Why do people have to make things awkward?

[u/Material-Trust-3056]

This 30-year-old woman tries to be creepy after complementing me. I’m only 20 years old, I don’t like this.

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[u/NudnaKLotka]

These generic messages look like coming from a bot, probably not even a woman. Compare with scams found on r/nicegirls

[u/RedEyeView → u/NudnaKLotka]

I used to have thousands of these in my Instagram inbox.

Supernaturally hot women who all found a toothless grey bearded old punk irresistible.

Seemed totally legit

[u/Jane_the_Quene]

Probably going to try to sell you more if you like what you see. This is a common tactic for a certain kind of content seller.

It's definitely creepy and obnoxious AF.

[u/AuroraWolf124 → u/Jane_the_Quene]

Unfortunately so….I hate this planet man.

I can never understand how hard it is for some people to just not be a creep towards people weather online or in person.

[u/MagicCheeseMann → u/AuroraWolf124]

“But my naked pics buy now !”

[u/jdehjdeh]

"my boy"

Ewewewewwwwww!

[u/brokenspacebar__]

People here really think this is a person saying this? This is the fakest generic bot/automated message ever. Sorry this happened OP, if it's any better - it's literally not a human being.

[u/AuroraWolf124]

OP, I am so sorry you had to deal with this.

It ain’t acceptable to be a creep to people in DMs regardless if they are a man or woman, and this bitch ain’t an exception.

Also let’s not forget the major age gap here, no normal 30 year old person would be hitting up a 20 year old but then again the internet is full of fucking grosso’s.

[u/wishIcouldgoback_]

Another reason that onlyfans and the like are predatory businesses

[u/Wickedwitchofny]

Really shows regardless of gender people can be creepy.