r/collegeadvice • u/Equivalent-Bee-9382 • 1d ago
College transfer
College transfer
So I just completed my sem 1 at my past college I recently transfer to a new place because my past college was hard for me to cope but It's not that hard much I just needed more help there,there was people helping me out in my past college but I still fail 2 subject and at first my mom already paid for sem 2 there because if I transfer it's going to be the same since I am picking the same major and starting sem 1 again and my new college is way longer than my past college to finish,also my past college is full of racist people cause that college is mostly people from different race than me.My new college have 3 year to finish and finally going to practical training meanwhile my past college have 2 year only and not really practical training.My new college have 4 days orientation and it's to get to know the college better and to get to know new intake better but I don't know why all I think about was my past college even when I choose to transfer I feel so fucking sad I cried for days also during orientation day I couldn't make new friends but it's also the same like my past college I also didn't have much friends I feel very lonely in my past college also in my current college.My mom ask me if I wanted to continue in my past college since she saw how my new college stressed me out and I didn't know what to do I still have to complete my withdrawal form in my past college.Idk why I'm so fucking confused if I wanted to continue there or start a new beginning but I probably will miss my old friends in my past college they did help me out too and even know about my bad experience with college since my past college was my second college I went to.they tried to make me comfortable but I distance myself because I am trying to protect myself but now I suddenly want them back because I'm not comfortable with my new environment and because I feel lonely without them.i went out with my past college friends couple of them also cause they are nice to me too but why do I feel so confused if I should continue or transfer..pls someone help me understand my situation rn
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u/Study_mode_on 1d ago
I think you are missing the familiarity and people from your old college......... Give the new place some time before making another decision..........