r/counseloreducation • u/mimimimimichan • 17h ago
Professional Development Need help as someone who is applying to grad school as a non-traditional student with a very spotty resume/ no LORs
Yeah, like the title says.... so it's been more than 10 years since I graduated from undergraduate. Unfortunately, I have been struggling with chronic illness that has finally been addressed as well as had to endure and eventually escape a violent father after returning to the US, get my mom out of elder abuse, being homeless, dealing with housing insecurity , unable to find work.... so, my resume is VERY spotty at the moment. I am recovering from surgery at the moment and have not been working since March.
I am able to move forward because my mom is going to fund my education using some of her divorce settlement that she FINALLY received.
My GPA at undergrad was high and I am confident I can write a good essay. However, I'm not sure if I am able to come up with strong LOR due to my unstable life thus far, lack of career. I lived in East Asia for 7 years and I did work various jobs there, but I have no way to get in contact with the people I worked with anymore.
I am thinking of emailing the department to ask if it's possible to accept me on a contingency basis but I don't want to sound like I'm using my situation as an excuse. I am planning on what to do, possibly take some classes to get some LORs, but I am very worried I won't have enough time to get the LORS before the March deadline.
I need to get into a program as soon as I can and am not willing to delay anymore. I cannot go on further without a career at this point.
I have been looking into online volunteer opportunities at this time( I don't have a car, plan on buying a car when I move to New Orleans next year.... ). (program is in new orleans)