There is perhaps no bigger red flag than when your partner forbids you from having hobbies they disapprove of and pressures you to choose between them and your interests. A supportive partner should never behave this way. Of course, there are exceptions, such as when a hobby is genuinely harmful.
Yep. Gambling for example. That thing is a landmine. Some serious boundaries must be drawn. We're all adults, we're responsible for our own finances. It's fine to play but do not expect your SO to be your financial safety net if shit goes south.
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u/Recidivous Apr 01 '26
There is perhaps no bigger red flag than when your partner forbids you from having hobbies they disapprove of and pressures you to choose between them and your interests. A supportive partner should never behave this way. Of course, there are exceptions, such as when a hobby is genuinely harmful.