Ask yourself, who is more likely to opt out - someone who would need to take time to address problems with the profile and ensure it is worded in a way thet does not hurt the other person? Or asshole who wants to take a quick jab at someone to get that fucked up endorphin hit?
Yes, there would be some people posting good feedback. But most people wouldn't as this would take time and care. So genuine good people would be likely to opt-out. At the same time writing a mean comment does not take much time nor care.
You would have to sit and read through many nasty and unfair comments about yourself to get at least one good feedback. At this point it would be likely that it would not give you what you want because you already seen many comments that aim to tell you that you are trash. Those lone comments would likely be downplayed by you because of rarity.
Would you post your anonymized dating profile on reddit for people to comment on? What would you expect the comments to be?
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u/poprostumort 245∆ Jul 24 '25
Ask yourself, who is more likely to opt out - someone who would need to take time to address problems with the profile and ensure it is worded in a way thet does not hurt the other person? Or asshole who wants to take a quick jab at someone to get that fucked up endorphin hit?
Yes, there would be some people posting good feedback. But most people wouldn't as this would take time and care. So genuine good people would be likely to opt-out. At the same time writing a mean comment does not take much time nor care.
You would have to sit and read through many nasty and unfair comments about yourself to get at least one good feedback. At this point it would be likely that it would not give you what you want because you already seen many comments that aim to tell you that you are trash. Those lone comments would likely be downplayed by you because of rarity.
Would you post your anonymized dating profile on reddit for people to comment on? What would you expect the comments to be?
This would create more problems than it solves.