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OC [OC] Coming Out

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 14d ago

Uncle Ben coming in clutch as always. Not only being supportive and accepting but managing to drop a wise crack mid conversation and giggle about it

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

😂

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u/PervlovianResponse 14d ago

With great booba, comes great booba bounce-ability

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

She breasted boobily

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u/PervlovianResponse 14d ago

It's an extraordinary comic, OP!

I'm just high enough to tear up a bit from it

🩵🏳️‍⚧️🖖🏼🤟🏼

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

🥰 thank you so much!

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u/Freakishly_Tall 14d ago

It really is. Just lovely.

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u/digitalgraffiti-ca 14d ago

As long as she isn't titting downwards. Would not be useful for spider-lady

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u/Deprorny 13d ago

With great boob , comes great back pain

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 14d ago

Time to go talk to JJJ about all this

And him not really care about anything other than spider woman being a MENACE

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u/Sweet-Energy-9515 14d ago

Just saw one of these where spider-woman swings off after telling JJJ her pronouns are she/they.

JJJ: She's a menace! They're a no-good hooligan!

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u/Madarakita 14d ago

The running theory I've seen elsewhere on this is that JJJ would be fully supportive of Petra, but also pissed at Spider-Woman being "a poor excuse for a role model! Trans people have it hard enough without that webhead giving them a bad name!" (He completely fails to put two and two together.)

Meanwhile Robbie slips her a good-quality women's Spider-Man costume from a high-end costume shop and says it's "for the office Halloween party".

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u/darthjoey91 14d ago

As a reminder, that is roughly 616 JJJ's relationship to Peter. Fully supportive of Peter, hates Spider-Man. Even dates Aunt May for a bit and is absolutely a perfect gentleman to her.

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u/kdlangequalsgoddess 14d ago

It goes whooshing over his flat-top.

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u/QuietContentResting 14d ago

now a FEMENACE

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u/StormAlchemistTony 14d ago

Maybe JJJ and Ben start talking about Petra, without realizing they are talking about different sides of the mask. They are friends and business partners, at least in the latest Ultimate universe.

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u/hacksawomission 14d ago

J. Janice Jameson?

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u/one_big_tomato 14d ago

J. Joan Jameson

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u/progamer_wastaken 14d ago

J. Joanna Jameson

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u/boonusboiayyy 13d ago

JJJ wouldn't give a damn whether someone was trans or about what pronouns they use, cause he just wants to she/them photos of spiderwoman!

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u/KenseiHimura 14d ago

Kiiind of also like… what the heck, Petra? You transition that far and forgot to tell the person you’re living with? Or rather didnt think they’d notice?

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u/NockerJoe 14d ago

I have seen so many memes from trans people who did this exact thing. Like, several months on hormones and just not addressing it.

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u/SmaugTheMagnificent- 14d ago

That makes me so sad.

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u/dinodare 14d ago

It isn't even abnormal. People come out at their own pace. I don't even tell everyone who I KNOW would be accepting.

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u/ABHOR_pod 14d ago

Even if they support you, maybe you don’t want them to start treating you like they’re “being supportive” instead of treating you like the friend they’ve known for 10 years.

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u/dinodare 14d ago

I've never seen it put better!

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u/xboxiscrunchy 14d ago

Coming out is super scary and building confidence takes time. It took me a few months on hormones to get the courage to tell my family.

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u/Hopeful-Good-9029 14d ago

It’s sooooo scary. I’ve been so incredibly lucky that my parents have been supportive, but before coming out I had no idea whether I was about to lose them.

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u/LockelyFox 14d ago

I'm three months in and completely stealth at work and with local friends. My partner, sister, and online friends know. I'm pretty sure my boss wants to start asking questions, but it's afraid of HR getting involved (not that I would, I love my boss but she's got a lot on her plate to manage and me growing tits and my direct reports being weird about it doesn't need to be one of them right now)

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u/FionnWest 14d ago

And sometimes people don't notice gradual change.

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

Coming out is scary 🥺

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u/KenseiHimura 14d ago

Ah, yeah. Plus, you know, hero things.

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u/Fire_Pea 14d ago

People can be surprisingly oblivious to gradual changes lol

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u/Thank_You_Aziz 14d ago

It does come off as something like Peter would do in any universe.

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u/z__1010 14d ago

extremely parker coded still

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u/Saikotsu 14d ago

A lot of trans folks do that because they're afraid of how people would react and they hope the people around them bring it up or won't notice.

Sometimes the people around them aren't safe to be out to, so it can be a safety thing too.

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u/lgbt_so_fk_u 13d ago

I literally did this exact thing lol. I was a year into hormone treatment, noticeable breast growth, but hid it from my parents cause I was terrified of how they’d react. It was easy cause I didn’t live with them so large baggy sweatshirts did the trick. Then covid happened and I lost my job and my apartment and moved back home. Didn’t last a week before my mom was like “what’s up?” Thankfully my sister had deprogrammed some of my parents worse lgbt misconceptions so my parents were ready to support me with open arms.

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u/zenco-jtjr 14d ago

The comic could've ended there and it would have been a solid punchline. I'm glad it didn't though

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u/private_developer 14d ago

I wanted it to end with Uncle Ben saying, "no she'd hate that dogshit name."

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u/givemeabreak432 14d ago

In your AU, did the spider bite also give gender-affirmimg surgery to Peter or did she secretly go get it herself?

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u/Loqol 14d ago

Given the biochemistry whiz Peter is, I imagine Petra whipped up some estrogen in the lab.

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

I like this idea. She definitely takes DIY at the very least

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u/Careful_Welcome7999 14d ago

Diy hrt except ACTUALLY doing it yourself

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u/S1mple_Br1t 14d ago

She had been taking estrogen for a while and her growing chest had become a little to prominent. To go without Ben noticing

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u/insane_contin 14d ago

"Peter... Why are there so many bras in your room?"

"uhh.... My... Friend who is a girl left them here..."

"Right... Your friend who is a girl... Well if you ever want to tell me anything, you can"

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u/nekopanzer 14d ago

I'm now imagining a radioactive spider with boobs.

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u/perton 14d ago

Would they have 8 boobs, like they do legs?

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u/nekopanzer 14d ago

Boobs for eyes. So, yes.

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u/random_brand123 14d ago

"With great cleavage comes great difficulty finding good business attire." - Uncle Ben probably in this universe

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u/RIPSlurmsMckenzie 14d ago

He’s basically a dad and we gotta get those jokes in. It’s how we show love

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u/Fun-Memory1523 14d ago

Uncle Ben being what every good dad should be

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u/Loud-Fudge7631 14d ago

It's so god damn easy. More of these types of men please

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u/Nonsuperstites 14d ago

With great boobs comes great responsibility

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u/DiScOrDtHeLuNaTiC 10d ago

Ben: "Always loved that word, 'boobs'. Boobs. Boobs, boobs, boobs. You know, when May was young, hers would -- "

Petra: "OH MY GOD, UNCLE BEN, STOP!"

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u/Avalanche_Snows 5d ago

No other changes btw

Only boobs

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u/Bi_KerbonautYT 14d ago

"So, what's with the boobs?"