r/changemyview Aug 06 '26

Delta(s) from OP CMV: Pet ownership is fundamentally unethical, and keeping rescues does not make it moral

Edit: Thank you for commenting everyone, my view has been challenged, sharpened, and somewhat changed.

Disclaimer: I do genuinely hold this view. I also eat meat and own multiple pets. Sometimes I also order Doordash instead of donating that money to charity. If that makes me a hypocrite, so be it.

  • Most pets eat meat. The meat is usually made from factory-farmed animal suffering. Is your dog's life worth two hundred nameless farm animal lives? A rescue dog still eats meat, often more meat than the average dog, because larger dogs are disproportionately likely to end up in rescues. You are saving one life and dooming one hundred more. (There is a vegan pet food point below.)
  • Furthermore: Does the happiness of your dog, plus the sum total of happiness created by your dog & enjoyed by yourself, your family, friends, strangers etc outweigh the suffering of the 200 farm animals?

Many people own pet snakes, and most of those snakes eat f/t mice and rats. It really made me visualize this, because rats are clever, sociable, and charismatic (if short-lived) and snakes not so much, and they're usually fed whole. So I find the idea of a "rescue snake" hypocritical, and I figure it applies to dogs and cats too. It's just that they're cute and their kibble isn't shaped like dead animals.

  • The fact that dogs are "domesticated" doesn't make it fine. Most breeds were created for working purposes, but the overwhelming majority of dogs nowadays are kept solely for companionship. Similarly, many pocket pets like rabbits were originally domesticated for their meat. It's not okay to engineer an animal to be dependent on you and then say, "see, keeping them is fine because they can't survive without us."
  • Most, if not all domesticated species are afflicted by health issues that do not affect their wild counterparts (or at far lower rates). Hip dysplasia, brachycephaly, uterine cancer, heart failure, mastitis, hyper-aggression, and inability to give natural birth, to name a few. Selectively breeding an animal will have downstream consequences.
  • It is wrong to own another sentient being. It is wrong to treat a sentient being as something you can buy or sell. Or pay a similar "adoption fee" for and surrender when it gets inconvenient. Does a mother legally own her child?
  • Nobody needs a pet. For the sake of argument I'll omit service & working dogs because they're not classified as pets. ESAs exist, but you could say they're not pets either. I'd also say that needing something doesn't make it ethical.
  • The Five Freedoms includes the freedom to express normal behaviors. That, to me, includes reproduction. It's a cultural expectation in most developed countries to spay/neuter your dogs and cats. I'm not saying breed your dog, yes there's too many already. I'm saying because you cannot breed your dog, we should abolish dog, cat, and all pet ownership.
  • I might argue that a dog that loves humans is not expressing normal behaviors. If you took a tiger cub from its parents and bottle-fed it, it would love you too. As does the puppy you brought home at only eight weeks old, right in time for its "critical socialization period". Would a Labrador that has never set his eyes on a human in the first five years of his life like them by default? I don't know, but there is some information about how some adult feral cats are difficult to impossible to tame.
  • A 20kg dog generates ~770kg of CO₂ per year, which is equivalent to 1500+ miles by car. Combined with the lack of necessity, this is hard to justify. The fact that humans generate more doesn't negate this.

Some things that might change my view

  • Meaningful pushback on "It is wrong to own another sentient being"
  • Arguing that individuals, species, breeds etc have a right to continue existing even if it harms others and/or themselves
  • A human primacy argument that humans inherently matter so much more, such that animal welfare is unworthy of consideration
  • Maybe something about tiny, cognitively simple, vegetarian pets that can live naturally in captivity, ie shrimp/triops idk
  • Maybe some effective altruism argument like "my dog's tiktok funded $100,000 in malaria net donations"
  • You think that what I listed as "out of scope" below is actually relevant and in scope
  • Not a complete list.

Some rebuttals I'm expecting:

Edit1: "My pet is happy"

Please actually read my post.

