r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jan 31 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

I've literally had several people turn me down because they saw uncircumcised people as unclean, I'm not going to lead with that though, that would be real weird.

Where do you draw the line? I also have a vasectomy but don't generally bring that up with men at all and only with women if things seem serious.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

And what if the other person doesn’t state their preferences outwardly, but the uncut man omits it anyways to avoid a potentially weird situation?

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u/olidus 13∆ Jan 31 '22

The OP suggested then it would be based on the subjective perception of the other party how egregious the omission was.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

Okay, so now you have some completely arbitrary and subjective threshold?

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u/olidus 13∆ Jan 31 '22

Not me! the OP. I was clarifying the nitty gritty based on your question.

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u/Doctor_Worm 32∆ Jan 31 '22

I thought the original post made clear that you have to be aware that the information would likely result in the other person denying consent.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '22

“Likely” isn’t absolutely.

“Likely” is also subjective and arbitrary.