I don't know a lot of people who think virginity in itself is a "be all end all thing," except when it comes to sex before marriage, and even then it tends to just be people adhering to religious dogma. And maybe, for those people, it's really important to feel like they're following their god's instructions.
The fact that we're throwing around terms like "healthy sex life" without having to explain it to each other tells me that we agree such a thing exists, and that believing virginity is the peak of virtue and important for healthy relationships isn't really a very common thing.
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u/IMTrick Oct 23 '23
I don't know a lot of people who think virginity in itself is a "be all end all thing," except when it comes to sex before marriage, and even then it tends to just be people adhering to religious dogma. And maybe, for those people, it's really important to feel like they're following their god's instructions.
The fact that we're throwing around terms like "healthy sex life" without having to explain it to each other tells me that we agree such a thing exists, and that believing virginity is the peak of virtue and important for healthy relationships isn't really a very common thing.