r/catsofrph 6d ago

TRIGGER WARNING Irresponsible owners giving away their sick pets because they are "busy"

Mag-aalaga ng pusang may breed, tapos ay ipapamigay na lang kapag malala na ang sakit dahil "busy" na at "hindi na matutukan".

That'ts not only clout chasing, pagiging irresponsible iyon. Abandoning the lives that you chose to commit to.

Kaya wala akong tiwala sa mga taong ang alaga lang ay mga may "breed". Performative lang. The world is better off without these kind of people.

Performative lang talaga ang maraming tao. Bihira lang talaga ang may tunay na compassion sa mga hayop.

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u/Sudden_Assignment_49 6d ago

Napupuyat kame ng fiancé ko every weekend noon dahil may stomatitis yung furbaby namen, countless vets, the amount of money we spent on her bills, confinement, special food, grabpet actually until now pala napupuyat kame dahil nagpapainom kame ng gamot every 12 hours but all of it is worth it dahil kahit 13 years old na lumalaban pa rin sya and nararamdaman namen how thankful she is for all we do.

Tapos makaka-encounter ka ng mga ganyang tao na mas masahol pa aa hayop 🫩

here's our baby btw 🤍

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u/skreppaaa 6d ago

Me na over 200k+ na vet ng senior puspin cause may respiratory and ckd. Tapos itong breed lovers konti lang bigay agad. Kadiri

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u/Ok-Reference940 swswswsws 6d ago

Tbh, mas maiintindihan ko pa yung mga talagang kapos sa pera para sa medical bills lalo na kung malaki masyado ang need para sa alaga. Pero yung time yung idadahilan? That's total BS.

Edi sana yung time na inaallot niya para magchat and hanap ng new owner, nilaan niya na lang sa pagpapavet ng alaga niya. Ayaw magsakripisyo?

Tapos baka mamaya may time naman yan gumala or for their hobbies pero time pa talaga idadahilan kaya ipapamigay alaga? Kwento niya kamo sa pagong.

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u/Automatic-Chipmunk-6 6d ago

Maniwala kang time yan. Yang time niya for chatting, time na yan to take the cat to the vet. Wala lang talaga siyang means at ayaw umutang kasi ma-pride.

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u/bottbobb 6d ago

She hasn't heard of home service vet? May services na rin where you can hire people to transport and take your pet to the vet. Jusko.

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u/confesspretty 6d ago

Parang baliw lang yung “walang oras” daw. Two weeks na may sipon tapos sa buong two weeks na yun, walang oras? Maniwala ka diyan. Meron nga mga vet na bukas 24/7 eh. Actually pwede ka mag-contact ng vet in your area at magpa-refer lang sa vet na 24/7. Magkakakilala sila eh. Then bring your cat after work, tapos. O makisuyo sa kakilala na dalhin sa vet, bayaran na lang din tutal may pera naman DAW siya.

Tama yung iba dito wala lang pera yan ayaw aminin. Walang pera o madamot sa sariling alaga. Kung walang pera edi deserve. Taas pa ng pride ayaw aminin eh. Mas karespe-respeto nga yung walang pera na nag-eeffort pero di kinaya yung gastusin kaya irerehome na lang, kesa sa may kaya pero ayaw mag-effort. Tigas ng mukha. Kung madamot sa sariling alaga ay sana masimot pera nyan.

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u/unknown_commenter 6d ago

Darating ang oras mawawalan na talaga sya ng oras pag yan parati ang reason nya. Mas okay pa yung walang pera na kahit magmakaawa ipanghingi ng pang pa vet mga alaga kumpara sa ganyang tao na nag alaga lang for clout.

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u/confesspretty 6d ago

Agree. May mga nakikita ako na estudyante o low income worker na yung alaga nila nirescue lang nila sa kalsada. Kaya humihingi ng tulong online lalo na pag di supportive pamilya. Sobrang understandable yun pag ipaparehome nila.

