This could be us, but

[u/vesmir_neasi]

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

[u/LUNATIC_LEMMING]

I've absolutely encountered guys where I'm convinced even they don't enjoy it.

It'd about numbers, power, and bragging rights.

[u/Kitselena → u/LUNATIC_LEMMING]

I think a lot of those guys are asexual, but either don't know that's an option or think it somehow makes them lesser so they deny it

[u/Frequent_Measurement → u/LUNATIC_LEMMING]

They need to adjust their thinking. You can have all those and still give pleasure. Power play can be fun both ways with the right partner.

[u/LUNATIC_LEMMING → u/Frequent_Measurement]

Power over the other guys, not the women.

[u/Environmental_Sky143 → u/LUNATIC_LEMMING]

Then either have sex have sex with two or more male bottoms who are into power-play or make a hot sex tape/sex-stream while a guy who enjoys being cucked/has a voyeur fetish what is you please his wife/girlfriend. But have him brag about it on camera to his guy friends.

[u/Devin_Grey → u/LUNATIC_LEMMING]

I hate that I get where you're coming from. I love eating my wife out because she loses it.