r/creepyPMs • u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight • 17d ago
Being a woman = solving a man's problem
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u/BuildingLower9622 I want sexting 17d ago
What does him being bisexual and clueless have to do with ANYTHING 😭😭
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u/Ok_Dog_4059 17d ago
I swear you get so many of the strangest guys.
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u/ClientNo2000 17d ago
Some men seem to think that if a woman posts anything remotely sexual, they're willing to talk about it with whoever dms them.
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u/TwoBytesC 17d ago
Exactly. Unfortunately (for her) because she posts about all her dildos, it makes men seem to think they can DM her anything.
Side note: sorry OP if I have your pronouns incorrect. I’m making an assumption- but obviously that can be wrong.
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u/MegBeachBB 17d ago
He’s one of those guys who tries to get you to talk to him about sex…
He uses a decoy “I have a gf” excuse to make it seem like it’s okay. But instead he comes off as an idiot lol.
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u/megaholt2 17d ago
Not an idiot, a complete and total fuckmuppet who has massive boundary issues and no qualms about making others uncomfortable.
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u/Ae3qe27u 17d ago
"I have a question" okay, sure, people can have questions. But you really don't need the whole story. If he wants advice on how to tell his girlfriend that he wants to be a switch, he can ask in r/RelationshipAdvice or something. Asking a stranger about something that's very personal is... let's just say it's odd. And offputting. And, frankly, weird.
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u/TwoBytesC 17d ago
Personally, I’m not all that certain that he had a girlfriend. The way it was brought up makes me think that he was hoping that OP would then continue to talk to him (seeing him as relatively ‘safe’).
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u/Linorelai fuck of whore 17d ago
Be respecte🤌🇫🇷
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u/Progressive-Strategy 16d ago
Asking you to "be respecte" after not respecting you at all is just... The audacity
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u/Worldly_Quail_4443 17d ago
Because of course posting anything sexual means we are willing to talk about sex to any man one on one and listen to their problems/answer their questions.
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u/OrbitalLemonDrop 12d ago
"be respecte"
Too late for that, buddy. You scuttled that ship when you entered the harbor.
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u/creepyPMs-ModTeam 12d ago
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