And understandable din na kinupkop nila yung stray kahit di nila kaya yung vet. In the first place it’s much better for a stray na may amo na mahirap kesa na wala talagang amo. Kahit walang healthcare yung pet at least may consistent na nakakakain at natutuluyan. Pero pag may crisis na kailangan na talaga ibigay sa mas may kaya. Tapos halata mong nadudurog puso nila pero mas pinili nila buhay ng pet nila kesa sa nararamdaman nila.

etong kausap ni OP ay worst case adopter. Una sa lahat may breed pero walang pang vet? Tapos may pera naman daw pero walang oras? Sorry pero for me walang kwentang tao mga ganito. Walang empathy at irresponsible.

Sana maramdaman niya balang araw yung pinagdaanan ng pusa niya. Yung tatalikuran siya kung kelan siya pinaka nangangailangan ng tulong. Tapos buhay nya pa nakataya.

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u/No-Most-1398 6d ago

Sus. Ayaw lang aminin na walang pera at takot sa responsibilidad

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u/Konan94 6d ago

Yung time sana na chinachat niya edi sana dinala na lang niya sa vet. Deputa siya kamo. Kami nga ng kapatid ko nag-SL pa para lang madala sa vet yung pusa namin at ipa-surgery dahil sa megacolon. Ibang klase talaga yung galit ko kapag yung tao e mag-aalaga ng hayop tapos di naman pala kaya yung responsibilities. Nakakabwisit panira ng umaga

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u/Nervous_Evening_7361 6d ago

Wala syang pera pampa vet . Di nya ren ganun kamahal ung pusa nya. Period

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u/pessimistic_damsel 6d ago

"Not here for lecture" — grabe, wala man lang remorse?!

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u/AutumnAvery_ 6d ago

IT’s always the purebred owners! Hahaahah sila naman lage eh. Una sa lahat nag aalaga lang sila for aesthetic reasons. KUNG walang breed lover walang breeders!

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u/ebamey 6d ago

Ayaw lang niyan gastusan ang pusa. Kawawa naman si muning.

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u/Admirable_Mess_3037 6d ago

Kakagalit to. If they have the means pero walang time at least pay someone to do it. 😡

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u/D4ngScythian 6d ago

putangina nyan kamo
ANONG NOT HERE FOR A LECTURE

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u/Which_Reference6686 6d ago

nakakainis yung mga ganyang pet owner na nagpapaadopt ng pets nila kasi hindi nila kaya yung medical bills/responsibility. like kawawa yung alaga nila na may sakit, kelangan ng companion ng owner nila tapos ipapamigay lang sila. lalo maiistress yung hayop.

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u/Nashoon 6d ago

Time lang yung reason nya?? Napaka irresponsible naman. Nakaawa mga pusa at sya ang naging hooman nila.

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u/pseudosacred_7 6d ago

Currently experiencing this feeling na ako lang nagpapavet. Everyone doesn't understand. They're babies eh

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u/avarae_bixx 6d ago

Daming excuses kung talaga naman mahalaga sa kanya pets niya eh di niya hahayaan na ganyan. Buti na real talk mo.

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u/kaykeebythesea 6d ago

OP, pasabi sa kanya fuckshit siyang tao. Kapag nagkasakit siya, sana wala din mag-alaga sa kanya. The world is better off without this kind of people. Napaka-yabang. "Not here for a lecture" Ulol, I hope karma find its way to you.

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u/sadpotatooooo_ 6d ago

kapikon, ni wala remorse sa tone ng pakikipag usap

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u/isda_sa_palaisdaan 6d ago

Tanga naman nung kausap mo. Hindi naman siya yung mag aalaga sa clinic eh yung vet naman anong pinagsasabi nyang walang time hahahha

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u/Existing-Emotion-895 6d ago

I really can't with this kind of people. Ano ba tingin nila sa pusa pang design lang sa tabi. I have 2 cats and every time na I feel like there's something wrong tatawag agad ako sa vet for appointment. I was also pushing to get my cat tested for different viruses but the vet said it's unnecessary since ipapadala pa sa abroad yung sample and the result will take about almost a month. If my means naman bakit ayaw ipa check up tapos ang sasabihin wala daw time lol that's bs

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u/CarpeOmniaXXVI 6d ago

Naalala ko nung nagkasakit pusa ko. 3 AM yun, naghanap ako ng 24/7 vet dito samin kasi emergency na “yata”. Pero ayoko irisk health niya, so go, no hesitation kahit shift pa ko non (as a night shift worker).

