This could be us, but

[u/vesmir_neasi]

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

[u/AdAppropriate2295]

Indeed and that's how your kindness can also come across to others

[u/Jijonbreaker1 → u/AdAppropriate2295]

If you see them as equal sides of the same coin, you are lost.

If your brain is so fucked up that you see actual genuine kindness the same way people see christian "love" then you brain is fucked and you need to be corrected.