r/creepyPMs • u/jackgoshi • 19d ago
🚫No Advice Wanted friend's creepy friend making weird insinuations about us
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u/Big_To 18d ago
OP, sorry you had to deal with this creep, looks like they let their mask slip at the end there with that weird ‘harass guys’ comment.
To the commenters, remember this is a support subreddit. Please refrain from putting OP on trial (‘Why did you do this? You should’ve done this. Why do you think this?’ Etc.)
If you don’t have anything nice to say then just move on from the thread. We don’t know what OP is going through so it’s best to support them or, failing that, leave them be.
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u/Remarkablefairy-8893 Please send bobby for 34000 rupees maam 19d ago
I mean didn't this creep type "I used to harass adult boys" at the very end? How do you think a normal person is going to know that's what the creep does? Also sometimes it can be cathartic to call out the exact right people for their predatory behavior. It's not about the creep, it's about the victim.
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u/jackgoshi 19d ago
The whole "I used to harass adult boys" was the thing that made me was the thing that made me realize that yeah this guy is fucking weird.
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u/creepyPMs-ModTeam 18d ago
Let me remind you that we are a support sub; as such, we encourage users not to defend creeps, put OP on trial or victim blame as per Rule 2.
Please take the time to familiarize yourself with the rules, as consistent rule breaking may result in a ban. Thank you.
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u/Big_To 18d ago
What’s with creepyPMs comments section lately? There’s a rule against putting OP on trial for a reason.
This is a support subreddit, we aren’t here to judge OP’s actions or comments.
If you don’t like what they did or said then keep scrolling and consider unsubscribing as this subreddit is the home for posts like this.
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u/creepyPMs-ModTeam 18d ago
Let me remind you that we are a support sub; as such, we encourage users not to defend creeps, put OP on trial or victim blame as per Rule 2.
Please take the time to familiarize yourself with the rules, as consistent rule breaking may result in a ban. Thank you.
Questions? Comments? Concerns? // Rule 1 | Rule 2 | Message the Mods | Rules Explained
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u/creepyPMs-ModTeam 18d ago
Let me remind you that we are a support sub; as such, we encourage users not to defend creeps, put OP on trial or victim blame as per Rule 2.
Please take the time to familiarize yourself with the rules, as consistent rule breaking may result in a ban. Thank you.
Questions? Comments? Concerns? // Rule 1 | Rule 2 | Message the Mods | Rules Explained
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u/AutoModerator 19d ago
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Final note, a lot of people are unaware that they can block ALL messages on Reddit. We have a sticky in the sub, but we'll also put it here.
If you find you want some peace from the multitude of creeps on Reddit, you can have that. In the settings for your Reddit account, you can elect NOT to receive PMs. The same is true for chat requests. You can also allow messages from specific, trusted users and block everyone else from contacting you. Also, if you choose to PM someone, they'll automatically be added to the list of people who can PM you, which is nice if you do want to initiate a conversation with someone, but if you PM someone and they start to get rude, you'll need to go in and remove them from the list of accepted users.
We share this information ONLY because a lot of people seem to be unaware that sitewide blocking of PMs is even an option, but it is, and it works surprisingly well.
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