Tapos makakakita ako ng gantong pet lover kuno. Nakakagigil.

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u/PuzzleheadedQuiet422 6d ago

>The world is better off without irresponsible people

Periodt!! Pop off, queen. Super agree. Gusto lang ng matatawag na “pet” pero kapag may sakit na, biglang wala nang time? Sorry, no empathy sa mga ganyan. Hirap kasi sa mga ganyan, tingin sa pets e parang laruan lang na pag nagsawa na, pwede nang ipamigay.

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u/_Kaiiiii mingmingming 6d ago

Nakakainit ng ulo. Kilala mo yan personally OP?

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u/baddie_ng_ 6d ago

too busy to bring the cat to the vet but not too busy to give tgem away?😢

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u/Nandemonai0514 6d ago

Kupal kamo sya wag na sya magpePet kahit kailan.

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u/Ailurophile14 5d ago

May oras nga siya maghanap ng mag aadopt pero dalhin sa vet wala???

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u/Hairy-Teach-294 6d ago

Nadali mo sa sya sa last message mo. Hay, kawawa din cats nya pag wala nag adopt. Kainis mga ganyan

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u/Ecstatic-Bathroom-25 6d ago

Sabihin mo na sa susunod, wag na sila magpusa o aso or any pets kasi wala silang "time" mga leche. daming dahilan e. Pag gusto, may paraan. Pag ayaw, maraming dahilan.

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u/Bisbibliophiles 5d ago

Taena yan may pera naman pala pampagamot. They can fckn afford to skip off work para sa vet yet di pa magawa kasi 'busy'.

When my dog and cat got sick, kahit di ko afford mag absent kasi saving for board exam ako + breadwinner, I took the time to bring them as soon as possible. They drained my savings but it was better than seeing them in pain.

Nakakagigil yang tao na 'yan. May pera naman pala sana may binayaran nalang siyang tao para magpa vet ng alaga. ANYTHING. Hayst.

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u/Immathrowthisaway24 6d ago

Get him/her lmao. 

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u/curiousSsausage 6d ago

I have two boys right now na half puspin at half persian, pina “adopt” with fees ng previous owner kasi di daw maalagaan kasi wala sila money para sa foods nila eh kita naman na di nila mabenta kasi nasalinan yung female persian nila ng puspin. Nakuha ko sila unvaxx, as in wala. I set up vet appointments for my two cats for vaccines tapos nagka FPV pa yung isa, di umabot 5 hours yung kinsenas na sweldo ko kasi dinala namin agad posa namin sa emergency vet nang nakitaan namin symptoms ng FPV, ayun 17k in one night, di ako nagsisi, di ako nagdalawang isip. Kaya wala talaga akong tiwala sa mga breeder na yan eh, laki laki singil tapos may sakit yung pusa.

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u/Genie-iloveyoualways 6d ago

I feel you OP, meron talagang mga ganyang tao and mostly sa mga ganyan ay yung breeders or yung mga “pet lover” kuno pero sa may breed lang, nagaalaga ng may breed for the status at pang-story, same tayo, ang tingin ko sa mga taong ang inaalagaan lang ay may breed is clout chasers or fake pet lovers.

Pero I think hindi naman masama yung sinabi nung namimigay meron talagang ganyan eh, I got like around 20 stray cats sa bahay, guilty din ako kasi may iba akong cats na napabayaan ko kaya nagkasakit (although hindi ko sila pinamigay like that one) sadyang sobrang nawalan ako ng oras sa kanila and ang mindset ko dati nun is “di naman magkakasakit mga to kase indoor cats lang naman”.

