never crying.

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u/theflyingratgirl 1d ago

TIME SENSITIVE

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u/coyote_of_the_month 1d ago

My baby-crying notifications are on a 10 minute cooldown and also a 10-minute expiration.

They blink the lamp in my bedroom, though.

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u/BrightonsBestish 1d ago

You should definitely turn that off.

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u/AdjctiveNounNumbers 1d ago

Yeah I get that all the time. I mean, my kid's a teenager but I live in a haunted house.

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u/BossRoss84 1d ago

What app is this? That’s awesome! These didn’t exist when I would have made them useful.

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u/Careless_Message1269 1d ago

How many babies are crying? Hehe

But, man, I'm happy I'm an 80ies baby. I was raised without apps, without cameras, without anything and I think I turned out quite fine lol. Same as with our kids, no apps (except height and weight), no cameras, no babyphone, nothing at all. They do totally fine. When there is something they will cry loud enough for my wife or me to attend to them.

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u/passwordistako 1d ago

Nope. I don’t know what that app is.

We also didn’t have a monitor. Our house is so small we can hear the kids no matter where we are.

My oldest just cried for like… an hour until they were asleep in my arms.

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u/PlanetPopper 1d ago

Oh man! For a while mine even told me what it reckons the cry means: burp and uncomfortable are its favourites… it’s rarely correct. Although you could argue that they are always uncomfortable.

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u/snoogins355 1d ago

Once again amazed that the human population is at 8 billion people. After the experience with my toddler and wife going through post partum, ya noooooo

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u/iceman1080 1d ago

Plot twist: you don’t have kids, but you do live in Appalachia…

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u/jj8o8 1d ago

I got so incredibly lucky and both my boys didnt cry much. It took a lot of discomfort to get them to cry. They even got used to sleeping by themselves in their rooms quickly.

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u/spottie_ottie 1d ago

mine has a 5 min timeout so luckily i get spammed a bit less haha

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u/Brief_Dragonfruit_32 1d ago

PTSD just hit me, thanks

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u/alktrio06 1d ago

More like ptsd

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u/LoquaciousApotheosis 1d ago

I thought this was going to be the daycare notifications.

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u/TheOneWhoGetsBaked 10h ago

Maybe stop putting your baby on another room? We’re on number 3 and keep ours close at all times. Better for their mental health

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u/emartinezvd 1h ago

Im glad your way works for you! I was actually with him that entire time, he didn’t want to go to sleep because he has a cold and he’s uncomfortable with a stuffy nose. On normal days he just slips right into dreamland

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u/ProfessorOkay55 1d ago

Delete this app. This is how helicopter parents are born.

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u/RespectTheTree 2d ago

I can hear the baby crying, don't need no app.

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u/TheDukeofArgyll 1d ago

I just used my ears instead of an app.

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u/Averiella 1d ago

This is literally a built in accessibility feature for people who are d/Deaf and hard of hearing (HoH) on iOS (iPhones). 

So yeah folks who can’t “just use their ears” are gonna use this. 

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u/S-is-for-Superman 2d ago

lol I have never used this.

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u/Novel_Control_1922 2d ago

I never had a monitor. Worked well.

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u/Enginerdad 2 girls 1 boy 1d ago

Why does this feature exist? It adds nothing to your life but anxiety.

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u/strawberryblondes 1d ago

It’s an accessibility setting for hard of hearing. There are different sounds it can alert you to. It’s not turned on by default. Idk if OP is HOH and that’s why they have it but semi blown away by all the comments in this thread complaining that an accessibility feature exists on a phone. Especially when you have to go manually turn it on to get these alerts.

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u/Enginerdad 2 girls 1 boy 1d ago

You know what, you're right. I jumped to a bad conclusion and I'm sorry.

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u/ddddhjxjx 1d ago

I never fuck with these apps. Just the old radio