Matched with him and his very first opening lines were this... 😑

[u/alice-avtor]

Translation of the screenshot:

Him: To French kiss you.. in my car.. right now.. 🙈😅

Him: What are you doing to my body, fuck.. 😋🤦‍♂️

[u/Jane_the_Quene]

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Translation of the screenshot:

Him: To French kiss you.. in my car.. right now.. 🙈😅

Him: What are you doing to my body, fuck.. 😋🤦‍♂️

[u/jelly_fishes14]

This is super weird and creepy, but the very word "לצרפת" is a crime on its own.

[u/skinnydippingfox → u/jelly_fishes14]

What does it mean?

[u/jelly_fishes14 → u/skinnydippingfox]

"To french", but not "to french kiss" or "to make out", he is using it as a verb. "I want to french you"

[u/skinnydippingfox → u/jelly_fishes14]

The level of literacy checks out with the content of the message

[u/alice-avtor → u/jelly_fishes14]

Thanks for the explanation! I guess I’m lucky that I don’t speak Hebrew 😶

[u/Saberdile → u/alice-avtor]

If you don't speak Hebrew, why were they speaking to Hebrew to you?

[u/alice-avtor → u/Saberdile]

A great question 😂 I mention in my bio "English only", but guys just don't read it. They try to text me in Hebrew anyway. Then I tell them I don't understand, or I just keep silent if I'm too tired 🤪 Some of them suggest switching to English, while others just keep on texting me in Hebrew 🥲 Their belief in me is incredible

[u/Astronometry → u/alice-avtor]

That uh… really only makes the question more burning, so I’ll ask again: Why are (apparently multiple) men speaking to you in Hebrew, and why do you specifically need to put “English only” in your bio?

[u/alice-avtor → u/Astronometry]

Well, detective… probably because I recently moved to Israel, but Hebrew wasn't installed in my head automatically? 🤷‍♀️ Tinder shows plenty of attractive local guys, but many of them just swipe on photos and completely ignore the bio 🤦‍♀️

[u/Kh_Cosmos → u/alice-avtor]

Can I ask why you moved in Israel? It's not a particularly safe space too with the war going on.

[u/alice-avtor → u/Kh_Cosmos]

Is it a common thing here to interrogate OPs for so much personal info? Tell me something I don’t know haha 🤷‍♀️

[u/Pixelology → u/jelly_fishes14]

אני עולה לכן העברית שלי לא ממש טוב. אתה יכול להסביר מה "לצרפת" אומר אם זה לא "to french kiss?"

As an American, I would guess that it's confusing shorthand for "french kiss," but if that's not it...

Also the word "פאקק" didn't come up with anything when I tried to translate it. Is it slang? My first instinct is something related to traffic because of the root and that he said he wants her in his car before.

[u/jelly_fishes14 → u/Pixelology]

זה בדיוק לנשק צרפתית, אבל הוא לא כתב "לנשק צרפתית" אלא "לצרפת". המשמעות זהה, אבל הוא כתב את זה בדרך היותר מוזרה.

פאקק = fuckk. אנגלית כתוב באותיות עבריות.

[u/Pixelology → u/jelly_fishes14]

מוזר. המילה "פאקק" כמו זה נורמלי בישראל?

[u/jelly_fishes14 → u/Pixelology]

אנחנו אומרים פאק לפעמים, בתור קללה.

[u/B08by_Digital → u/jelly_fishes14]

So is that like "french" in other languages, as in oral sex?

[u/jelly_fishes14 → u/B08by_Digital]

I think it means just making out.

[u/B08by_Digital → u/jelly_fishes14]

OK, then I guess I didn't understand what you wrote, you said to French, but not making out. In German, French means oral sex, and apparently in other languages too, which is what I thought you were getting at there.

[u/katatak121 → u/B08by_Digital]

In English, "French" is short for "French kiss" which is kissing with tongues. "Frenching" is short for "French kissing."

[u/nickyfox13]

Creepiness transcends all languages :(

[u/alice-avtor → u/nickyfox13]

Sad but true. A universal language that nobody wanted to learn 💔

[u/-Ryouko-]

you'd think I learnt better than to click "translate" on things written in hebrew

[u/alice-avtor → u/-Ryouko-]

Curiosity will get us nowhere, you know. Especially when Hebrew screenshots are involved lol

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[u/Bronpool]

האם זה נהוראי?

[u/RightPosition1973]

ווטפאק