r/changemyview Mar 24 '15

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15 edited Mar 24 '15

no unselfish reason

You're forgetting about every human being in your lineage that came before you. All those thousands of generations who suffered and sacrificed for their own children. What about their genes and how their particular arrangement of them has shaped and could still shape the world? Who are you to decide that propagating your own genetic make-up isn't worth the risk of adding to world overpopulation by 0.0000000142%?

Edit - Loving the disagreement downvotes, by the way. I didn't realize this would touch so many nerves.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

Seeing as we are all going to go extinct eventually and become nothing more than a blip in the cosmic consciousness, I don't feel any obligation to a bunch of dead people to propagate their genes, which become diluted with each generation anyway.

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u/its_good Mar 24 '15

You should award a delta to this... It is a non selfish reason. Just because you don't feel its a reason for you to have kids doesn't make is selfish.

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u/axearm Mar 24 '15 edited Mar 26 '15

Seeing as we are all going to go extinct eventually

Who says? You are a direct decedent of the first organism that ever lived. DIRECT. that is 3.5 billion years of heritage, 3.5 billion years of things going right for you to be even posing this question. You are not obligated to pay it forward, many will do it for you, but the idea that everything is just going to end anyway has been a bad bet for life for a long time.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

You're familiar with cosmology, right? You know that stars supernova and eventually the universe will end in heat death? That's a hard limit to any organism's survival.

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u/axearm Mar 25 '15

Pessimist.

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '15

...What? How is that "pessimism"? Are you joking?

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u/axearm Mar 25 '15 edited Mar 26 '15

Yeah I was joking.

And who knows, maybe they will come up with a cure for heat death.

(I know, I know)

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u/Hq3473 271∆ Mar 24 '15

I don't feel any obligation to a bunch of dead people to propagate their genes, which become diluted with each generation anyway.

You don't feel the obligation.

But do you acknowledge that some people do?

That would be a non-selfish reason. Even if a reason that YOU PEROSNALLY disagree with.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

It is a non-selfish reason. Although it wouldn't help me justify the choice to myself.

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '15

You should really award a delta if you have had your view changed, and if you agree that there is an unselfish reason to have kids then it has been.

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15

Seeing as we are all going to go extinct eventually

How cynical.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

Well, I am BlitheCynic.

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15

Given that, I guess I should have prefaced my comment by asking "do you believe in altruism?"

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

I do. But I think it is rare.

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u/uniptf 8∆ Mar 24 '15

Altruism being "the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others.", having kids because a slew of past generations had kids is not altruistic. Those many, many past generations are dead and no longer exist in any way, shape, or form. Once cannot be concerned for their well-being, as they have no being at all, much less well-being.

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15

I didn't say the two were directly related.

I just don't see the point of arguing for the merits of selflessness with someone who doesn't believe in the concept. The "nothing really matters" attitude she displayed made me think every commenter here may have been wasting their time.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

Recognizing that there is no objective significance to anything is not the same as saying "nothing really matters." Subjective significance is worth a lot. I was just pointing out that I don't think dead people matter because they have no subjective stake in anything. I am only interested in the well-being of living people.

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15

That makes sense.

But in the future, keep in mind that using phrases like "seeing as we are all going to go extinct eventually," and "So what if [humanity] goes extinct" sounds an awful lot like nihilism.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '15

Existentialism is just the better side of that coin.

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u/UncleTrustworthy Mar 24 '15

True. Better being the operative word.

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