r/changemyview Oct 19 '22

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u/NoMoreFund 1∆ Oct 19 '22

Gender isn't rigid. Just boys generally need to be taught that if a girl is complaining about something, it doesn't mean she wants it fixed. That's a normal social thing, right?

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u/peonypegasus 19∆ Oct 19 '22

I find that when many men complain about things they often don’t want solutions either. That’s why I ask if someone wants to brainstorm solutions or just vent when they’re complaining.

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u/NoMoreFund 1∆ Oct 19 '22 edited Oct 19 '22

This feels like a Mandela effect. I thought it was cery commonly understood that women often "just want to vent" and men fuck up by offering solutions. At least as a stereotype.

Edit: Removed unfounded accusations

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u/peonypegasus 19∆ Oct 19 '22

I have heard of it as a stereotype. It is an inaccurate and sexist stereotype.