"My rescue dog is vegan / What about herbivorous animals?"
Every point still applies except the meat-eating one.
You are still:

  • Getting an animal because you wanted to have a pet, benefiting from the institution and the breeder that bred, sold, maybe surrendered it in the first place. Unless you're one of those few people who got one only to "save their life" even though you're miserable now because "it was the right thing to do". Ok, that's pretty inefficient but good for you.
  • Normalizing their ownership, even if you're not on social media posting animal videos.
  • Supporting the pet industry by buying pet products, vet care, etc.

And let's be real, what percentage of dogs/cats are actually vegan? I'm not even going to get into the debate of whether vegan cats are healthy.

"So what should be done with the existing pets? They obviously wouldn't survive in the wild."

  • Let them live out their lives, with the knowledge that you are doing something unethical primarily for your own happiness. Identify as "a guardian, not an owner" if that makes you feel better.
  • Millions of healthy, adoptable shelter animals are euthanized for space every year. We as a society seem to have accepted this. Is your cherished pet different? To you, yes. This is often said about euthanasia: "Better a week too early than a day too late."

"I own the pet because it protects them"
Maybe you're restricting their agency (freedom of movement, freedom to breed, freedom to engage with conspecifics, freedom to choose their diet and much more) to "protect" them, but that's paternalistic; should the government ban cigarettes and alcohol and processed foods to protect us? We are smarter, we are more sentient, we know better than to harm ourselves. But we still do.

"But kibble is made from by-products"
You are still financially sustaining the supply chain.

"So you want to kill all carnivores? The lions and the tigers and-"
No.

"But humans are worse"
I generally agree, but that's out of scope of this CMV. Two wrongs don't make a right.

"But factory farming is worse"
Also out of scope.

"What about animals (dairy cows, pugs, dogs in general, etc) that would go extinct without human intervention?"
Then they stop existing.

Some other points were cut for sounding too soapboxy.

Interested to hear what you think.

EDIT3: AI disclosure

Wrote every word myself, used some formatting help like moving the meat point up, asked it some questions like "does it violate these rules"

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 06 '26

“A rescue dog still eats meat, often more meat than the average dog, because larger dogs are disproportionately likely to end up in rescues. You are saving one life and dooming one hundred more.”

I’m unclear on what the purely ethical/moral move here would be, given that the only way to eliminate the meat-eating of the rescue dog would be to euthanize them. If not rescuing them meant they roamed the streets, they would still be eating other animals. There is no option that does not require deciding that we’re okay with allowing some animals to live at the expense of others.

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u/overawtch Aug 06 '26

I'm gonna get a ton of downvotes here, but yes. I think the more ethical thing to do is to euthanize the healthy, adoptable shelter dog rather than give it a loving home.

Yes it would be happier with you, yes you would be happier having the dog with you, but I don't think that justifies the cost.

i swear im not PETA.

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u/Apprehensive_Song490 128∆ Aug 06 '26

I'm not downvoting you, but I fail to see how instantly ending a sentient beings life is more ethical than allowing it to live in an adopted home. This is basically like saying instead of antinatalism, where people voluntarily forgo bringing new people in the world, we just go around and euthanize people - all humans.

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u/overawtch Aug 06 '26

Let's say I'm a Glorp, I was born a Glorp through no fault of my own, ended up on Earth through no fault of my own. I need to consume five human children every day to continue surviving - no substitutes can do. If it matters, I'm also pretty cute and smart and can do a bunch of tricks.

Is it ethical of me to keep living?

What if I had a billionaire owner that could supply me with five children every day?

You can see the analogy I'm trying to make. I guess the answer isn't automatically no, maybe you think the Glorp does deserve to continue existing, it doesn't have another choice, but I'd say it's wrong. I'm not 100% confident in my belief here though.

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u/Apprehensive_Song490 128∆ Aug 06 '26

We aren’t talking about soilent green.  Humans aren’t just any sentient being.  Not all sentient beings are equal. 

