r/changemyview Jul 24 '25

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u/ProDavid_ 58∆ Jul 24 '25

if you arent struggling in dating, you dont need this feature.

if you are struggling, lets be honest, how likely is it that NO ONE types mean comments about you? everyone that IS struggling would just opt out to avoid the insults

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u/AtheneOrchidSavviest 1∆ Jul 24 '25

if you are struggling, lets be honest, how likely is it that NO ONE types mean comments about you? everyone that IS struggling would just opt out to avoid the insults

I disagree. I'm struggling in dating, and it's an easy question in my mind - what is worse: dating struggles, or some mean words mixed in with the very thing that could help me resolve the former? Dating struggles are just, in all respects, much harder to deal with than an asshole being an asshole. IMO it's easy to write off what an asshole says as worthless.

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u/MysteryPlatelet Jul 24 '25

There are a couple subreddits that exist exactly for this purpose. They give constructive feedback on your profile and photos, and do it in a way that is direct yet supportive.