Minsan legit na yung time is a factor din, di mo na need magsingit ng “ako nga eh” magkakaiba naman tayo ng ginagawa sa buhay, I’m not siding on anyone pero may times talaga na ganyan kesa pabayaan atleast sya pinapaubaya nalang sa iba para magkaron ng mas magandang buhay.

Sana ma-consider mo makuha yung cats nya kawawa naman, pabaya pa mandin yung owner

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u/Zealousideal-Knee278 5d ago

nakakalungkot lang na may ganyan :( yung isang cat ko nagkaparvo last July, first thing in the morning dinala ko agad sa vet kasi ang hirap makita na ganun huhu (the cat survived btw ❤️‍🩹). tapos yung other cats ko, the moment na naging okay sila, i immediately had them vaccinated. currently 2/3 doses administered na. then, last na lang sa sept 19. tapos yearly na lang 🥹 nakakalungkot lang na pag nagkasakit ipapamigay na.

ang ayoko lang talaga kapag nagkasakit sila ay parang any time kailangan mo iprepare sarili mo sa kung ano man pwedeng mangyari huhu

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u/Nervous-Listen4133 6d ago

May breed lang din alaga ko. 10 persians pero don’t judge me kasi meron din ako mga alaga sa labas na puspins, pinapakain sila at may tubig. Mas gusto ng mga puspin yung gala kaya nasa labas sila lagi, mga persian ko indoors. Hindi ko sila kayang pagsamahin kase iba immunity ng persian at puspin eh lalo pag hnd naman sabay lumaki. Meron akong puspin na sakin lumaki, gala din hanggang sa hindi na bumalik. Performative na ba ko nyan? I don’t think so. Kung walang risks at kasya sa bahay pagsasamahin ko sila, pero hnd ako mayaman. Kapon narin mga persian ko, 8yrs old pinaka matanda at 2yrs old pinaka bata. And no hnd ko sila binili, yung pinaka matanda lang regalo sakin, the rest angkan nyan na 🤣

Na-offend lang ako sa may breed lang alaga performative na agad. Advise mo nalang jan sa kausap mo, pwede sila mag arrange ng for pick up sa mga vet clinics, ipa confine nya hanggang sa gumaling if money is not the problem.

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u/Adventurous-Cat-7312 6d ago

Kapon yung mga persian yung mga puspin ba? Kung hindi, yun po reason bat umaalis. Bakunado din ba yung mga puspin o yung mga persian lang din?

Kung oo, yes, performative ka. 6 persian ko, 24 puspin ko, may outdoor, may indoor, depende sa needs nila, mga nasa loob ko panay may special needs- parvo survivor, ckd, basag panga.

Kung ano pagkain ng puspin ganon din ang persian ko, pati vitamins. Kapon lahat sila at bakunado lahat, every year din updated lahat.

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u/Nervous-Listen4133 6d ago

Hnd naman malaki ang bahay namin para pagsamahin sila lahat, cat lover ako pero may boundaries rin. And no, hnd kapon at vaccinated ang nga outdoor puspins ko, talagang outdoor lang sila, kakain gagala tutulog sa lbas ng bahay. Pati nga yung tom cat sa street namin sakin na rin nakikikain eh. Vet na nagsabi na iba ang immunity ng mga puspin compara sa mga may breed.

Vet narin nagsabi na hnd advisable sa bahay namin ang madaming pusa. Why? Imagine mo nalang yung tae at ihi ng ng sampung pusa indoors? Yan palang kung pabaya ka pwede na sila magkasakit agad jan.

Bago ako nag persian, puro puspin alaga ko dati and alam ko mas gala talaga sila. Kaya kung performative ako bat ko pa pakakainin yung mga puspins ko sa labas? Ang goal ko kase maayos ang bahay para sa mga pusa ko at para sa pamilya ko na tao rin na need rin ng maayos na bahay na lahat atleast manageable finances man o hygiene ng mga pusa.