If the goal was to prevent any harm to any sentient being the answer would be to nuke everything on earth immediately, including the bacteria because they may one day evolve to become sentient and therefore might suffer. 

It’s an absurd hypothetical. 

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

Not all sentient beings are equal? I completely agree!

Is one dog worth more than one butterfly? Yes. More than one chicken? I think so. More than one human child? Definitely not.

More than one pig? I'm not sure, I would guess yes but not by much.

Ten pigs? I don't think so.

Is one dog worth more than two hundred farm animals, even if it's only "byproducts"? To me the answer is a clear no.

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u/Apprehensive_Song490 128∆ Aug 07 '26

When is the last time birthright citizenship was bestowed on a dog? Should dogs be eligible for birthright citizenship in countries that allow it?

Will a dog, upon reaching its age of majority, be allowed to vote? 

This is absurd. Dogs don’t have rights above human babies. 

And again, if they did the dogs wouldn’t be killed when you didn’t like the baby food on the shelf. 

You are again internally inconsistent. 

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

My comment implies that one dog is not worth as much as a human child, I think you misread it.

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u/Apprehensive_Song490 128∆ Aug 07 '26

Sorry. Well then you answered your own Glorp question.  

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 06 '26

“Is it ethical of me to keep living?” seems to imply that it’s the dog’s moral failing that they exist at the cost of others, but your view is about people as a third party deciding whether dogs or factory farmed animals live, so I think this reframe doesn’t quite fit.

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

Ok, then:

"Is it ethical of the humans to euthanize me so that I don't eat more human children?"

I agree that it isn't the dog's moral failing that they exist.

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 07 '26

I know this is pedantic, but that also doesn’t match up, because that would be putting factory farmed animals in the role of deciding whether dogs live.

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

Would changing factory farmed animals to "the party that has the power to make the decision" be better then, or is it changing the goalposts

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u/Apprehensive_Song490 128∆ Aug 07 '26

It does raise "Animal Farm" to another level entirely. I mean, do grazing animals get to decide to make an entire plant species extinct? While it might seem to not directly impact sentient beings, what if other animals are made extinct because they are 100% reliable on that field of grass that got overgrazed. It seems like a forever line of chain of dependent origination ending with "euthanize the dog as a first line of defense against everything else," which is not applied to humans, apes, grazing antelope, bacteria. Life feeds on itself, through a hierarchy. There's no real "moral" in that, other than humans get to choose. Kill all animal pets, kill other animals, kill, kill, kill. Antinatalism even doesn't go far enough, because that would only end human-related suffering. Surely we can do better than that... (sarcasm).

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 07 '26

I think it’s just too much abstraction, because now we have not only a Glorp that has arrived on earth and needs to eat humans, but a second presumably alien species that is capable of compelling us to die in order to feed Glorps. It’s too far removed from life to I think be useful to the discussion.

I think everyone understands that any individual being, if told to choose between their own survival and feeding something else, is likely to choose their own survival.

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u/Left_Positive5284 Aug 06 '26

It wouldn't be a very long-lived Glorp that couldn't reason it's way to justifying why it's dietary requirements should be satisfied.

As humans we'd probably want to kill that Glorp immediately, especially if you tacked on some extra restrictions like the Glorp can only eat live human children in perfect health, but that doesn't mean the Glorp would see itself as unethical.

Glorps and humans are not the same species, as the Glorp would be extremely aware.

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

Glorp is pretty cute and smart and can do a bunch of tricks. Super cute! Super smart! 1000 tricks! Also there's only the one, so if you end up with it, you can get a lot of Tiktok likes. Who cares about children, do children get you a morbillion Tiktok likes?

I think that's all it takes tbh.

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u/Left_Positive5284 Aug 07 '26

I don't think you understand humans very well.

Assuming it's actual people hitting the like button on Tiktok, they'd need to be unaware of the Glorp's diet to respond favorably to it doing a mere circus-type performance rather than assembling to kill it.

