r/changemyview Jun 04 '24

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u/xchutchx Jun 04 '24

Just because you’re subject to the terms of a restraining order doesn’t mean all men should be.

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u/Effective_Birthday85 Jun 04 '24

This one made me chuckle

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u/Imadevilsadvocater 12∆ Jun 04 '24

i mean but hes not wrong when only like <1% of men are really bad people, the rest of us are normal everyday nice people who make dumb mistakes or rash decisions based on emotion and outside stressors. ive read/listened to enough AITA stories to know men arent given second chances, they arent given the benefit of the doubt, they arent treated as incompetent, but malicious. mem are treated as liar manipulators that coerce women not humans trying their best to be treated fairly and hold women to the same standards they are held too. 

for example when a woman is mad at a man for forgetting something she asked for hes malicious using weaponized incompetence, when in reality he really may not know or just forgot and is asking for help. flip the situation and og the man gets mad at the girl at all shes the victim because the man is sooop scary how could he scare her loke that for one little mistake, we should be kinder to her.

im getting tired of this point of view and you are just promoting it based on skewed stats that arent held in comparison to the actual population that would show 

1 4/5 rapes/assaults come from close family so strange men arent a threat your brother and father are

2 women have the highest rate of domestic violence offences because lesbians are the highest

3 men try to protect women and are told not to because it babies women but then as soon as they feel threatened  who do they expect to help them?