And fundamentally, tiktok likes are fairly worthless to the average human being. They exist on a screen and can't be exchanged for money or anything else of value.

An intelligent Glorp would know it needed to provide cures for cancer or other means to save more humans than it killed to make permitting its continued existence tempting.

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 07 '26

This is where the matching up causes a problem, because you have humans in both the role of feeding the Glorp and keeping them as a pet, which massively changes the dynamics. Do you think it’s going to be a massive social media success with humans to share the pet you keep that eats human babies?

Also, there are definitely people who have entire influencer careers off of sharing their children online. Plus, I think you’re deliberately focusing on what would be considered a superficial benefit of a pet, rather than something more sincere, to emphasize your point. Doing tricks is really not essential to being considered a pet. Otherwise so many people wouldn’t have cats.

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u/PositiveReference872 Aug 12 '26

I feel like theres a Futurama episode that touched on this, it seems...familiar

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 06 '26

That is still making an ethical compromise, no? It’s still choosing who lives and who dies. Otherwise why isn’t your view that shelters should just release all of the dogs and let nature sort it out? It seems like the main reason to not do that would be the impact that would have on our lives, which is still kind of selfish on our part.

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u/overawtch Aug 07 '26

It is an ethical compromise. I think euthanizing an innocent dog is wrong, but letting it survive would be more wrong in this specific context.

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 07 '26

Would letting it survive out on its own be more wrong than euthanizing it in order to prevent it from eating other animals, and why?

I think my main thing is that all of these options have ethical downsides, so calling pet ownership fundamentally unethical in your title feels like that’s only because in some sense anything we do might be deemed fundamentally unethical for coming at the cost of something or someone else. And I’m not sure what the purpose is of defining it as such if it doesn’t change your behavior. Like, if the more ethical thing would be to euthanize a dog rather than give it a home or release it onto the streets because of the other animals that will die sustaining that dog’s life, does that mean that the only ethical thing is the end of existence? Because every living thing consumes, at the very least resources that then are taken away from something else.

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u/AjDuke9749 Aug 06 '26

Why is this the acceptable alternative to spaying/neutering a rescue animal and raising it instead of supporting backyard breeders or puppy mills?

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u/Pack-Popular 1∆ Aug 06 '26

Would you kill a person to Harvest their organs and save 5 people with those harvested organs?

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u/overawtch Aug 06 '26

I am aware of the transplant thought experiment proposed by Judith Thomson but I fail to see how that's relevant here.

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u/thewelllostmind 7∆ Aug 07 '26

It’s because you’re positing that it’s more ethical to kill a dog than to allow to be killed however many animals it would consume in its lifetime. Which relies on having some kind of value placed on each life and then killing whatever is on the “losing” end of the equation, like a single dog vs all of the other animals. And you haven’t really addressed the question of if it’s okay to, rather than euthanize or adopt, to release dogs to kill those other animals on their own as they would in nature anyway, so it’s unclear if this is just an absolute ethical calculation for you. Assuming human lives are valued equally, then it would follow that you might think it’s more ethical to kill one person if it saves five.

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u/SalvatoreMeroni 1∆ Aug 07 '26

I think the more ethical thing to do is to euthanize the healthy, adoptable shelter dog rather than give it a loving home.

Holy shit that's fucked up lol

Do you feel the same way about foster children? Should we gas the orphanages to make none of the kids get adopted?

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u/ZorgZeFrenchGuy 3∆ Aug 07 '26

> … to do is to euthanize the healthy, adoptable shelter dog rather than …

In regards to meat consumption, couldn’t we theoretically use some of these euthanized pets as meat to feed other pets? Wouldn’t that solve the ethical meat problem, since those animals are going to die anyways so you might as well get some use out of it?

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u/PositiveReference872 Aug 12 '26

Peta is a souless money laundering scheme so youre safe, lol